Hi CDL, I have greatly admired your knowledge, valued your opinion and received great advice from you. Please stop and take a breath. It seems you are in shock and maybe a little sad to hear what you have heard from brother David. He says brother because he still wants to feel like we are all family, and we are. Maybe he was just expressing his own questions out loud and is searching an avenue for himself. If his own are rejecting him then he came here to let out a little hoping not to be cast off by us. He will grow and be different as he clears his own soul to prepare for God’s grace filling of the spirit, for his vocation. It must have been hard for him to make this decision. I was surprised myself to hear.
Many people (family) have come on this forum asking questions such as Am I really married if My spouse is not catholic and am I going to hell if I took birth control so let’s just let a question go and bear some fruit which I think can happen if we give it some time and nurturing. I understand how you feel but he is going through a change right now and in a month or 4 he will look back and we want him to know he received the love and understanding that only you can give. By the way that was a beautiful statement you made about loving the pope, thank you I’ve never heard that before from anyone. Blessings