Another aspect of this thread that hasn’t been brought up yet is that the posts of BA and StHilarious demonstrate the profound difference in what protestants call ‘worship’ and Catholics call worship. Since protestants do not offer up a pure offering to God (the Eucharist) they substitute with “praying” to God–along with scripture reading, music, sermon, etc. When a protestant sees that we “pray” to Mary or another saint, they immediately, and wrongly, assume that it is worship. It is not worship, not even close. But since protestant theology is miles from Catholic theology in this area it is hard to explain it.
I’m not saying that Catholic worship to God doesn’t include personal prayer (who wants to bet that my words will be twisted here?) but the Mass is not about personal prayer. It is about the community of God offering to God a pure offering (Mal 1:11) in spirit and truth (Jn 4:23).
Loving and honoring and petitioning Mary is not worship. It does not usurp God’s place or position in our hearts. When we petition Mary through prayer, the understanding is that she will present our prayer to her Son. That is why it is called intercessory prayer. All graces given to Mary have been given to her by God. If you don’t believe that Mary has any influence with her Son, read about the wedding at Cana. Or start a new thread about prayers to Mary that have been answered. You will probably get 100 responses in a couple days…