Anna, while I do not condone these bland condemnations, I can understand objections from Catholics about use of the proper name Catholic. As you know, those who are members of the Catholic Church get knocked left and right from all sides for being Catholic, so the proper name also connotes a strong sense identity for practicing, faithful Catholics. I trust in Christian charity that you can appreciate that point.
That said, we recognize that Catholic was originally used to mean “universal” and is a term used for purposes other than refering to members of the Catholic Church. In charity, I assume that you use it to refer to the purity of your beliefs with respect to essential elements of faith.
FWIW - from everything you have wrote and shared, you seem more Catholic than Anglican to me!
What is certainly less forgiving is the utterly improper use of the term “protestant” to refer to all those who are not members of the Catholic Church. As an Eastern Catholic, I have even been told many times in my life that I am not Catholic by fellow Catholics of the Latin tradition. These are views which must be corrected, as they do nothing but harm the cause of ecumenism to which we are all called by the Catholic Church and Christ directly, who wishes us all to “be as one”.
I will be monitoring this thread closely, waiting for the inevitable reactions of our faithful Orthodox contributors to CAF, who will certainly be pleased to see that they have once again been branded “protestant”.