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grannymh
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It is not an either-or situation.I’m assuming this is from the CCC and that you didn’t write it. It makes me wonder if there is any hope for a good marriage - after all, "the union of man and woman becomes subject to tensions, their relations henceforth marked by lust and domination. So - what about a man and a woman who honestly love each other, have kept their vows which they stated in a Catholic ceremony (meaning the Sacrament of Matrimony), who do not look upon each other or others with lust, who submit to each other in love.
Is that even possible or is the Church telling us that marriage is henceforth ruined and nothing we do can make it work?
It’s the same with “harmony with creation.” Is the Church telling us that nothing we do will be any good - we’ve messed it up once and that is it; and what is this about “visible” creation becoming alien and hostile toward man? What about “invisible creation?” Is "invisible creation (whatever the heck that is) not becoming alien and hostile toward man? And aren’t we part of God’s creation? So are we becoming alien and hostile toward ourselves (I can understand hostile but alien?)? Or is it other parts of creation that are alien and hostile toward man?
I’m also bothered by the shattering of “the control of the soul’s spiritual faculties over the body.” So our souls do us no good? Why then do I pray? Why do I submit myself to God? Why do I try to be obedient to Him?
Why don’t I just give up right now, leave the Church, and go back to being an agnostic/atheist (depending on my mood)? It doesn’t seem that there is any hope for me so why bother?
You need to read the opening line of CCC 410 – “After his fall, man was not abandoned by God.” Then review the graces which come from the Sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation, Reconciliation, the Eucharist, and Matrimony. Note: even when a marriage does not work out, one can keep asking for the graces of the Sacrament of Matrimony so that one can survive.
You need to find CCC 405 which says that our human nature was not totally corrupted.
Find the Scripture verses which begin with “Come to Me all you who are burdened…”
Picture yourself as the woman who touches the hem of Christ’s garment. Or the woman at the well. (This is my personal favorite.)
Gain strength from the prayer “Hail Mary”
As Inocente says: Christ died for all.
Blessings,
granny
John 3:16-17