There are plenty of changes that can be made regarding the remarried. But giving communion to those who are remarried without an annulment cannot be one of them without contradicting the indissolubility of marriage and/or the nature of the Eucharist (which are doctrine).
One may argue that the
doctrine of the nature and culpability for sin, and thus the sacrament of reconciliation, are also involved. And that the application of this doctrine recognizes that habitual mortal sin may involve reduced culpability. This is already clearly spelled out for the sin of masturbation for instance, in the CCC. One can thus argue that there
appears to be a logical inconsistency here if we state that this particular sin is somehow exempt from the normal laws governing the assessment of culpability. I’m sure I’m not the only one to spot this inconsistency though I readily admit I am way above my pay grade here. I do think the Holy Father was quite right to ask that this be on the table at the Synod. Of course it’s not surprising that there’s an apparent logical inconsistency. Doctrine may be God-given, but praxis is tainted by the foibles of humans emanating from Original Sin.
It may thus be possible to have room to examine this in the confessional. First however, the divorced and remarried who, for reasons entirely of their own, choose to remain in a conjugal relationship, will have to be admitted to the sacrament of reconciliation, which currently they are not unless they undertake to live as brother and sister.
The things that are
not on the table are doctrine, which I think
everyone agrees with:
-A valid marriage is indissoluble
-A declaration of nullity means there
never was a valid marriage in the first place
-It is gravely sinful to approach the Eucharist in a state of mortal sin.
What some of us don’t agree with, or need clarified is that:
-A continued conjugal relationship, in certain circumstances, while grave matter, does not automatically infer mortal culpability. If it does, then those arguing that point need to explain to the laity why this is the case, in clear terms we can understand. It’s not only the “liberals” that are sowing confusion. So far the explanations from the conservatives on the issue have appeared illogical and confusing to some of us.
Therefore it would seem to me that a first step would be to allow a case-by-case evaluation in the confessional, which would require a change of praxis by first even allowing the divorced and remarried access to that sacrament even if they continue in their conjugal relationship. It can then be assessed if, for instance, “force of acquired habit” reduces the culpability for the conjugal relationship to venial, particularly in the case of someone who bore no or very minimal fault for the original divorce (abandonment, abuse, etc.) and long-standing successful second civil marriage.
I thus don’t fear (unlike many here it appears) that this issue be discussed openly, and why I am somewhat taken aback by the posturing of cardinals and bishops who seem afraid of an honest examination of the question on the table. The Holy Father has asked for an open and honest discussion from all sides in the issue. Let us thus let them get on with the task! If my suspicions about the logical inconsistency are proved wrong by the Magisterium (and not by anyone on this forum… sorry, but I’ll wait for the outcome of the Synod to have my question answered by those most qualified to answer it, and am not interested in arguing the point), then I will do as any Benedictine oblate would do, submit in humble obedience, and pray that these marital circumstances never befall me.