One must remember that the Church is not a club with a membership card that can be revoked. A person receiving an excommunication is barred from the Sacraments (except reconciliation) until they have been restored to grace through repentance and confession. A baptized Catholic is always a Catholic even if they have been excommunicated. The judge should know that, just as the judge should know that the Church has no Divine authority to ordain women.
Without doubt or question the church has fallen short in how it has handled the abuse crisis and it has been slow to respond. There is no defense or excuse for the horrible actions some Priests have committed against the young. However, the Church has taken action in many areas and abuse today is lower in Catholic institutions (in the USA), than in any other place. Helping victims still in pain remains a priority and insuring such horrors do not happen again is at the forefront of the Church's concerns...the judge, if she did proper research, would know that.
What is more troubling is that the judge claims to have had 22 years of Catholic education, yet she appears to not have a grasp on the nature of sin, and she certainly does not appear to understand the fallen nature of all humanity (as if Priests are somehow protected from their own fallen nature).
As Catholics, we believe with absolute conviction that the Roman Catholic Church is the one true Church that Christ founded and that it represents the fullness of the Christian faith. Never did Christ promise an easy journey for us or for His Church. In fact, Jesus once promised that the gates of Hades would not prevail against His Church, which means that the gates of Hades would constantly try to tear down His Church. Grave sinners have existed in the Church from the very beginning, the infamous Judas committed a most incredible grave sin when he betrayed Christ, yet the other Apostles and the other believers of that day did not walk away from Christ simply because Judas committed a heinous act.
As Catholics we believe that Christ is truly present in His Real Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity in the form of the Eucharistic species. Every time we receive communion in a state of grace we are flooded with graces from our Risen Lord. One would hope that it would be very nearly impossible to pull someone away from such an amazing gift, yet in the end people must have a proper understanding and formation to realize what they are receiving during communion, despite the existence of sinners all around us.
It is my hope and prayer that Judge O’Brien learns the faith at much more deep and personal level and that she chooses to remain with Christ and His Church. After all, getting to Heaven should be the goal for every person.