And if all hell is is separation from a god that would send people there to begin with.
See, you didn’t read the post! Read it again instead of just reacting, If you re-read it, you will se that God doesn’t send anyone to hell. God simply does not force anyone to be with him in eternity if they don’t want to. It is the opposite of being cruel. It really seems that you don’t want to know the truth of the matter. That’s up to you. Go whereever you will and do whatever you want. No one is going to force you to accept the truth. Have a nice life.
If I might be permitted to interject for my atheistic comrade, might not his difficulty lie with accepting the choice of either residing or departing from a deity who not only does not appear to exist, from his perspective, but who also appears largely indifferent to the outcome?
For example, let us imagine an erstwhile loving parent (indeed, one with a reputation as a great humanitarian) who might invite an estranged child who always doubted his/her sincerity to a thanksgiving dinner. Now suppose this child, in a fit of rebellion, decided against attending the banquet on the principle that he never felt real affection from this parent and imagined the ordeal would be an uncomfortable one.
Supposing this child’s turning down of the offer were met with no objection and the feast proceeded as planned as though his absence were inconsequential, would his belief in the superficiality (or perhaps, vagarity) of the love in question be justified?
Now suppose this child arrived at the very door of his parent’s abode and could hear the merriment within. The child is cold and hungry and it is dark outside so he reasons with himself that he might as well recant his objections and make a civil attempt to join in the festivities for his suspicion of the love of the parent has only brought him further misery. So, boldly, he knocks at the door, but it remains locked fast. After repeated attempts he finally hears his parent yell at him from an upper story window to depart as he is accursed for not having believed in his love before the party began.
Has he not just been vindicated in his suspicions from the outset? Where resides the proof of the claim that his parent’s love was great? Where is the proof of the parent’s claim that the child was loved more than he could know, even before he was born? Does the parent’s attitude not instead strike one as indifferent?
What Earthly parent might enjoy a festive party while any of his children languish in the street outside for any reason, let alone because he has bolted his door to them?
Now, in fairness, this might not be the situation one might encounter in an afterlife, but if it is the essence as fairly described by the Bible is it not understandable for many to arrive at this conclusion and so reject this particular god’s claim to be loving based upon it? And if this claim might be rejected, how much easier is it to proceed to reject the rest since all is built upon the presumption of this loving nature? Now, once the rest is rejected, does this necessarily imply that the atheist wished to do so from the onset?
What choice might then exist for the atheist to love such a god?
My apologies, jmvizanko, if I have in any way misrepresented any part of your position or taken liberties in replying on your behalf.