The problem is that atheists don’t think your god exists. I’d love to meet a god or go to heaven if I thought they existed. But once again, it comes down to what we think is true, which we cannot choose, not what we choose. What person would in their right mind would choose to go to hell? Atheists are not atheists because they don’t want rules, they just honestly don’t think your religion is true.
I see, you’re one of those “If there is no empirical evidence, then it doesn’t exist” type of atheists.
The problem is that such a statement is, itself, a faith based statement. I’ll be the first to admit that there is little empirical evidence for God, and none that admits of no possibility for skepticism… that is, after all, why they call it a “belief” in God. If I had empirical evidence, it wouldn’t be belief, it would be knowledge.
But the absence of empirical evidence is not DISPROOF of God either. In fact, if we were to take the truly rational position on God, we’d all be agnostics (on the basis that God is outside of the universe, and therefore not subject to empirical detection as to whether or not He is there). The best that we can empirically do is to look at the lack of empirical evidence and say that a “scientific” answer is not going to happen… in other words, the purely rationalist answer is “we won’t know until we die.”
HOWEVER, there is also another kind of proof… you know, ones which often decide court cases for juries, and ones which you make decisions about every single day. These are what I would call “compelling proofs”… things which are not empirically undeniable, but about which, when compiled, paint a pretty good picture of what’s going on. These compelling proofs, in my not so humble opinion, paint a clear picture that God exists (not necessarily my God, but at least A GOD. Discerning the traits of God is a wholly separate issue than discerning if God exists)…
The problem you’re faced with, then, is that there IS evidence FOR God… real evidence too. Miracles abound, be it the miracle of the sun, the healings at Lourdes, the bleeding Eucharist at Lanciano (which is unrotten flesh, even though it has been around for centuries), the healing of even the amputee Miguel Juan Pellicer of Calanda, and a bevvy of others. We can couple this experiential evidence with the classical cosmological arguments, the arguments of Aquinas, etc etc to arrive at a compelling argument that God exists… or we can deny the compelling evidence and steadfastly hold resolute to the idea that because there is no empirical evidence directly available to us, that God must not exist.
You’ve chosen the latter… and yet you tell me it wasn’t your choice to determine, based on no empirical evidence whatsoever, that the positive logical syllogism “there is no God” is the right and only answer you can come to. Don’t be silly! Taking that position, rather than the agnostic position, is most CERTAINLY a choice you’ve made along the way. At
least you could say with pride that you didn’t take the intellectually lazy route of forever accepting agnosticism, that you at least made a choice…