Peace be with you!

Jelrak TB;9009275:
Well sure. They all boil down to the same concept: we lack internal harmony and completion without God, so we hopelessly seek things to fill that void.
So if one feels any sort of lack, they are essentially feeling a lack of God?
How are you certain that this is the case and not merely the actual lacks that are stated on the surface? Is one’s craving for an extra helping of desert truly indicative that there is a pie-shaped hole in their heart where God is missing?
When it beats the alternative, as I proposed.
It beats the alternative where one does
not allow one’s opponent to wallow in misery? How is that possible?
How justified are our own transgressions against God? How fair is it that God would become incarnate and suffer arguably the worst imaginable death possible?
As for God’s role in his own death, how are we to even consider such a thing? For did it not remain within God’s power to prevent it? Did God not predict the very thing and proceed willingly to it? Is not God implicitly responsible for his own death in such a case?
How fair is the concept that any, other than those who were there, should bear the guilt of such a death? How fair is the concept that the fall of mankind is fostered upon all due to the actions of two?
Indeed, how fair were the deaths of all of the first-born in Egypt due to the singular stubbornness of Pharaoh?
God isn’t limited to what is subjectively fair
. He always does things that are in our best interest. He gives every person enough grace to come to know him, love him, and serve him.
Love is Grace and Grace is
free.
Gratia. That’s not just on the part of God, it’s on
our part! We
must be disposed to receive grace by nature of free will, or else God wouldn’t be benevolent in creating us to hopelessly seek him! We are people with human dignity, not puppets. We are made in
his image, which is the image of freedom, benevolence, and love. The
only downside of love is when it is abused. The fault is not of God, the lover, but of us, the beloved who have abused that privelege.
Would you value a lover who claimed to set you free in such a manner–to freely choose them or not–but with the understanding that should you not choose them you would be evicted from your home and made to live out your days on the streets?
He certainly could. But you said it yourself. He is love. His respects the freedom he gives us, and so he wouldn’t. He has lost far more, been betrayed more, and hated more than any of us ever have, simply because he wants us to spend eternity with him.
Is God able to suffer? More to the point, is mankind able to cause God pain?
And then after that, he became incarnated to suffer arguably one of the worst deaths possible so that we could still have the opportunity to be reconciled with him again. This is not a question of whether or not God is benevolent. Benevolence is love, as you so stated, and love is begotten of freedom.
In order for love to be true, does it not require the ability to be freely given by both parties? Free of dire consequence should it be withheld? What tender-hearted young man approaches the girl he has been courting and offers her the free choice to either marry him or be banished from his surroundings to suffer in torment?
In order to have a loving relationship with God, we must be allowed to freely suffer consequences proper to our actions. Offenses against eternal benevolence naturally result in loss of that eternal benevolence. If our freedom wasn’t respected, we’d just be puppets, and that’s contrary to being in an intimate relationship with God! Again, he gives each person enough grace to turn to him. The problem is not on God’s part. It’s on ours.
Is the freedom of one who does not love God being respected if she also does not wish to reside in Hell?
[BIBLEDRB] Matthew 5:44-45[/BIBLEDRB]
Judgement is neither active nor passive. It doesn’t exist in time.