The angels who fell knew very well what they were doing and what they were in for, since they were infused with knowledge, unlike us, and yet if they knew what they were choosing, and did it anyways, wouldn’t humans also?
some people really just don’t want to serve God, they choose themselves, and here’s the thing, heaven is not a place anyone will want to go who does not love God, if you don’t love God, then heaven is like hell for you, the same way a marriage would be with someone you really don’t want to be around, God isn’t going to force you to love Him or force you to go to heaven, and you can’t force your way in either, it’s not like we deserve heaven, we don’t deserve anything, and yet we’re so ungrateful to say something like “how cruel God is! to allow us to go to hell”…of course it’s entirely our choice, but it’s not cruel, God gives us plenty of chances, the angels only got 1 chance! but we get as many as we need, we should be grateful for what we do have, and make the most of it, because honestly, we don’t know what happens to those who didn’t know better, it’s very possible they don’t go to hell, although only God knows, and yet that should not be our concern, if you think someone may be in danger of going to hell, then it is your responsibility to help them! don’t blame it on God, we are told *“Open rebuke is better than hidden love” *Proverbs 27:5 which means, to love will do no good if it’s concealed, but to rebuke may at least cause amendment, and what is true love? to tell others what will make them happy now? or what will make them happy forever? is it better to give someone what they want, or what they need? God gives us what we need, even at the risk of being hated, that is true love, forgetting yourself for the love of another, not being concerned with human respect but only with the salvation of souls…which of course is done in charity.
but the point is, if someone thinks it’s so terrible that God would allow others to go to hell, why don’t they do everything they can to stop them from going there? God works through us, and answers our petitions, if we want to save souls, we have to pray first,
but isn’t it also rather arrogant to suggest that God, Who is all love and love itself, would do something cruel or unfair to His creatures, who He loves more than we could ever understand? God is not cruel, He desires our salvation more than anyone ever could, He just does things differently than we would have Him do, but what He does is for the best, He always has what’s best for us at heart, and i think anyone can agree just by looking at the state of the world, that we don’t know what is best, so i think we need to just trust God and do what He says…it’s because we don’t obey His commands that souls are lost, so who’s really to blame? it’s only those who are constantly wanting to do things their way that blame God for anything…but those who know God and love Him know better.
as for the justice of hell,
well, first of all, without hell we are not free, because if there is only heaven, then there’s no point whatsoever to have a free will, and no point to be here on earth to choose God, because if God is the only choice…then there really is no choice…but why is there hell? hell is indeed Gods justice, but the pains of hell are His mercy, the real hell is separation from God, which is a far worse pain than any torture in hell, the pains of hell apart from the loss of God, are to distract the souls in hell from the real pain…
there is both God’s justice and His mercy in hell, and it is fair since we choose it, the same way we show we love God by keeping His commandments “If you love me, keep my commandments.” John 14:15 we also show we hate Him by not keeping them…the same way faith without works is dead “For even as the body without the spirit is dead; so also faith without works is dead.” James 2:26 love is an act of the will, we love by our actions, not by our words or beliefs or faith, but by our acts, and the fact of the matter is, if you love God, you will keep His commandments, if you hate Him, you won’t, and for those who are given fair warning, who choose to hate God, hell is justified…
but lets also remember, who goes to heaven or hell is not set in stone, as long as someone is on earth, they can go to heaven, it’s just up to us to pray and do penance and do good works and set a good example and speak the truth, etc. etc. etc…
no one can say for sure(except God) who goes to hell, and although we don’t know, we must err on the side of caution, it’s Gods job to judge, it’s ours to follow Christ and lead others to Him…the fact that others go to hell should motivate us to do more to save souls, otherwise we’re all talk and no love…
well…not sure that helps, but that’s all, take care.