I honestly don’t know either Peeps. I’m afraid I have nothing more of value to contribute unfortunately.
I think that the Christian response is to care for them–provide them with basic needs and do it without resentment.
It’s probably also Christian to try to help them change their approach to life, but this is not going to be easy. IMO, the choice to avoid work (gainful employment) is probably the result of many years of mistakes that were made by parents and other close relatives, teachers (school, church, childhood clubs), doctors and health care providers, and various friends and acquaintances.
If a child is raised with no expectations and no responsibilities, and no rewards are given for good work, and non-working is taught through words and example as the best approach to living life—well, it’s going to be awfully hard for the child to grow up with a “work ethic.”
In fact, i would say that it’s probably a lost cause, and the best thing Christian people can do is just accept it and remember that Jesus said that we will always have the poor among us. Take care of them and pity them in their handicap that prevents them from knowing the joy of doing a job well and receiving recompense for the work.
Why work?! If someone is going to hand you food, a clean house, clean clothing, money for fun activities, and pass you through school even when you haven’t mastered grade-appropriate material, and health care professionals miss or ignore various medical conditions that should wave a red flag (e.g., flat feet that make it painful for a child/anyone to stand or walk for long periods of time), and parents never enroll you in any kind of extracurricular activity (4-H, scouting, church clubs and groups, music lessons, sports, museum classes, story-time at the library, etc.), and spiritual leaders (pastors, Sunday School teachers, religious ed instructors, etc.) are always uber-positive about the child’s “wonderfulness”, and all the child’s friends are the same laid-back, lounge-on-the-sofa and watch TV or play computer games-types—
–it’s no surprise that the child would grow up to be incapable of sustaining any kind of work beyond opening a bottle of beer or soda and nuking a frozen pizza, both of which were handed to him/her by someone else who worked to earn the money to pay for the food.
There is a part of me that wants to say, “let them starve.” But I think that we all need to remember that they were not raised well, and be grateful that, but for the grace of God, we would be in the same boat. And like i said, the Christian approach is to provide them with their needs.