Well…given your last post, I will answer in the hope that it may be helpful…if not to you, then perhaps it will be to someone else.
And actually, in answer to something you just posted, there are indeed ways to reasonably and civilly ask about and discuss liturgical matters with a parish priest and then with a diocesan official…I sat, off and on, in a chancery across the long years…but it is assuredly not the way you just tried to do it with me.
I can also plainly tell you that there are certainly ways not to do it – unless you want to effectively close that channel of communication permanently.
- “to ad lib an entire Mass” is really to perhaps not have celebrated Mass at all since, in essence, the Presider did not employ the lectionary or missal at all from no sign of the cross in the beginning through to no blessing and dismissal ar the end…to ad lib an entire Mass means absolutely nothing conformed to the texts. If the priest is actually doing that, then you contact the bishop and you say that.
Of course, if that had been reported to me but, after an investigation that involved speaking with the person reporting and then with the priest, the deacon, and others from the parish, and finding the person misrepresented the situation – and the priest did not ad lib the entire Mass but, let us say, changed some number of words here and there – there would have been no second chance to talk to me again, ever. Whereas, if that person had honestly and accurately related what was happening, it would be a wholly different matter.
It is rather like a recent case to which I responded involving “denial of the Eucharist”. “Denial of the Eucharist” is a very specific phrase…it is an allegation with very specific canonical overtones. To invoke it is the equivalent to pulling an alarm lever. Denial of the Eucharist does not mean “I did not get to receive in the way I wished” or “I did not get to receive from the person I wished” or “I did not get to have the posture I wished.”
Again, such a finding. that one of the latter three was what was really meant, would simply result in the person who made a denial of Eucharist claim being informed that what they had made was nothing short of a false allegation because of mischaracterisation. Period. And the discussion would, again, end there.
So now we have upon the table for contemplation a report about words and a report about actions. What one says and how one chooses to say it is profoundly significant. As of course is the distinction between what may actually be happening as opposed to what is supposed to be happening in the moment(s) being considered.
When one is reporting something that constitutes a serious allegation, the allegation has to be accurate in the facts it presents, accurate in the wrong-doing that is being alleged and accurate in its characterisation.
- So, you have talked to the priest, you indicate, and he has answered. Whatever actually is the issue(s), you are not satisfied with the priest’s response. You have every right to speak to an official of the diocese. To do so effectively is to neither overstate the matter(s) or understate the matter(s) but educing them precisely as well as concisely.
- Ultimately, the bishop of the diocese is the supreme moderator of the liturgy in his diocese, according to the norms of law. And he is the ultimate shepherd of his diocese, for both his priests and his laity, under the Pope.
I can think back to experiences in years past where I would field complaints to the bishop concerning priests doing things that “were not in the book” but the priests were choosing options that were, in fact, perfectly legitimate, even if not options that I myself would have chosen. That wasn’t the issue…it was their prerogative, which they legitimately used.
The way I dealt with different situations was as unique as the situations…some required an intervention because it was a significant issue…some required advice…some were, frankly, inconsequential idiosyncracies…from the perspective of a liturgist, which is why I was sent in to evaluate the situation. And frankly, not every norm and every rubric or, for that matter, every canon carries the same weight.
I can also remember cases where the matter was outside what the norm strictly foresaw but within the prerogative of the bishop’s discretion to make allowance…and the matter went to the bishop with his decision favouring the priest in 9 out of 10 cases.
- Using pejorative images or expressions or sarcasm will not result in a meaningful dialogue but will quickly end it.
In any event, the person to seek clarification from is not someone on an internet forum. It is the officials of your own diocese…presuming that the channel of communication is still open to you. They are the only ones, under the Holy See, who can adjudicate the matter.
At the end, do I agree with Monsignor Marini’s counsel in the article? Absolutely. He is quite a remarkable and gifted ecclesiastic. I think his advice was
exactly correct.