Free will is the belief that we are in control. And I believe that that belief is what sin is. We’re not in control. And we never have been. It’s just an illusion. That’s what free will is. It’s an illusion. (Hence, the title of my thread.)
How do you reconcile your perspective with Jesus’ words in John 8?
Then Jesus said to the Jews who had believed in him, “If you continue in my word, you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” They answered him, “We are descendants of Abraham and have never been slaves to anyone. What do you mean by saying, ‘You will be made free’?”
Jesus answered them, “Very truly, I tell you, everyone who commits sin is a slave to sin. The slave does not have a permanent place in the household; the son has a place there forever. So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.
It appears the Jesus (and by implication God) values personal freedom as an end. He appears to be saying the knowing the truth is the means by which a person attains freedom - real freedom.
The other issue I have with your position is that it very much makes the allegory of the wedding feast into a kind of slavish relationship between God and man. If and when man becomes a “slave” to God then God will “marry” mankind. I don’t suppose this is the kind of relationship God wills to have with humanity, just as it is not the kind of relationship God wills a man to have with a woman. Jesus alludes to this very relationship when he refers to the “permanent place in the household.”
I strongly would argue that we take Jesus at his word here. What he means is that he has come to make us whole and that includes personal freedom because sin incapacitates and does not liberate us in any meaningful sense.
Jesus has come to make it possible to share the very life of God - the eternal self-determination of God - with us so that we can relate to God in the same sense that a husband and wife relate to each other. That means transcending the limitations - pride, egotism, self-determining will, vanity, etc., - of a sinful nature by becoming free from those limitations.
It isn’t that sin made us free in Eden. That is the ‘Father of Lies’ version of what happened. Sin places a cap on our freedoms by the very act of sinning. Before Adam and Eve’s sin they enjoyed complete freedom because they fully trusted, knew and lived according to the eternal self-determination of God. By distrusting that relationship, at Satan’s prompting, and looking for something “more” than was possible - more freedom than complete freedom - they bought into a lie and that lie became indistinguishable from the truth because they came to believe it to be true, i.e., “known” as true. Thus, they came to “know” evil - that is believe that knowledge encompasses lies and falsehoods - that falsehood has equal standing with truth and is as believable as truth regarding choices and actions AND believing that viewing it that way is a “freer” state than the truth itself.
Jesus contradicts that lie with the truth that lies and sin do not make anyone free, but rather enslave them because they lose the perspective of “person” from which to properly judge the truth and see it for what it is. The person who sins loses the true perspective and disintegrates as a person because they become what they love - the impersonality of objective existence.
By loving God, the Truth in Christ, we become reintegrated as the truly free person we have been created to be in Christ. By loving God with our whole mind, heart and being, integration into person becomes possible because we are liberated from the false perspectives of egoism, materialism, liberalism, and all the other -isms that falsely claim to make us free, complete and happy, but don’t.