The Church does not claim that any specific person is in hell. By the creed we know Jesus descended into hell, and this is what did there:
CCC632 The frequent New Testament affirmations that Jesus was “raised from the dead” presuppose that the crucified one sojourned in the realm of the dead prior to his resurrection.478 This was the first meaning given in the apostolic preaching to Christ’s descent into hell: that Jesus, like all men, experienced death and in his soul joined the others in the realm of the dead. But he descended there as Savior, proclaiming the Good News to the spirits imprisoned there.479
So, we know that people went there, but we don’t know that anyone is still there, nor that it will ever have a permanent population of any number. The Church has never claimed that any particular person is in hell.
This is false. This is NOT Church teaching. First, when the Apostles Creed refers to “hell” that is the abode of the dead, NOT the “hell” of final damnation. The abode of the dead was even called “Abraham’s Bosom” by Jesus. He is explicit that this is NOT the hell that Lazarus or others are condemned to.
And JESUS, GOD HIMSELF, declares that MANY go to hell. And He also declares that it is neverending. The Church also affirms this. While the Church has never declared a PARTICULAR person in hell (because it’s not her authority), it DOES declare that hell is populated, and is populated by “many”.
1033 We cannot be united with God unless we freely choose to love him. But we cannot love God if we sin gravely against him, against our neighbor or against ourselves: "He who does not love remains in death. Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him."612 Our Lord warns us that we shall be separated from him if we fail to meet the serious needs of the poor and the little ones who are his brethren.613 To die in mortal sin without repenting and accepting God’s merciful love means remaining separated from him for ever by our own free choice. This state of definitive self-exclusion from communion with God and the blessed is called “hell.”
1034 Jesus often speaks of “Gehenna” of “the **unquenchable **fire” reserved for those who to the end of their lives refuse to believe and be converted, where both soul and body can be lost.614 Jesus solemnly proclaims that he "will send his angels, and they will gather . . . all evil doers, and throw them into the furnace of fire,"615 and that he will pronounce the condemnation:
"Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire!"616
1035 The teaching of the Church
affirms the existence of hell and its eternity. Immediately after death the souls of those who die in a state of mortal sin descend into hell, where they suffer the punishments of hell, "eternal fire."617 The chief punishment of hell is eternal separation from God, in whom alone man can possess the life and happiness for which he was created and for which he longs.
1036 The affirmations of Sacred Scripture and the teachings of the Church on the subject of hell are a call to the responsibility incumbent upon man to make use of his freedom in view of his eternal destiny. They are at the same time an urgent call to conversion: "Enter by the narrow gate; **for the gate is wide and the way is easy, that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. **For the gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life, and those who find it are few."618
Since we know neither the day nor the hour, we should follow the advice of the Lord and watch constantly so that, when the single course of our earthly life is completed, we may merit to enter with him into the marriage feast and be numbered among the blessed, and
not, like the wicked and slothful servants, be ordered to depart into the eternal fire, into the outer darkness where "men will weep and gnash their teeth."619
Saints have had many private revelations. While we can read and esteem private revelations, we are not bound to believe them, nor are they substitutes for Catholic doctrine. The idea of a vengeful, wrathful God has some support in scripture, especially in the Old Testament, but that image in itself is runs contrary to God’s infinite mercy. In my opinion, there is a place for both images, and both images are to be respected.
God’s infinite mercy is shown with the existence of hell. For those souls who do not love God, and do not want to be in His presence, God allows a place for them to go. And the pain is beyond anything we can comprehend, because we are MADE to be with Him, and when we are deprived of that, it is excruciating. But to be in God’s presence when you despise Him is even worse.
However, give this some consideration: It is said that we individuals “become like the God we worship”. If this is the case, would we not rather people of all religions worship a God who is infinitely loving, forgiving, and merciful? I am not saying that we are to change our own image of God in order to fall in line with some global discipline. What I am saying is that there is a God within that we can encounter in prayer who loves and forgives infinitely, whose mercy has no bound. God as I know Him has no wrath, and has no drive for vengeance. He always understands and forgives.
I would rather people worship the true and real God as opposed to the one they create in their own mind. I would rather people worship God as He is, as proclaimed by the Catholic Church. Anything else falls short of reality in varying degrees.