Gay marriage... how we ended up where we are

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They say that the church is only against sex outside of marriage. If the church would allow them to marry, than there would be no problem.

The thing that they don’t think about is how sodomization over a number of years can be harmful to the body. Even if you forget about Sodom and Gomorrah, the Church can not condone something that is harmful to the body that God created.
it is very harmful
both physically and spiritually,but it is also an addiction. St Augustine called it the “unnatural vice”

When men engage in that type of sexual contact the submissive partner receives intense stimulation of his prostate where there are also many nerves related to sexual arousal. In addition the resulting orgasm releases a flood of bonding hormones called oxytocin. It creates a very euphoric feeling that probably can be mistaken for love.

Men can love each other very much but to wish to masturbate with a member of the same sex and actually do it is crossing the line.
 
it is very harmful
both physically and spiritually,but it is also an addiction. St Augustine called it the “unnatural vice”

When men engage in that type of sexual contact the submissive partner receives intense stimulation of his prostate where there are also many nerves related to sexual arousal. In addition the resulting orgasm releases a flood of bonding hormones called oxytocin. It creates a very euphoric feeling that probably can be mistaken for love.

Men can love each other very much but to wish to masturbate with a member of the same sex and actually do it is crossing the line.
According to Psychology Today:
Oxytocin is a powerful hormone. When we hug or kiss a loved one, oxytocin levels drive up. It also acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain. In fact, the hormone plays a huge role in pair bonding. Prairie voles, one of nature’s most monogamous species, produce oxytocin in spades. This hormone is also greatly stimulated during sex, birth, breast feeding—the list goes on.
psychologytoday.com/basics/oxytocin

So that oxytocin is dangerous and addictive stuff and even hugging or kissing of loved ones should be discouraged 😉
 
You must not be aware that the media thrives on controversy. As long as there are people on both sides who go to extremes there will be controversy feeding the media.
I’m not referring to extremes or controversy but facts. Take the various statements made by gay right groups and publications like the Advocate (that covers LGBT issues). Instead of taking a proper journalistic approach, they do something that is wrong. Headlines frequently prejudge prior to the contents of the article itself.

Antigay person or persons or group says…

Transphobic person or persons or group says…

Homophobic person or persons or group says…

In some cases, certain groups that publish credible, checkable information are listed as “hate groups.”

Kids in kindergarten are being taught about homosexuality:

abcnews.go.com/WNT/story?id=1230620

Among others, the book titled King and King is given to children in public schools to read. It affirms not only same-sex attraction but gay marriage.

amazon.com/King-Linda-Haan/dp/1582460612

“Diversity” is a word to promote homosexual behavior in the classroom:

amazon.com/Beyond-Diversity-Day-Curriculum-Sexualities/dp/074252034X

Anti-sodomy laws were overturned. Prior to that, gay persons who wanted to engage in sodomy had no impediment.

Gay marriage is a meaningless concept and an impossibility. I have not seen any evidence that homosexual behavior, not Same Sex Attraction, is not a disorder at some level, but that was overruled by a vote taken under pressure from radical gay activists and closeted gays in the American Psychiatric Association in 1973. In 2013, Transgendered Persons were reclassified in the following manner:

“Whereas previously a man who “self-identified” as a woman (or vice versa) could have been classified as mentally ill, now the DSM-5 uses the term “gender dysphoria,” which means it is only a mental illness if you’re troubled by this self-identification. Elated activists in the “LGBT” community had lobbied the APA for the change for years.”

Lobbying for such a change by the LGBT community is neither scientific or rational regarding a diagnosis.

So there you have a pattern of propaganda based on emotion and dismissing opposing claims based on nonexistent phobic conditions or hate. That is neither rational nor informative to the average reader, unless the reader is convinced that labeling someone without further inquiry is the correct approach. Religious leaders, including the Catholic Church, are not immune from being accused of being wrong or not supportive of ‘gay rights.’

There are many legal avenues that are open to gay persons who want to give their property and assets to a gay partner. A durable power of attorney could be drawn up that could include making medical decisions. A will could be drawn up as well.

Parental rights are being ignored regarding information about homosexual relationships being given to students in public schools without parental notification - who decided that? Young minds are not prepared emotionally or psychologically for such information. But as soon as ‘gay marriage’ is legal, they are propagandized.

Gender Identity is a related issue but only receives a one-sided treatment by the media, unless one looks elsewhere.

illinoisfamily.org/education/urgency-of-addressing-gender-confusion-in-public-schools/

Which bathroom should kids use in school? What’s wrong with limiting it to their biological sex (no, I’m not referring to ambiguous situations)?

time.com/3734714/transgender-bathroom-bills-lgbt-discrimination/

Again, propaganda rules the argument.

Ed
 
In some cases, certain groups that publish credible, checkable information are listed as “hate groups.”
So what groups that publish credible, checkable information have been listed as hate groups?
 
I’ll give you one. Mass Resistance, otherwise spelled as one word. They have been listed as a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center.

massresistance.org/docs/issues/gay_strategies/after_the_ball.html

Ed
Southern Poverty Law Center has listed MassResistance as an anti-gay because of “their propagation of known falsehoods — claims about LGBT people that have been thoroughly discredited by scientific authorities”

SPLC said:
18 Anti-Gay Groups and Their Propaganda
splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2010/winter/the-hard-liners
*MassResistance

MassResistance, “the leading pro-family grassroots activist group in Massachusetts,” began life in 1995 as the Parents’ Rights Coalition, became the Article 8 Alliance in 2003, and took on its current name in 2006. Its leader, Brian Camenker, is a programmer who was an official of the Article 8 Alliance and also headed the Newton, Mass., chapter of the National Taxpayers’ Association.

As president of yet another group, the Interfaith Coalition of Massachusetts, Camenker spearheaded the drafting of a bill that passed in 1996 and required that parents be notified of any sex education in their children’s schools. That same year, Camenker claimed that suicide prevention programs aimed at gay youth actually were “put together by homosexual activists to normalize homosexuality.” Later, MassResistance charged that groups like the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN), which support school anti-bullying programs, actually want to lure children into homosexuality and, very possibly, sadomasochism.

At a 2006 religious right gathering in Washington, D.C., Camenker insisted that gays were trying to get legislation passed to allow sex with animals. “One bill in Massachusetts takes away all the penalties for bestiality,” he claimed. “This is where this [homosexual] agenda is going.” A little later, he added, “They [gays and lesbians] are pushing perversion on our kids.”

In 2006-2007, Mass-Resistance pushed for an amendment of the 1996 statute that would have required that parents be notified of any discussion of gay or lesbian issues in the schools. The group proposed language that lumped sexual orientation (which includes heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality) in with criminal behaviors like bestiality and polygamy. During legislative testimony supporting the amendment, Camenker falsely claimed that no homosexuals died in the Holocaust and that the pink triangle the Nazis forced imprisoned gays to wear actually signified Catholic priests. The amendment did not pass.

Camenker, who has long focused on the purported “homosexual agenda” in the schools and frequently claimed gays are dangerous to kids, has repeatedly cited discredited claims from organizations like the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality that link homosexuality and pedophilia.

In 2008, Camenker made another accusation for which there was no supporting evidence at all — the claim that the state of Massachusetts had had to spend more money every year since same-sex marriage became legal in that state. That, he said, was because of “skyrocketing homosexual domestic violence” and because of the “extreme dysfunctional nature of homosexual relationships.”

This year, MassResistance called Boston Gay Pride events a “depraved” display that featured “a great deal of obviously disturbed, dysfunctional, and extremely self-centered people whose aim was to push their agenda.”
 
Southern Poverty Law Center has listed MassResistance as an anti-gay because of “their propagation of known falsehoods — claims about LGBT people that have been thoroughly discredited by scientific authorities”
So, you entirely ignored my first reply? It is correct to state that LGBT groups are targeting kids in schools to normalize gay behavior, causing confusion about human biology at the very least. Parents should be notified. Gay behavior is a perversion.

What “scientific authorities”?

Ed
 
So, you entirely ignored my first reply?
Nope, I didn’t. Had another reply window open but was looking for a link first.
The comments in the review section of “King and King” were rather interesting. But it brought to me a kids cartoon about a group composed of three characters that decided to take on female form taking care of a little boy. Throughout the series another family has evaluated them as being a good family that love and care for the boy and that their love and nurturing is what really matters. One of the character’s showed jealously in several flashbacks when the leader of their group developed an affinity to a man and seemed to try to chase him off and convince him that he would be unsuccessful at any relationship with her. Watching it with my sister we noticed how some aspects of the show could be cast as pro-trans (given that the characters are only females because that’s the form they have decided to take), pro same-sex parenting, and even a bit lesbian👭. Possibly more so in the episodes with one female kissing on another in the past couple of seasons.

Last week I saw a thread on facebook in which some parents found out about one of the episodes and flipped their lids over it. They found out because of an article on Huffington Post ( huffingtonpost.com/entry/cartoon-networks-steven-universe-includes-lesbian-couple_55ae61a0e4b07af29d565e34 ). While they’ve seen their kids watching the cartoon they’ve never paid attention to it and somehow missed first-hand information on what was going on. They all declared their kids would never see the cartoon again.
It is correct to state that LGBT groups are targeting kids in schools
Sure. Many people/groups/organizations trying to make decisions or changes for the world of tomorrow include kids as targets of their messages and media.
to normalize gay behavior
As in “to make not strange.” Sure.
causing confusion about human biology at the very least.
Not sure what you are talking about there.
Parents should be notified. Gay behavior is a perversion.
I am aware there are parents that see it as such.
What “scientific authorities”?
I’m curious about that myself. But for now my only intention is to have the the declaration(s) made by the SPLC on MassResistence available for review.
 
Nope, I didn’t. Had another reply window open but was looking for a link first.
The comments in the review section of “King and King” were rather interesting. But it brought to me a kids cartoon about a group composed of three characters that decided to take on female form taking care of a little boy. Throughout the series another family has evaluated them as being a good family that love and care for the boy and that their love and nurturing is what really matters. One of the character’s showed jealously in several flashbacks when the leader of their group developed an affinity to a man and seemed to try to chase him off and convince him that he would be unsuccessful at any relationship with her. Watching it with my sister we noticed how some aspects of the show could be cast as pro-trans (given that the characters are only females because that’s the form they have decided to take), pro same-sex parenting, and even a bit lesbian👭. Possibly more so in the episodes with one female kissing on another in the past couple of seasons.

Last week I saw a thread on facebook in which some parents found out about one of the episodes and flipped their lids over it. They found out because of an article on Huffington Post ( huffingtonpost.com/entry/cartoon-networks-steven-universe-includes-lesbian-couple_55ae61a0e4b07af29d565e34 ). While they’ve seen their kids watching the cartoon they’ve never paid attention to it and somehow missed first-hand information on what was going on. They all declared their kids would never see the cartoon again.

Sure. Many people/groups/organizations trying to make decisions or changes for the world of tomorrow include kids as targets of their messages and media.

As in “to make not strange.” Sure.
Not sure what you are talking about there.

I am aware there are parents that see it as such.

I’m curious about that myself. But for now my only intention is to have the the declaration(s) made by the SPLC on MassResistence available for review.
By normalize gay behavior - it’s been around for a long time - I mean being out and proud is a recent occurrence. It is not unknown.

lifesitenews.com/news/san-diego-firefighters-win-lawsuit-over-forced-participation-in-gay-pride-p

It is very common for the media to promote it - and not just the more extreme people on either side of it, meaning for or against promoting gay behavior. The vast majority of the media is positive towards it and depictions of ‘married’ gay couples or gay couples in relationships are increasing on TV and other media. Catholics, at least, should not be indifferent. Or allow this to turn into another “Hey. What’s the big deal?” mess in society.

The perversion of human sexuality in the “mainstream” started in the late 1960s and has gotten worse and worse in every decade that followed till today.

Ed
 
By normalize gay behavior - it’s been around for a long time - I mean being out and proud is a recent occurrence. It is not unknown.

lifesitenews.com/news/san-diego-firefighters-win-lawsuit-over-forced-participation-in-gay-pride-p
Do I oppose gay people publicly identifying as gay? No.
Do I oppose gay people feeling or expressing pride in aspects of their self identity? No.
Do I support the firefighters being told to participate in a gay pride parade or suffer penalties? No. On a related note the cheif of the Atlanta fire department was let go this year because continued anti-gay expressions (ref).

Throughout USA history you’ll find that many minority groups have had campaigns to make their presence known, express pride about it often times in response to negative treatment against the group(s) (African Americans, Latin Americans, Muslim Americans, Gays, and others). Without information that convincingly shows that the attributes in which they express pride or linked to harm of others I don’t have feelings of opposition to it. So one can be out of the closets and into the streets and I’m fine with it (so long as traffic isn’t severely impacted in the process😊 ). There may be other conditions that could cause me to have feelings of opposition, but they haven’t yet occurred.
It is very common for the media to promote it - and not just the more extreme people on either side of it, meaning for or against promoting gay behavior.
The media" is the result of human expression. Just as people have had feelings of opposition and support among the media corpus and other records you will find evidence of opposition and support. Human expressions but influence people and are influenced by people. That’s part of being in a society.
The vast majority of the media is positive towards it and depictions of ‘married’ gay couples or gay couples in relationships are increasing on TV and other media.
How do a vast majority of people feel about it?
Catholics, at least, should not be indifferent.
The last Pew research survey I saw on the topic suggest that Catholics are not indifferent to it.
The perversion of human sexuality in the “mainstream” started in the late 1960s and has gotten worse and worse in every decade that followed till today.
Views on sexuality have changed since the 1960s. Well, they’ve changed since before then too. They also have differed over cultures and geographies. Views of human sexuality are not static.
 
The last Pew research survey I saw on the topic suggest that Catholics are not indifferent to it.
Yup:
Fully 85% of self-identified Catholics ages 18-29 said in a 2014 Pew Research Center survey that homosexuality should be accepted by society, compared with just 13% who said it should be discouraged. Older age groups are less likely to favor acceptance. But even among Catholics ages 65 and older, 57% say that homosexuality should be accepted.
Some of these differences may correlate with the frequency of church attendance. Our research has found that older Catholics attend Mass more frequently than do their younger counterparts, and that Catholics who attend Mass at least weekly are more likely to say that homosexuality should be discouraged than those who do not. But even among churchgoing Catholics of all ages – that is, those who attend Mass at least weekly – roughly twice as many say homosexuality should be accepted (60%) as say it should be discouraged (31%).
Similarly, despite the church’s continued opposition to same-sex marriage, most U.S. Catholics (57%) favor allowing gay and lesbian couples to legally wed, according to aggregated 2014 Pew Research surveys. And again, younger Catholics are particularly likely to express this view. Three-quarters of Catholic adults under 30 support legal same-sex marriage, compared with 53% of Catholics ages 30 and older (including just 38% of those 65 and older).
pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2014/10/16/young-u-s-catholics-overwhelmingly-accepting-of-homosexuality/
 
Homosexual masturbation is wrong.It always has been and always will be no matter what psychiatrists say. There are are myriad of sexual deviations related to erotica.One becomes aroused by many things that they see and perceive as beautiful and sexual. As the catechism states the psychological genesis of homosexual attraction remains largely unexplained.The acts (sodomy) are gravely depraved.

That being said I pretty much understand the agenda you are promoting on this Catholic forum.You are not seeking the truth with charity but trying to shove sexual perversion down the throats of Catholics.

As I said before, the culmination of the Kinsey agenda is to incorporate the last taboo,and that is children… Teach them about sexual perversions young and desensitize them and they will be easy targets.
 
Its also related to NOW and abortion. Margaret Sanger was a bisexual and the more you delink sex and children, then maybe that leads to support of homosexuality. Also, for a lot of people, if pushed to support some other issue that they don’t feel sympathy for, they seem to support this issue more.
 
Do I oppose gay people publicly identifying as gay? No.
Do I oppose gay people feeling or expressing pride in aspects of their self identity? No.
Do I support the firefighters being told to participate in a gay pride parade or suffer penalties? No. On a related note the cheif of the Atlanta fire department was let go this year because continued anti-gay expressions (ref).

Throughout USA history you’ll find that many minority groups have had campaigns to make their presence known, express pride about it often times in response to negative treatment against the group(s) (African Americans, Latin Americans, Muslim Americans, Gays, and others). Without information that convincingly shows that the attributes in which they express pride or linked to harm of others I don’t have feelings of opposition to it. So one can be out of the closets and into the streets and I’m fine with it (so long as traffic isn’t severely impacted in the process😊 ). There may be other conditions that could cause me to have feelings of opposition, but they haven’t yet occurred.

The media" is the result of human expression. Just as people have had feelings of opposition and support among the media corpus and other records you will find evidence of opposition and support. Human expressions but influence people and are influenced by people. That’s part of being in a society.

How do a vast majority of people feel about it?

The last Pew research survey I saw on the topic suggest that Catholics are not indifferent to it.

Views on sexuality have changed since the 1960s. Well, they’ve changed since before then too. They also have differed over cultures and geographies. Views of human sexuality are not static.
There’s a difference between views and legalizing those views. I am sick and tired of “gay behavior is OK” propaganda. That is supported by the Church, which includes human Biology.

The Sexual - without love - Revolution was a planned disaster, which included millions of dollars being spent on prostitutes, photographers, printers, warehousing and other employees. Not to mention strip clubs (gentlemen’s clubs), topless bars and ads in certain publications for no strings attached sex with women.

I lived through all of it, and, in some cases, it made sex more important than any risks involved, including HIV/AIDS. So, certain companies went beyond The Pill to add the IUD, Barrier, spermicidal foam, the morning after pill, and legal abortion. This has meant literal death for millions of human beings.

In 1973, when the US Supreme Court, not the people whom were lied to, legalized killing babies in the womb, we add no-fault divorce, and now, any LGBT person who wants to adopt can do so, in violation of the best interests of the child.

Gay marriage is a legal fiction that once the US Supreme Court made another grave error, immediately resulted in a man with two women filing for the right to marry both of them.

I think any rational human being can see what’s coming next. lifesitenews.com/news/sibling-incest-should-be-legal-says-danish-professor-of-criminal-justice-et

But common sense has been thrown out, along with throwing away the idea of what the word ‘family’ actually means.

The media is controlled by people with agendas. I’ve watched it deform over the decades. Anything that means more sex and different kinds of sex are championed. The “mainstream” media manipulates.

Ed
 
That’s a very good book. It details how all previous “researches” were done only on inmates and psychopaths, it details what new researches were made on normal people as they should have been from the beginning… From the book we learn how the opponents of removing homosexuality from DSM( most of them Xhristians btw) after they lost scientific debates initiated the infamous voting procedure.. We learn how psychologists were fighting against obscurantists.

It’s a very good book. Catholics should read it very carefully.
I am sick and tired of “gay behavior is OK” propaganda. That is supported by twhich includes human Biology.
Human sexual orientation which includes three orientations based on sex 0 homosexuality, bisexuality and heterosexuality are OK. They are not behavior. But I’m not surprised that obscurantist wage war against science. As for biology… Mother Nature is perfectly fine with homosexuality, yes. Unlike the god invented by the ancient Jewish tribes.
any LGBT person who wants to adopt can do so, in violation of the best interests of the child.
Will you advocate for removing your daughter’s child from her family since she is a sodomite(using yours and the likes of yours words) and she is gonna marry and have a child with her partner ?
I think any** rational** human being…But common sense
That’s rich coming from a believer in supernatural
Kids in kindergarten are being taught about homosexuality:
More lies? They are told that families are different.
to promote homosexual behavior in the classroom:
Yeah… Nope.
Anti-sodomy laws were overturned
Does you daughter know that you are against removing anti-human anti-homosexual criminal laws that violate The Universal Declaration of Human Rights?Does she know you view her as mentally ill?
** I have not seen** any evidence that homosexual behavior, not Same Sex Attraction, is not a disorder at some level5
Not surprised in the slightest.
was overruled by a vote taken under pressure from radical gay activists and closeted gays in the American Psychiatric Association in 1973
Will be reported for slander and lies.
 
There’s a difference between views and legalizing those views.
There is entanglement between people’s views and the laws. They are not mutually independent systems.
Gay marriage is a legal fiction that once the US Supreme Court made another grave error, immediately resulted in a man with two women filing for the right to marry both of them.
Okay, people can and do petition for a change in the law.
But common sense has been thrown out, along with throwing away the idea of what the word ‘family’ actually means.
People decide what words mean. Because of this the usage of words has changed over time. The entries in dictionaries are updated if a usage becomes popular enough.

…]Almost all words change their meanings. This is one of the aspects of language that is firmly established. It ought to be evident to all of us that words will take on new meanings as we generally find it confusing to read writing that is more than a few hundred years old. Many of the words carried a different significance than we give to them today…]

Had this discussion with someone in these forums already. There may be usages of the word “family” that are not compatible with your own. I understand that you might find these other usages to be invalid, and that’s fine. A discussion of words and whether or not they have static and intrinsic meanings is an interesting discussion. One I think might have enough content for a thread of it’s own.
 
There is entanglement between people’s views and the laws. They are not mutually independent systems.

Okay, people can and do petition for a change in the law.

People decide what words mean. Because of this the usage of words has changed over time. The entries in dictionaries are updated if a usage becomes popular enough.

…]Almost all words change their meanings. This is one of the aspects of language that is firmly established. It ought to be evident to all of us that words will take on new meanings as we generally find it confusing to read writing that is more than a few hundred years old. Many of the words carried a different significance than we give to them today…]

Had this discussion with someone in these forums already. There may be usages of the word “family” that are not compatible with your own. I understand that you might find these other usages to be invalid, and that’s fine. A discussion of words and whether or not they have static and intrinsic meanings is an interesting discussion. One I think might have enough content for a thread of it’s own.
The valid definition of marriage is a man and woman have a child and take care of and love that child. That’s it. The Catholic Church is the only authority I trust.

It may be novel to rearrange the social furniture but in the case of sex, and this is all about sex, there are lines which should never be crossed. Reinventing words has no place in any discussion about this. Not on a Catholic forum. There is one truth only.

So - no redefinition of family, ever.

No one lobbies for change, and no group, and then says, “Well, we didn’t mean for it to become law,” because you/the group explicitly said so in the first place.

Ed
 
I was interested to hear an Australian senator (she is in a same sex relationship and has / children) remark that she supports SSM but would oppose polygamy. She said the “gender” of partner should not matter but the number does. Of course, if one questions this position, or suggests that rationality says polygamy must be allowed, one is accused of a “slippery slope” argument, as though that descriptor renders flawed the observation of the evident logical progression.

Her position is self-serving, rather than reasoned.

The position that marriage is between one man and one woman rests on the practical reality of the male and female bodies and the good of the family.
 
How do the gay people that you know dress?
You took “no they don’t” out of context. If you are going to quote me, please use and read the whole quote.

I said they don’t wear high heels, do they wear them where you live?
 
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