Since many heterosexual relationships are not monogamous, you make no point.
In order to plant the seed of gay marriage and polyamory, which is being considered right now in Canada, it was necessary to prepare the soil.
In the 1950s, rank and file Catholics were more devout and more respectful of themselves and others. Modesty was enforced in dress and speech. The media was generally very respectful of Christian beliefs and practices. I was there.
There was a Nativity in front of the local City Hall. You didn’t have to look at it, or put money in it or acknowledge it in any way, but every year, around Christmas, the Detroit newspaper would run a beautiful editorial about Christmas.
Now - How To Tear All Of That Down to make the world safe for sexual perverts? First, you convince everybody that they can’t have sex without The Pill.
1960 The Pill approved for sale by the FDA.
Next, you literally put pornography into everybody’s neighborhood so they can come into contact with “alternative lifestyles.” Then, you publish Swinger magazines so people are tempted to move beyond the pictures into actual perverted sexual activity.
In 1968, the Church was very aware of Artificial Birth Control and published Humanae Vitae to warn the faithful. Pope Paul VI warned that there was going to be an increase in sexual promiscuity if his words were not heeded.
Again, the social landscape had to be reengineered. Send in the hippies. Make sure they are getting the message out. The Message: Free Love! Sex with anybody. A Hippie friend told me: “I don’t need no piece of paper to live with my old lady.”
Priests, nuns, mom, dad, they don’t know anything. Down with the Establishment! Woodstock Nation!
And then, when your Catholic mom or dad asked what you were doing. “Leave me alone! I don’t have to listen to you anymore!” And when the outside world asked, they got: “Mind your own business! We’re adults and we’ll do whatever we want!”
1970s Let’s throw in the radical feminist organization called the National Organization for Women. “Sisters! Throw off the chains of your oppression!” Men, all men, were now the eternal enemy. Women, the eternal victims, as if women no longer had even a species relationship with men. This is followed by college courses called Women’s Studies and Women’s Literature. This group was not solution oriented.
Gloria Steinem: “A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.”
And during all this time, whenever the Church or individual Catholics spoke up, they got: Leave us alone! Mind your business! Stay out of our lives!
I watched as a few of my Catholic classmates tried an alternative lifestyle or tried smoking dope. Almost needless to say, not good things. When I asked a classmate in the 1970s, why he was living with his girlfriend, he said, Because we love each other! But why do this instead of getting married? He was Catholic after all.
So, job one was to get as many people as possible to ignore and reject what they had been taught in exchange for permission to have sex without marriage. This was sold as “freedom.” Of course, it began to put some distance between themselves and the Church. But, they were told, they were more free.
1980s Let’s tear families apart, shall we? By instituting No-Fault Divorce, and easy terms: “No kids? $75 and you’re out. Call 800-DIVORCE”
So those intergenerational bonds that existed for years and years were torn apart. Anger from in-laws, broken bonds, traumatized children. But Hollywood and the media gave people the necessary negative reenforcement: movies showed men walking into bars and their buddies, instead of feeling bad about their buddy’s divorce, they encouraged him to look at it as a good thing. That he’ll find someone “better.”
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