"gay" marriage

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StJeanneDArc:
You must have received the same memo as Ken/Zoot. Do proponents of the homosexual agenda have some sort of sacred scripture to underpin their apologetics?
Well there is logic, and the body of laws. Other than that, no not that I’m aware of.

Are you saying that you don’t believe historical marriage was different than that of today? You aren’t aware of what a “dowry” was? You weren’t aware that until not that long ago both wife and children were literally property of the husband and not human beings?
 
Our modern marriages are entirely different than marriage just two hundred years ago when women were property of a man and marriage was an act of buying a wife, not forming a partnership. We’ve continually changed what marriage means.
Actually, men didn’t buy wives, they got paid to take the woman off her parents’ hands traditionally (a dowry);). But that’s besides the point. Certain aspects of marriage may have changed over the years (some for better, some for worse), however it has constantly never been between people of the same sex.

Contraception has distorted our view of marriage geatly. Nowadays, we see marriage as two people who love each other, have sex with each other, and want to spend the rest of their lives together (until they stop getting along at least). The contraceptive mentality has removed the procreative aspect from marriage. If you remove procreation from marriage, gay marriage becomes logical. When procreation is an aspect of marriage, gay marriage makes no sense. Until contraception, procreation was always intrinsically part of marriage, even marriages without the kind of love we associate with it today (like political royal marriages). This is why homosexual marriage wasn’t even a concept until recently (along with “homosexual” becoming a class of people, instead of homosexual acts simply being sins).

As for your dictionary definition, that just shows how the word “marriage” is used today, it doesn’t have any moral authority over what marriage should be.

This is like my second post ever, I hope it’s good!!
 
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Tlaloc:
Well there is logic, and the body of laws. Other than that, no not that I’m aware of.

Are you saying that you don’t believe historical marriage was different than that of today? You aren’t aware of what a “dowry” was? You weren’t aware that until not that long ago both wife and children were literally property of the husband and not human beings?
You also forgot **precedent, **the bane of sound reasoning and a source of faulty tradition.
 
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Tlaloc:
The best solution then is to remove marriage entirely from government, allow all partners (of whatever type) to get governmental civil unions and allow each religion to define marriage as it sees fit. No one is discriminated against and government and religion stay out of each other’s way.
Wrong. Sure recipe for the elimination of marriage as something important in society. The countries’ leadership means a lot and the country needs to value genuine marriage if it is to have a stable society - but, then again, the homosexual agenda is all about eliminating marriage despite the facade about “rights.”

After the civil victory, they intend to pursue modification of marriage in churches and ultimately eliminate all moral religious codes as useless, arbitrary, and not what God really wanted, if there even is a God.

Not on my watch.
 
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Tlaloc:
Seriously, marriage has meant a lot of different things over the centuries and in different places. All the talk about the tradition of marriage is rubbish. Our modern marriages are entirely different than marriage just two hundred years ago when women were property of a man and marriage was an act of buying a wife, not forming a partnership. We’ve continually changed what marriage means.
Marriage has been between one man and one woman since… forever.
 
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Genesis315:
Actually, men didn’t buy wives, they got paid to take the woman off her parents’ hands traditionally (a dowry);). But that’s besides the point. Certain aspects of marriage may have changed over the years (some for better, some for worse), however it has constantly never been between people of the same sex.

Contraception has distorted our view of marriage geatly. Nowadays, we see marriage as two people who love each other, have sex with each other, and want to spend the rest of their lives together (until they stop getting along at least). The contraceptive mentality has removed the procreative aspect from marriage. If you remove procreation from marriage, gay marriage becomes logical. When procreation is an aspect of marriage, gay marriage makes no sense. Until contraception, procreation was always intrinsically part of marriage, even marriages without the kind of love we associate with it today (like political royal marriages). This is why homosexual marriage wasn’t even a concept until recently (along with “homosexual” becoming a class of people, instead of homosexual acts simply being sins).

As for your dictionary definition, that just shows how the word “marriage” is used today, it doesn’t have any moral authority over what marriage should be.

This is like my second post ever, I hope it’s good!!
It’s great! You go for it. If you search these threads you will see the same homosexual apologists promoting the same tired and unsubstantiated arguments. You have quickly grasped the fallacy behind Tlaloc’s statement. Tlaloc or previous iterations such as “Ken” or “Zoot” come on CAF frequently. So far they’ve not fooled anyone but give’em credit for trying.

Indeed certain aspects of marriage have changed over the years. However marriage has always been between male and female. Even in certain societies where homosexual activities were tolerated, the pairings of two men or two women have never been called marriage.

I am totally convinced that the advent of effective and available contraception has really changed the concept of marriage. As you said marriage is now defined as between two people who love or are hot for each other on that date. No wonder homosexuals think that if the only thing that makes a marriage is ‘love’ or some kind of mutual sexual gratification, however temporary, they should get that piece of paper too.

Lisa N
 
“I would like to touch on what the second or so comment says about gay marriages affecting more than just the couple getting married. i agree that the child of gay parents will be GREATLY affected. I know a great many of peers who have grown up without a father figure. So in the case of lesbian marriage, a girl, per se, will grow up without a father’s (name removed by moderator)ut on her life. No comments like “you are daddy’s littel princess” or “you are so beautiful” or the general “when you get older you’ll have to beat boys off with sticks”. Without a positive male confirmation in a girl’s life, whether concious of it or not, she will grow up with the question as to whether she is attractive in the male perspective. Girls without father figures generally turn to boyfriends and most of the time they settle for boyfriends who don’t treat them to well because with low self esteem girls will go for any kind of male attention. In the case of a boy raised by lesbians, he will lack that ever so important “father figure” He won’t have guy time with his dad, or have all those fishing or camping stories. Although one of the moms may try to take on this role, it is impossible. Women, lesbian or not just DONT operate like men do.
Now what if two gay guys adopted a child? Well, with a female, no mother figure. She won’t understand all those feminine wiles. Growing up as a female is SO different and so foreign from men. The way the girl thinks, the developing breasts and bra shopping. What man (gay or not) can truly explain or relate to a girl on an emotional level when she first gets her period?
For a boy? Although the male influence is most important, a mother is an anchor figure for the young man. Have you heard of the oedipus complex? That stage between 2 and five in which the boy becomes jealous of his father and wants to be married to his mother? That is an important developmental stage? What happens then? He will most likely be gay. A mother figure and her characteristics are often what a man looks for in his spouse (most of the time) A man needs a female influence in his life to better understand women if anything!
I am more concerned to what gay families with do to child psychology and developement. We could potentially have a problem of very confused, unstable people in society if gays have children.
Now, just because i do not agree with gay marriage does NOT in any way mean i hate gay people. You can love someone very much and still disagree with their life choices. So i do not agree with homosexuality but I love people for who they are.”

Here’s something that someone wrote in a forum that I found a while ago. I thought it was good.
 
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Genesis315:
Actually, men didn’t buy wives, they got paid to take the woman off her parents’ hands traditionally (a dowry);). But that’s besides the point. Certain aspects of marriage may have changed over the years (some for better, some for worse), however it has constantly never been between people of the same sex.
It was constantly not between people of different races too, until we realized that was a stupid prejudice and allowed it.
Contraception has distorted our view of marriage geatly. Nowadays, we see marriage as two people who love each other, have sex with each other, and want to spend the rest of their lives together (until they stop getting along at least). The contraceptive mentality has removed the procreative aspect from marriage. If you remove procreation from marriage, gay marriage becomes logical. When procreation is an aspect of marriage, gay marriage makes no sense. Until contraception, procreation was always intrinsically part of marriage, even marriages without the kind of love we associate with it today (like political royal marriages). This is why homosexual marriage wasn’t even a concept until recently (along with “homosexual” becoming a class of people, instead of homosexual acts simply being sins).
A good example of how marriage has changed in recent years. I’m glad you admit gay marriage is logical by our new standards of what marriage involves.
As for your dictionary definition, that just shows how the word “marriage” is used today, it doesn’t have any moral authority over what marriage should be.
Of course not, I only posted it because someone went on about how marriage in English means one man and one woman. He was wrong. The dictionary shows that clearly, but no the dictionary is by no means an authoritative source on the real issue being discussed.
This is like my second post ever, I hope it’s good!!
I think it’s fine…for what that’s worth.
 
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Brad:
Wrong. Sure recipe for the elimination of marriage as something important in society. The countries’ leadership means a lot and the country needs to value genuine marriage if it is to have a stable society - but, then again, the homosexual agenda is all about eliminating marriage despite the facade about “rights.”

After the civil victory, they intend to pursue modification of marriage in churches and ultimately eliminate all moral religious codes as useless, arbitrary, and not what God really wanted, if there even is a God.

Not on my watch.
Brad, so long as the church is in government then the government is going to be in the church. it’ll never go only one way. If you want to preserve your church’s rituals (which is a fine goal) then you have to keep it separate from the body of laws.

If marriage is a legal term it’ll have a legal definition and that definition will sooner or later not discriminate against gays.
 
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Batgirl1415:
No comments like “you are daddy’s littel princess” or “you are so beautiful” or the general “when you get older you’ll have to beat boys off with sticks”. Without a positive male confirmation in a girl’s life,
Um did you notice that all of your examples of a positive male confirmation revolve around complimenting the girl’s appearance? You might want to think about that for a minute.
He won’t have guy time with his dad, or have all those fishing or camping stories.
Okay you’ve been watching way too many 50s sitcoms. Life doesn’t work that way anymore, in fact it never did.
I am more concerned to what gay families with do to child psychology and developement.
While that’s admirable it’s compromised by your extremely dated sense of child psychology. Tell you what, why not take a summer course through a local community college on developmental psychology?
Now, just because i do not agree with gay marriage does NOT in any way mean i hate gay people. You can love someone very much and still disagree with their life choices. So i do not agree with homosexuality but I love people for who they are.
No it doesn’t mean you hate them, but it does mean you have a prejudice. Not all slave owners hated blacks, but they still operated under prejudices. It took a long time for those prejudices to get addressed by our society. Consider carefully before you embrace a prejudice, at least wait until you’ve seen a bit more of the world. Please.
 
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Tlaloc:
Then wouldn’t it be logical to promote polyamory…for the good of the children…
No, those same studies show that stability is critical. Polyamory is not unlike the situations children in foster care go through; rotating authority figures, each one having a differnet philosophy of child rearing.
Polyamory creates chaos in the child’s life by the constant parade of adults exercising, or attempting to exercise parenting authority - or not exercising it. Children thrive on stability.
 
It was constantly not between people of different races too, until we realized that was a stupid prejudice and allowed it.
Granted, this was illegal in America and I assume Europe as well, but it was not constantly everywhere. In fact, in Africa there were many interracial marriages especially between Ethiopians and Egyptians in ancient times. Here is book that deals with it somewhat:

Destruction of Black Civilization: Great Issues of a Race from 4500 B.C to 2000 A.D. by Chancellor Williams
Sorry I don’t have the page, I had to read this for a class and no longer have the book. It’s in the early chapters I believe.

Likewise, there was major interracial marriage in Latin America. Marriage between Spaniards and Amerindians were common. This is why mestizo (part European part Amerindian) is the most common race in Latin America. This can be read in any Latin American history text. A famous one was the marriage of Gonzalo Guerrero, a Spaniard, to a Mayan chief’s daughter. Guerrero is seen in Belize as the father of the mestizo race.

 
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otm:
No, those same studies show that stability is critical. Polyamory is not unlike the situations children in foster care go through; rotating authority figures, each one having a differnet philosophy of child rearing.
Polyamory creates chaos in the child’s life by the constant parade of adults exercising, or attempting to exercise parenting authority - or not exercising it. Children thrive on stability.
Psychiatrist’s have been known to prescribe a “stable environment” for hyperactive or wild kids growing up in a dysfunctional environment (including a homosexual household).
 
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otm:
No, those same studies show that stability is critical. Polyamory is not unlike the situations children in foster care go through; rotating authority figures, each one having a differnet philosophy of child rearing.
Polyamory creates chaos in the child’s life by the constant parade of adults exercising, or attempting to exercise parenting authority - or not exercising it. Children thrive on stability.
Uh that depends on the polyamory. It can mean a stable family unit comprised of more than two adults in an intimate relationship. It can also mean more free form attachments too.
 
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Genesis315:
Granted, this was illegal in America and I assume Europe as well, but it was not constantly everywhere.
No but we are confining ourselves to the western european powers or else homosexual marriage was also allowed historically (Sparta for instance).
 
No it doesn’t mean you hate them, but it does mean you have a prejudice. Not all slave owners hated blacks, but they still operated under prejudices. It took a long time for those prejudices to get addressed by our society. Consider carefully before you embrace a prejudice, at least wait until you’ve seen a bit more of the world. Please.
That analogy doesn’t follow. Slave owners, even if they loved blacks, still viewed them as property and as subhuman. They loved them as one would love a pet or something.

Here is the Catholic view: When a Catholic says they love a homosexual, they love him/her as an equal, a human being created in the image of God. God created us all, but unfortunately due to original sin, we all have disordered inclinations to sin. We all have our own sins we battle with and unfortunately some people must battle with homosexuality. A Catholic could not in good conscience, approve of someone commiting a grave sin, because if they did approve, it would show indifference and not love for that person’s soul. You wouldn’t tolerate a loved one endangering themselves. Whether you agree with this viewpoint or not, you cannot call this the same prejudice as that held by slave owners.

Now, I know you will argue that slave owners believed slavery was best for Africans and they just wanted what was best for them. This is not true. If that sentiment even existed, it was simply a rationalization to justify economic gains. Catholics gain nothing from loving a homosexual and speaking out against grave sin.
 
Kevin Walker:
Psychiatrist’s have been known to prescribe a “stable environment” for hyperactive or wild kids growing up in a dysfunctional environment (including a homosexual household).
Funny because according to the APA the data doesn’t show homosexual parents are any worse than heterosexual parents. They do comment that the prejudices of society can cause problems (in case you’ve forgotten that was exactly the point I made above).

Read it for yourself, it’s quite interesting:
apa.org/pi/parent.html
 
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Tlaloc:
No but we are confining ourselves to the western european powers or else homosexual marriage was also allowed historically (Sparta for instance).
This is false. Marriage, even in Sparta and the rest of ancient Greece, was between man and woman. Men engaged in homosexual activity with other men, but this was not marriage. Marriage was still between and a man and a woman. Any homosexual activity was done before marriage or outside of marriage.
 
Okay, this has been bothering me for a while. A gay or lesbian can legally adopt a child right? Now what if a gay or lesbian couple decides together to adopt a child together. Now say for some reason the couple separates (married heterosextuals sometimes do). Now this child has grown to love it’s parents. But how do you decide custody? This is why I think there needs to be a civil union for couples like this. I don’t think you can call it marriage, because marriage is between a man and a woman, but I don’t see the problem with a civil union. Oh and as far as gays/lesbians shouldn’t adopt, parents shouldn’t beat their kids but they do it anyways. It is going to happen and I think that there ought to be some sort of protection against being separated from someone they love.
 
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Genesis315:
That analogy doesn’t follow. Slave owners, even if they loved blacks, still viewed them as property and as subhuman. They loved them as one would love a pet or something.
Homosexuals are viewed as inferior here. There is an automatic duality in christianity: sinners and saved. The saved are of course superior to sinners, they are loved by god and rewarded in the afterlife. The sinners are ignored by god and condemned to eternal punishment in hell. By comparison simply viewing them as property would probably be a step up. I know you don’t like to hear it put in those terms because you like to think of your religion as egalitarian but it’s not. Just as some were more equal than others in Soviet russia some are more equal than others under Christianity. There’s simply no two ways around that when you have a religion that believes in a strict objective morality to the universe.
Here is the Catholic view: When a Catholic says they love a homosexual, they love him/her as an equal, a human being created in the image of God. God created us all, but unfortunately due to original sin, we all have disordered inclinations to sin. We all have our own sins we battle with and unfortunately some people must battle with homosexuality. A Catholic could not in good conscience, approve of someone commiting a grave sin, because if they did approve, it would show indifference and not love for that person’s soul. You wouldn’t tolerate a loved one endangering themselves. Whether you agree with this viewpoint or not, you cannot call this the same prejudice as that held by slave owners.
Actually I can. And I did. I understand that you don’t see calling homosexuality a mental illness is degrading and dehumanizing, but it is. Try a bit of role reversal. I’ll tell you that Catholicism is a form of mental illness and should be compulsorily treated with lithium. On top of that the country is proposing a constitutional amendment to ban Catholics from getting married. If you admit to being a Catholic your kids can be taken away from you. Oh yeah and you can also be fired from your job for being Catholic with no legal recourse. Now try and tell me you wouldn’t feel just a tiny bit like you were seen as subhuman.
Now, I know you will argue that slave owners believed slavery was best for Africans and they just wanted what was best for them. This is not true. If that sentiment even existed, it was simply a rationalization to justify economic gains. Catholics gain nothing from loving a homosexual and speaking out against grave sin.
Funny how people don’t recognize the myriad ways they rationalize their prejudices.
 
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