My original post was directed at a poster who threw out a bunch of canons and declared they weren’t being enforced. Only one of them was truly relevant and even then was not as clear cut as the poster claimed it to be.
Sorry. My bad.
But here we end up in a situation where we have to question what is widely known, how does it become known, and how to address it. None of which are simple questions. I’m not saying that no one should ever be denied communion but we also don’t want to create an environment where parishioners are running to the pastor exposing the sins of those they don’t like in an attempt to get the pastor to deny them communion.
I agree with this, Father, on an individual basis.

Yes, and I support that delicate position that pastors are in. I’ve spoken about this before on CAF, although I don’t expect anyone to remember all my postings. (!) It is not a pastoral thing to be going around chasing down those who are or are not receiving unworthily. Second, the sheer mathematics of it would be impossible to keep up with. Where would one start? With thoe who haven’t yet convalidated their marriage? (etc.) I don’t think that was Matthew’s concern, I could be wrong. And it definitely wasn’t mine. But most people who haven’t yet had their marriages convalidated are not necessarily announcing that, “proudly” after Mass, and pressuring the priest to agree that it’s a grand thing that they should be proud about it. There’s the difference, for starters. And there are no outside
political pressures that I’m aware of to have Masses for fornicators and adulterers.
Second, we don’t have Masses for parishioners who are darn proud of (“celebrating”) their non-compliance (non-convalidation, or merely cohabitation, adultery, and other forms of deviation from chastity and fidelity. Mass is not a celebration of our sin; it is a celebration of Jesus’ sacrifice – or our liberation from sin, our redemption from sin --, which I hardly need to remind you of.
Third, setting aside personal judgment of others (not appropriate), the issue of justice, separately and combined with scandal, is. Because I struggle to remain faithful, too. Is there some kind of modern belief that only, or mostly, people with SSA struggle with chastity, with various kinds of attraction (some sexual, some not)? So for anyone who struggles, they are getting very mixed messages – that some Catholics are permitted to cease struggling, and that the Church will officially enshrine that fact by celebrating Masses just for them

, but the rest of us, no dice.
Finally, if I were a person who did have SSA and were trying to live chastely, I would be major annoyed by a Mass wherein I knew that other people with SSA were attending, had been open about their lifestyle (not their
attraction), the priest knew about it, also “celebrated” it, and was distributing communion to them.