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jmcrae
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It is within your control, at least a certain amount, to decide what or whom you are attracted to.I agree that homosexuals are not a race of people. However, would you agree that, in addition to the reasons you mentioned, the choices homosexuals and heterosexuals make with regard to their sexual behavior is also driven by their sexual attraction, as simplistic as this may sound?
In the same way that a child can “decide to like” vegetables (as we all have to do at some point along the way, or else become very sick from malnutrition), you can “decide to like” people of the same sex, or people of the opposite sex. Maybe it takes effort at first, but with practice, it becomes a habit.
We require that teenagers make good choices about who their friends are, and who they go out with on dates. They have to make decisions to be attracted to people who will be good for them with regard to staying out of trouble with drugs, gang activity, and that kind of thing.
If a person can make a conscious choice not to be attracted to gang members, why is it such a stretch to make a decision to be attracted to the opposite sex instead of the same sex?