Don’t get so upset. This has been going on for at least two centuries and the Church and God are still here. When scientist speak of nature not requiring God just realize they are full of themselves and a lot of bull excrement. There are not a few who see religion as a limit on their freedom and thbeir complaint has nothing to do with science.
As for an old earth they have just found a human footprint in Egypt that they have dated to 2 million years ago. The earth itself is thought to have formed 4.5 million years ago. I think the evidence for an old earth is very strong, but it does not in any way deny God’s hand in creation. It does point out in the thinking person’s mind that some of the factual information one would attempt to glean from Genesis is indeed mythical. That in no way denies that the myth carries truth. God did and does create we just don’t know all the factual details. As far as Adam and Eve being the first true humans, I cannot see why that cannot be true. Homo Sap. is what we think were the first humans, but there were a lot of forerunners so I think it is a mistake to believe that Adam and Eve were necessarily Homo Sap. We just don’t know and given the breaks in fossil records I don’t think we ever will.
As far as conflict between Scripture and Science, I found the following quite useful.
In his book Thomas E. Woods Jr.( How the Catholic Church Built Western Civilization) has a quotation from Edward Grants book “Science and Technology in the Middle Ages” which is attributed to Thomas Aquinas. It says as follows:
(quote)“First, the truth of Scripture must be held inviolable. Secondly when there are different ways of explaining a Scriptural text, no particular explanation should be held so rigidly that, if convincing arguements show it to be false, anyone dare to insist that it still is the definitive sense of the text. Otherwise unbelievers will scorn Sacred Scripture and the way to faith will be closed to them.”
In this day when there is sufficent archeological and/or scientific evidence that contradicts certain historical or scientific parts of the Scriptures it seems obvious that biblical history and science in the Old Testament needs be taken as carrying only theological truth. So what is to be made of narratives like the Creation, the Exodus, Noah’s Ark, David and Solomons Kingdom and such like?
newadvent.org/summa/106801.htm
On the contrary, It is written (Genesis 1:6): “God said: let there be a firmament,” and further on (verse 8); “And the evening and morning were the second day.”
I answer that, In discussing questions of this kind two rules are to observed, as Augustine teaches (Gen. ad lit. i, 18). The first is, to hold the truth of Scripture without wavering. The second is that since Holy Scripture can be explained in a multiplicity of senses, one should adhere to a particular explanation, only in such measure as to be ready to abandon it, if it be proved with certainty to be false; lest Holy Scripture be exposed to the ridicule of unbelievers, and obstacles be placed to their believing.(close quote)
I think that certainty for falsehood is growing. If one becomes too insistent on the absolute scientific and historical facts presented in Scripture, one does our Faith a disservice. Stick to the theological/spiritual meaning.