Tis_Bearself
Patron
If a person has a preference for a word, I will use the word they prefer.
Otherwise, I can just as easily say “gay feelings” without implying any sort of lifestyle or commitment to only being attracted to someone of the same gender.
Gays are children of God whether they are celibate, “struggling with feelings”, having a temporary phase before moving on to a heterosexual relationship, or 100 percent solidly gay their whole lives. I don’t see the word “gay” as “identifying oneself by one’s sexual attraction/ orientation” and even if you did you’re no less a child of God.
It’s certain Catholics who seem to want to divide gays into two camps: “good” gays who “have SSA” who are resisting the urge and might even snap out of it, and “bad, militant” gays who have given in to evil temptations.
The first group are welcome as long as they don’t mind people reminding them 10 times a day that they have a “grave disorder” and gay sex is a sin in the eyes of the Church.
The second group are these awful bogeypeople out to destroy all we hold dear.
I’m not buying into either mindset.
Otherwise, I can just as easily say “gay feelings” without implying any sort of lifestyle or commitment to only being attracted to someone of the same gender.
Gays are children of God whether they are celibate, “struggling with feelings”, having a temporary phase before moving on to a heterosexual relationship, or 100 percent solidly gay their whole lives. I don’t see the word “gay” as “identifying oneself by one’s sexual attraction/ orientation” and even if you did you’re no less a child of God.
It’s certain Catholics who seem to want to divide gays into two camps: “good” gays who “have SSA” who are resisting the urge and might even snap out of it, and “bad, militant” gays who have given in to evil temptations.
The first group are welcome as long as they don’t mind people reminding them 10 times a day that they have a “grave disorder” and gay sex is a sin in the eyes of the Church.
The second group are these awful bogeypeople out to destroy all we hold dear.
I’m not buying into either mindset.
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