Let me start where you ended: I agree that there are misguided people who need to be corrected, but I don’t think the crawling or the hugging of pictures at Guadalupe is one of those things that needs correction. I think it is just a very emotional way of showing authentic love for Mary, and many Americans are uncomfortable showing that kind of emotion. But I don’t think God has a problem with it.
You quoted Exodus 32:31 and cited some passages about people bowing before angels, so let’s look at those.
People in the Bible bowed down before images as well as other people in ways that are approved by God. In
Joshua 7:6, all Israel bowed down before the Ark of the Covenant, including its angel statues, for the whole evening. But I don’t think they were worshiping it. Catholics may bow down before statues of Mary, raise up their arms toward them and cry out toward them, but I think the Jews did the same thing toward the Temple of Solomon, including its angel statues, in
Psalms 138:2, Psalms 5:7, and Psalms 28:2. I don’t think those gestures count as worship unless you intend them to.
Look at it this way: humans are bodies and spirits, and our bodies have a finite amount of emotion that we can expend on stuff. The amount of emotion we pour into something is expressed in gestures like crying, crawling, and clutching. But we cannot say that if you use X amount of emotion on something, you are worshiping it, because that’s not how our emotions work. Sometimes people pour out all their emotion on their dog when they’ve been gone for a long time, and you’ll see them bow down, clutch the dog, and cry into its fur because they missed it. But that’s not worship. It’s just emotional outpouring. You
Can use that for worship, but we shouldn’t assume anybody’s doing that unless we have good reason to believe they really think they are trying to show their highest form of honor. Does that make sense? I think it does. If you deny that you are worshiping something, and you mean it, by that very fact you aren’t worshiping, because worship is an act of the will. At least that’s what I think. I think that is because they are using those emotional gestures for the purpose of worship. But I don’t think to cry out toward something and clutch it is inherently worshipful, otherwise I’ve worshiped my dog. I think it’s just emotional, and you as a person get to decide by your intellect and will whether that emotion is directed toward worship, toward honor, or toward your dog. Yeah, I’ve seen it, and I admired their fervor. I didn’t think they were worshiping the statues, I just thought they were more emotionally connected to the people in heaven than I am. I’ve seen people kiss pictures of their family, because they know their family is real and they have a deep emotional attachment. I think that’s the kind of attachment we
should have toward the people in heaven. Therefore, I think we should show images of the saints the same emotional gestures (or more) that we would show toward pictures of our wife and kids. What do you think of that argument? Not always. In
Joshua 5:14-15 and Revelation 3:9, angels and humans are bowed to without rebuking it, but in
Revelation 19:10 and Acts 10:25-26, angels and humans rebuke people for bowing to them. I think the difference may be that in the first two cases the people bowing had human-level honor in their heart, and that’s okay to show to men and angels, but in the second two cases they had worshipful intent in their heart, and that’s not okay to show to anyone but God. I think the gesture was the same, but the intent was different. Do you think that’s reasonable? Because that’s the standard I apply to people in Guadalupe: the gestures are okay as long as the intent in the heart is not to worship but to honor.