I did not think you would use such filth. However, the point I am making is that we do NOT need to personally read or experience everything in order to hold a valid opinion. You, and I, would not use porn because we know its nature and would stay away from it. You personally see HP as harmless, I do not agree. You have read the books, I have many people who have described the books in very good detail to me and I find no reason to read them, very much like I do not need to buy a porn magazine to know it is bad. I also did not read “The Da Vinci Code” because I read a ton of trusted sources on the subject who did read the book and I refused to add one dime to the publisher’s and author’s satanic attempt to attack the Church.
I also do not need to watch a plethora of movies or tv shows after I read what their content is…that is called being wise, it is not a lack of trust.
You said I do not trust my kids, you are right, I do not trust them to have a fully formed conscience yet, that is because they are still KIDS! What they do as adults is between them and God, and I have no say in it at that point.