Well as someone once said, “It’s only harassment if you are ugly.”. That should clue you in to the real purpose behind the attempts to change both laws and mores.
Some thoughts:
–As a friend points out, there are a lot of reasons to reject a guy aside from looks. He could be way too young, way too old, reeking of alcohol, obviously several sandwiches short of a picnic, not your ethnicity (very important in some groups), not your religion (also very important), too religious or not religious enough (within the particular religion), a coworker (some people don’t want to date at work), doesn’t speak your language well, divorced, married, engaged, has a child or children, has problems holding down a job, poor money management, bad life choices, not smart enough, nothing in common, iffy hygiene, vegan/carnivore, has poor social skills, smokes, smokes pot/too much pot, too straitlaced, too extroverted, too introverted, wants kids/doesn’t want kids/doesn’t want enough kids, has pet you’re allergic to, too close to family/friends, doesn’t seem to have any relationships with family or friends, too outdoorsy, too indoorsy, too liberal, too conservative, too aloof, too clingy, too illiterate, too overeducated, too alternate, not alternative enough, etc.
–If you read online advice columns (or CAF for that matter), you’ll see how important these compatibility issues can be in actual relationships, so a lot of people will preemptively avoid incompatible people. Heck, Red Pill guys tend to have huge AVOID lists of their own.
–Aside from compatibility, there’s the issue of–is this inconvenient? I promise you, that in my single days, the dreamiest guy on the planet would have gotten the brush off from me if I was late to class, studying for a test, on the way to the airport, crampy, headachy, etc. Sometimes it’s just a bad time.
–Plus, as I’ve mentioned before, a lot of women have very heavy social programming against talking to men that they don’t have some sort of prior connection to. I would never, never, never have ever given my phone number to a man met in some public place. I might politely exchange a few sentences with him and even enjoy it, but I would make darn sure not to provide information about how to find me.
–Lastly, I have to mention the effect of LOVE on women’s receptivity to male attention. For example, when I was courting my future husband and a newlywed (before we had kids) I literally had eyes only for my husband. I remember maybe one time in those years thinking so-and-so-is-kinda-cute, but 99.9999% of the time, I literally couldn’t even see other men. So, yeah, if anybody had come onto me during those years, no matter how devilishly handsome, I would be annoyed by being bothered by him, because I wasn’t interested.
–I feel like your vision is that it’s all about raw sexuality, as if women just float around, with no problems, responsibilities, ideological commitments, personal preferences, or existing relationships, whereas the truth is that any sensible women will have most of those things.
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