Dameedna and Starwynd,
You seem to have a very limited understanding of what is meant by self worship.
Self worship is the act of placing *oneâs own *thoughts, feelings, beliefs and understandings above everything else.
Yes, we do understand what you mean.
To claim this is what athiests do, is offensive Fran so if you really do care about communicating with athiests and understanding them, #1 rule. Stop calling them self-absorbed in any form or another.
We do put otherâs first in many circumstances, and more than that, we put a greater IDEAL, than ourselves as primary importance( just like you).
We donât âagreeâ with a lot of what you say. YOU do not agree with a lot of what we say. That puts us on the same grounding. And no you donât have the outclause of âbut itâs god Iâm followingâ. See below.
We do not worship ourselves when we disagree with you and your human religious institution and human description of God, anymore than You worship yourself, when you disagree with us. No-one forced you to be catholic. You chose it. Your choice, is not better than ours, and your ability to âsubmitâ to a higher goal is no greater than ours either.
We do the same thing. We put something above ourselves, and weâŚâlike youâ decide what that more shall be. The real problem for believers, is the âwhyâ are people athiests. We donât believe in a promise of an eternal life and a God that will fix all. We donât believe it exists Fran. Not because we donât want it to, but for our own reasons we donât. Those reasons do NOT include, an inability to follow and support something greater than ourselves.
This is the primary assumption of christians, and it is flat out wrong.
No-one is deciding for either of us Fran. We are in the same place.
This is not the same as worshipping God or being Catholic. We are constantly placing God, the Gospel and Church teachings and community above our own limited, flawed views, desires and base instincts.
The fact that you place a concept, called God, a book, you call the Gospel and an institution you call the church above your own desires does not make your âchoiceâ to follow these things any greater than our choice. In fact, considering what your church promises you, as long as you do what it asks you end up with eternal life, I would say they are offering you the greatest of all human desires, and henceâŚyou submit to nothing, but what you actually want. The ability to live forever.
Are you sure you arenât worshiping your own desires, more than we are?
You, nor anyone like you can claim a greater view of the world, just because you follow a certain religion or ideal. The important point here Fran, is that NEITHER can I. I cannot claim I am âbetterâ than you in my submission to something, just because I claim it is the âhigherâ entity, or concept.
If you continue to believe that your âchoiceâ is greater than my choice and your âsubmissionâ is greater than mine, then you and I will never be able to see the actual humanity in each other. We only see ourselves and our own choice in submission and not the human behind the computer.
Stop calling athiests self-absorbed and self-worshiping. You are wrong.