Help- Im catholic but i'v fell for a muslim

[inJESUS]

Faith101:

Whatever Allah ordains, allows or prohibits…then it is what is best for mankind, that i am fully convinced…regardless of my own weaknesses.

Your comment above was very disrespectful. Due to that, and the fact that this conversation is not of any benefit…peace.

so eventually, you will accept that your husband marries many or have sexual partners ( as what his right hand possesses); interesting.

Peace

 

[rayne89]

Marc, the above arguement is the reason why you should not pursue a relationship with a muslim woman.

 

[Malachi4U]

Just because she is Muslim does not mean she is bad. She could be one of the nicest people on earth, but. Her religion is wrong, one of the wrongest on earth. (Is wrongest a word?) OK, maybe not on earth but just in the places it is at.

A Protestant and a Catholic can marry and it can work - as long as the Catholic side wins and the children are raised Catholic! I do not think a “Christian” and a Muslim can make a marraige work. The two religions are incompatable because ultimately, the Muslim side will not let the Christian side exist. I roomed with a Muslim for 5 years from Iran. Right after the hostages were freed too. Boy did we have some great conversations. I knew him and all his friends. Trust me, convert the girl to Christianity or just agree to be friends.

I stayed in touch with my old roomate for several years after we moved apart. Even after the Muslims destroyed his country, his friends were murdered in the Iraqi war or by the secret police. After years of his parents writting him NEVER to come home. He still hated the US and loved his religion. Brainwashing to the max.

If she won’t convert then don’t walk away - run for your life!

Sorry, I don’t think that’s what you wanted to hear but it is my “opinion” based on many years of life with Muslims.

If you pray, and I pray you do, then pray the rosary with great thought and meditation. Ask for the intercession of our Saints and Angels for you. Pray through the rosary and God will answer you. You just have to ask. Pray pray pray. Go to a chapel everyday or to a dark and quit place and pray for at least one hour a day, preferably through the rosary. Pray longer if you can. God answers prayer and His favorite is that with His mother, our rosary.

JMJ

 

[Malachi4U]

PS, I just got out of the Hot Tub a little while ago with my kids. I prayed while they played. But the Good News is that tehy came over and prayed the last decade with me. A family rosary is glorious. You should try it. If you have a Muslim wife will you be able to hold your kids in your lab and pray, talk to, and worship Jesus through the rosary? Any prayer at all?

Convert her to Jesus!

 

[Faith101]

Malachi4U:

PS, I just got out of the Hot Tub a little while ago with my kids. I prayed while they played. But the Good News is that tehy came over and prayed the last decade with me. A family rosary is glorious. You should try it. If you have a Muslim wife will you be able to hold your kids in your lab and pray, talk to, and worship Jesus through the rosary? Any prayer at all?

Convert her to Jesus!

Muslims pray to God several times a day. My family and I pray at least 2 of those prayers together, daily.

 

[Joseph_Alison]

Salaam Marc 18;
You thread generated 65 posts so far and except from your original post, we did not hear from you again.
I hope you found the advice you were looking for, but in any case, it is so important, let no one make the decision in your stead, it should be Marc’s decision and no one esle’s decision. Good luck.

Salaam.
Joseph.

 

[Marc18]

Thank you all for your views but unfortunatly i still remain confused. Tell me why that it has to be so difficult i try to think of what Jesus would tell me but i think i need to pray more until the answer is clear. I hate these barriers between religions i just wish that one day christians, jews and musims can live together in peace without anyone trying to push people in coversion. We have alot more incommon than we realise the basics of these religions is peace and love. I watched mel gibsons passion of the christ which i found very moving but then thought what happened to jesus is what were doing to each other. Persecuting each other building barriers and not bridges. All i know is we may believe in diferent things but any servent of god believes in peace and love. Its not the fact we call ourselves Christians or muslims it’s in our actions that pleases God. Im sorry if i’m wrong in anyway im not very experienced in my faith im still learning but i hope we all agree that muslims and christians are all children of God. Anyway we went to the cinema and had a great time and i felt that god blessed our union.

God bless you all

 

[ISTPQ]

I would say don’t worry about false boundaries such as creed or race, for truly, love has no boundaries. do what your heart tells you.

 

[Daniel_Marsh]

Marc tell her plainly, that you want to marry her, but she will have to convert to the chirstian faith. If it is of God, she will convert. If not, just agree to be friends.

 

[ISTPQ]

Daniel Marsh:

Marc tell her plainly, that you want to marry her, but she will have to convert to the chirstian faith. If it is of God, she will convert. If not, just agree to be friends.

this is unfair. if you actually love someone you acceppt them for who they are, including faults, or in this case, PERCIEVED faults.

 

[Franze]

Marc18:

Thank you all for your views but unfortunatly i still remain confused. Tell me why that it has to be so difficult i try to think of what Jesus would tell me but i think i need to pray more until the answer is clear. I hate these barriers between religions i just wish that one day christians, jews and musims can live together in peace without anyone trying to push people in coversion. We have alot more incommon than we realise the basics of these religions is peace and love. I watched mel gibsons passion of the christ which i found very moving but then thought what happened to jesus is what were doing to each other. Persecuting each other building barriers and not bridges. All i know is we may believe in diferent things but any servent of god believes in peace and love. Its not the fact we call ourselves Christians or muslims it’s in our actions that pleases God. Im sorry if i’m wrong in anyway im not very experienced in my faith im still learning but i hope we all agree that muslims and christians are all children of God. Anyway we went to the cinema and had a great time and i felt that god blessed our union.

God bless you all

I understand, you are in loved but you have to remember that the things aren´t so easy and in addition, in the islamic law, for marrying with her, you have to convert. It´s easy.

 

[Neverland]

Dear Marc,

May be this will help you understand the situation you MAY experience when marrying and converting:

apostatesofislam.com/apostates/g2/wlcati_index.htm

I remember reading a Dutchman converting to marry a moslem and it doesn’t turn out well, but I haven’t found it yet.

usually, moslem family will push you to convert. Now it’s up to you. If you think in order you to be loved and accepted you must change yourself and faith, I have nothing to say. This is your life. But I do hope, with all my heart, that you love Jesus and stay a Catholic. You may read the comments here about the status of women in Islam and may try to engage her in a discussion about it (like, you MAY have more than a wife, etc). And don’t forget, ask her to do tahajud prayer to ask for the truth. I am sure she will get enlightment like my friend’s wife.

Neverland.

 

[Rodrigo_Bivar]

Strictly speaking, a non-Muslim man cannot marry a Muslim woman without converting to Islam, according to Sharia.

However, a non-Muslim woman, if she is Jewish or Christian, can marry a Muslim man without converting to Islam. However, in practise this is extremely difficult in most Muslim countries as the pressure to convert will be overwhelming in most cases. Recently, a Muslim man in Pakistan beat his Christian wife almost to death because she refused his insistence that she convert. That man knew full well that she is a Christian when he married her. But it made no difference. He is still at large and uncharged by the Pakistani authorities even though he beat his wife almost to death.

I have only heard of a few marriages where inter-religious marriage between a Muslim and non-Muslim has ever been successful. Particularly if the man is a Muslim. Sooner or later he will find Allah and all hell will break loose.

 

[exoflare]

I have a Muslim friend here where I live who even told me point-blank “a Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim woman, but the goal would have to be to convert her”. I don’t think he realized that was one of the things they’re mainly discouraged to reveal upfront. Anyway he let it slip.

 

[happygal]

Well is common in my country to have inter religion marriage, so far there isn’t much problem. But of course Muslim just like Christianity believes that we ought to convert to their partner practising religion. However i do notice, as time passes by the common religion las wasn’t practising anymore. Even my cousin who married an Indonesia does not convert to Islam. But i guess , since marriage is a gift from God, one ought to pray for God’s direction in making a decision, for he shall give the truth and best to us.

 

[Muslim]

Faith101:

She was also dating him before converting.

i find it hard to beleive, that a Muslimah who wakes up in the middle of the night to pray to Allah, would allow herself to disobey Allah like that by dating any man

these are the fake wannabe Muslims… i know muslim girls that wear…the hijab and goes around sleeping with other men… they make me sick… there are also christians like that as well… all religious and stuff and then doing everything Christianity is against…

and as for your situation… if she marries you, she is a weak muslim so it really does not matter…these young people they think they know what love is and then they get married and stuff happens and then theyget divorced or live a crappy life.

 

[Shadowcry]

exoflare:

I have a Muslim friend here where I live who even told me point-blank “a Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim woman, but the goal would have to be to convert her”. I don’t think he realized that was one of the things they’re mainly discouraged to reveal upfront. Anyway he let it slip.

THe same happens in Catholicism!

 

[murtad]

exoflare:

Unless you want to spend the rest of your life as a Muslim (whether you like it or not), don’t even mess with this.

I suggest he try to convert his Muslim girlfriend to the Catholic faith.

He could use Answering-Islam to explain to his girlfriend what is wrong with Islam, and why Christian faith contains all the truth.

 

[Muslim]

murtad:

I suggest he try to convert his Muslim girlfriend to the Catholic faith.

He could use Answering-Islam to explain to his girlfriend what is wrong with Islam, and why Christian faith contains all the truth.

or she could convert him and use answering christianity and 50 other sites to show what is wrong with Christianity… your statement is pointless dude.

 

[Muslim]

exoflare:

I have a Muslim friend here where I live who even told me point-blank “a Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim woman, but the goal would have to be to convert her”. I don’t think he realized that was one of the things they’re mainly discouraged to reveal upfront. Anyway he let it slip.

yes and ask your Muslim friend questions about Islam… i bet he cant answer half of them…
you cant force someone to convert, tell someone to convert, ask someone to convert, etc… you can tell someone about Islam but they have to convert on their own… how many times have we mentioned this…
yasir arafats wife is christian…she never converted.