Much of what you say makes great sense. But, there are still many women out there who reject the poison demagoguery of the likes of radicals such as HIllary Clinton. Don’t give up hope of finding one!

Rob
I appreciate your charity, but I don’t think it has much to do with giving up hope.
I think it it has more to do with understanding what is going on around you, or trying to, and simply making choices best for oneself. I don’t
need a woman anymore than a Jesuit, Shoalin monk, or Jesus Christ Himself. I’m complete in myself and better off. Most people tend to develop hatred over competing life views anyways. In other words, acrimony is inevitable.
But understand, I’m capable of overcoming, especially looking at lessons drawn from others (like Somaly Mam and countless boys and girls traumatized and neglected throughout Cambodia). Consider feminism, homosexual marriage and homosexual normalization, and anti-Christianity. The question I need to ask myself is how much if at all I need to let these things effect me?
If they are outside of me than what is the problem?
I’ve had major things within my intimate social spheres effect me. I’ve overcome many of them to a great extent. Including family culture, neighborhood etc.
Or take the kid raised by two lesbians or two gay men. That kid becomes 38 years of age. He’;s over it right? But there are those reared by two heterosexual parents, that are grown adults married to a spouse of the opposite sex,
yet they can not emotionally or psychologically overcome cultural changes, outside their own bodies and own intimate social interactions.
I’ll admit some of the judicial and political things coming out in favor of women all the time makes me think committing to a contract (damning myself) of marriage is a sort of suicide. The recent court case in the U.S. where the court took judicial activism to favor the woman who signed a prenuptial agreement is a big example. And that creates a judicial precedent. Basically, grown women are not even responsible for the prenuptial contracts they sign.
Within the benefit/risk ratio there is too much risk and not enough benefit in marriage. For myself at least. And like American culture produces bank robbers, child molesters, corporate greed, it produces scheming women. I’ve met very few women in my life that have many redeeming qualities. I’ve been screwed over by more (though arguably I allowed myself to get screwed over if not set myself up for that) than I can probably count.
Logically, my position is one of preferring to commit a false-positive error rather than a false-negative error. Wearing a latex condom out of fear of STD’s, not hitchhiking, not picking up hitchhikers, keeping a stockpile of nuclear weapons, are false-positive errors if they are errors.
Not wearing a latex condom, and a woman picking up any male hitchhiker on a lone road are both false-negative errors if they are errors.
I’d prefer to take a false-positive error towards marriage as it offers little benefit and likely much hell and damnation on earth. I can adopt young Cambodian girls. One might call it turning the clock back on men.
Matt Ridley no religious sympathizer reminds in his book
The Red Queen that throughout early human civilization a relatively small elite number of men held harems, a monopoly on women, and most men of the lowest ranks lived celibate lives.
pp. 173-174
In the ancient empire of the Incas, sex was a heavily regulated industry. The sun-king had fifteen hundred women…Beneath him, each rank of society afforded a harem of a particular legal size. Great lords had… seven hundred women. "Principal perssons were allowed fifty women; leaders of vassal nations thirty…
All the way down to
…chiefs of 5 men, three. That left precious few men for the average male Indian whose enforced near-celibacy must have driven him to desperate acts…
Many of the Inca people were the children of powerful men.
In the kingdom of Dahomey in West Africa, all women at the pleasure of the king…the remainder he suffered to “marry” the more favored of his subjects. The result was that the Dahomean kings were very fecund, while ordinary Dahomean men were often celibate and barren.
The connection between sex and power is a long one.
The sexual access seems to be far more obtainable by gay men, as men are men, and like to have sex irrespective of their orientation, and women are the greatest of the discriminators between the two sexes.
During the early years of the AIDS scourge:
p.182
Kinsey Institute study of gay men in San Francisco Bay area found that 75 percent had had more than one hundred partners; 25 percent had had more that one thou.sand
So, a lot of thing are a matter of perspective. Early civilized man low in rank had it much worse than myself in some ways. But it’s a “Red Queen” race and today men of low rank are basically were men of low rank were centuries ago. Nonetheless, I still live in the U.S. and have the chance to become financially well off, adopt children, live comfortably, and keep to myself while enjoying life absent of sexual drama, divorce papers, and all the other drama. Life is hell being this young boy laying a year in this hospital bed in Africa. No American woman knows such hell. And Black-American males are rich in comparison to these blacks.
National hospital in a poor African nation:
youtube.com/watch?v=b5bLtHKPO2Y
(I started off meaning to type 2 or 3 sentences and went on a ramble much longer. But I mean to bring up the point/question in another thread as well about why grown, hetero adult, married, can’t “get over” gay marriage or all the changes outside their living rooms and bedrooms?)