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I have as yet to read your subsequent posts, catholic1, but just finished my reaction to your post as below
I mentioned the pica condition to illustrate that the object of the act of eating (of course via the mouth) does not comport with natural order and teleology. The behavior is conceivable with some people actually indulging in ingestion of non-food, neither appropriate nor healthful in the long run.
A parallel is made to same sex attraction, the object of attraction being not of the right sex. Acting on the attraction is analogous to someone ingesting non-food. Pleasure is sought and experienced for pleasure sake, without purpose, potentially harmful. Even if harm is not immediate as a result of homosexual sex, indulgence in the act (repeated) has untoward consequences, to the body and soul.
Obviously, we are not talking about two homosexuals who present as a couple, are chaste, loving each other deeply, looking for the good of the other, but never expressing their mutual love sexually. In fact, most here would say that would be a high form of friendship. It seems the arguments on exactly what and when homosexual behavior crosses moral lines in the context of a committed relationship needs spelling out. If the relations has any erotic element, leading to genital expression, the behavior and relationship cross moral lines. No claims of fidelity or commitment can make it moral.
Deo Volente posted on Page 19
To someone with the homosexual inclination, one in a committed relationship or habituated in the practice of homosexuality, the Catholic moral precept on the subject would be hard to accept. It is indeed a difficult moral code to live by. The good news is we can find meaning and purpose in life without the belief that it is only possible when one is sexually partnered, in a relationship. There are enough heterosexuals with no prospect of finding a partner due to a physical if not mental condition or station in life. Conversely, I would submit that a male or female with a sex addiction (there are people with said disorder, with compulsion to have sex with whomever of the opposite sex that is available) also have a heavy cross to bear. Life is likewise lonely for such an individual, as there would be little or no hope in meeting a partner who would be willing to stick around.
Mastering our sexuality is hard, harder for some than others, yes, but possible. In honoring our bodies and those of others, we follow the natural law written inside us.
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Catholic morality runs along side the precept of natural law, which for clarification is not the same as laws found or noted in nature. Animals are subject to eating and mating instincts that we humans share except we are also guided by the higher faculty of reasoning and a moral code. This code, that which provides a sense of right and wrong in undertaking certain actions we do at will, is consistent with health preservation and life affirmation / creation.…This is a good illustration to make to show that something made for one thing can be abused. A mouth made to aid in cultivation nutrition and be abused to harm the body. But just because something is not used for its most apparent purpose does not equate to an immoral condition: The mouth can also be used for kissing, but it is not as if humans have evolved mouths for this purpose.
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I mentioned the pica condition to illustrate that the object of the act of eating (of course via the mouth) does not comport with natural order and teleology. The behavior is conceivable with some people actually indulging in ingestion of non-food, neither appropriate nor healthful in the long run.
A parallel is made to same sex attraction, the object of attraction being not of the right sex. Acting on the attraction is analogous to someone ingesting non-food. Pleasure is sought and experienced for pleasure sake, without purpose, potentially harmful. Even if harm is not immediate as a result of homosexual sex, indulgence in the act (repeated) has untoward consequences, to the body and soul.
Obviously, we are not talking about two homosexuals who present as a couple, are chaste, loving each other deeply, looking for the good of the other, but never expressing their mutual love sexually. In fact, most here would say that would be a high form of friendship. It seems the arguments on exactly what and when homosexual behavior crosses moral lines in the context of a committed relationship needs spelling out. If the relations has any erotic element, leading to genital expression, the behavior and relationship cross moral lines. No claims of fidelity or commitment can make it moral.
Deo Volente posted on Page 19
The scenario is certainly romantic and sweet, not classifiable I think as intrinsically disordered or sinful. Note that the statement uses the bolded word which means gay sex acts like sodomy, mutual masturbation or variations thereof as expression of homosexual love are not excluded.Keep in mind that physical expression can include holding hands, cuddling up while eating popcorn and watching a movie, resting your head on your beloved’s shoulder…
To someone with the homosexual inclination, one in a committed relationship or habituated in the practice of homosexuality, the Catholic moral precept on the subject would be hard to accept. It is indeed a difficult moral code to live by. The good news is we can find meaning and purpose in life without the belief that it is only possible when one is sexually partnered, in a relationship. There are enough heterosexuals with no prospect of finding a partner due to a physical if not mental condition or station in life. Conversely, I would submit that a male or female with a sex addiction (there are people with said disorder, with compulsion to have sex with whomever of the opposite sex that is available) also have a heavy cross to bear. Life is likewise lonely for such an individual, as there would be little or no hope in meeting a partner who would be willing to stick around.
Mastering our sexuality is hard, harder for some than others, yes, but possible. In honoring our bodies and those of others, we follow the natural law written inside us.
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