Homosexuality in geneology?

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I didn’t say we should just ignore Leviticus - it is still in the Bible after all and therefor useful in the purpose of teaching. But how do we know which things are moral teachings and which are customs? How do we know which rules from it to live by and which we don’t have to? If we intelligently look at the whole Bible we can figure that out. The quotes you mentioned about how to treat your neighbors are themes that are mentioned by Jesus and the New Testament hundreds if not thousands of times - they are basically the theme of the whole Bible. But homosexuality is mentioned maybe twice according to the church but in reality the NT does not mention the issue that we are talking about. Go ahead, quote Romans or Corinthians, I am already aware. But they don’t refer to homosexuality as we know it.
 
Yeah but what if it’s wrong? It wouldn’t be the first time. The Bible used to be used to justify slavery as well, but we realized that was wrong. All you have to do is think. This is where Catholics get so selective. They analyze the bible as it is convenient for them. I mean Jesus said, if your hand offends you cut it off - but no one actually does that do they? But when they’re trying to get a point across because they’re dyed in the wool and can’t see things another way, they sit back and blindly quote the Bible without knowing what it really means. And I guess since you can’t further refute my points you have resorted to “because the church says so”. Well, yeah we all know that - if that is your argument than what’s the point? I already know what the church (and the Bible) says about it.
 
Peduzzi,

You seem to have difficulty with the authority of the Church. That’s a whole other issue.

Regarding homosexuality, the Bible only speaks of it negatively. It does not give examples where it is acceptable. Can we really assume more or less? We look to the Church for interpretation, but you think the Church has it wrong?

Marriage is discussed in detail and clearly defines the right relationship between man and woman. This is what we have to go by.

Btw, when did the Church ever try to justify slavery? I don’t think it ever did.
 
Yeah but what if it’s wrong?
Not possible.
It wouldn’t be the first time.
Yes, it would.
The Bible used to be used to justify slavery as well, but we realized that was wrong.
That is another thread.
All you have to do is think.
I do that is how I know your position is wrong.
I mean Jesus said, if your hand offends you cut it off - but no one actually does that do they?
How do you know the bible says that? I ask because I want to understand what your authority is.
But when they’re trying to get a point across because they’re dyed in the wool and can’t see things another way, they sit back and blindly quote the Bible without knowing what it really means.
Catholics do not accept the bible alone. Nor, do they accept private interpretations that contradict Church teaching.
And I guess since you can’t further refute my points you have resorted to “because the church says so”.
Which points? I accept the authority of Christ. He speaks through His Church. If you want to discuss why that is that is fine, but it seems a much more legitimate argument than what you make. It seems you make yourself the authority?

Also, the Church does not issue facile fiats about these matters. There is a long, and rich, study that seems much more deep than the usual pro homosexual propaganda.
Well, yeah we all know that - if that is your argument than what’s the point? I already know what the church (and the Bible) says about it.
Who is your authority?
 
pathia,
Sounds like you have really tried to understand. All I can say to you is just keep your mind open and ask God to be the Lord of your mind. Many people have prayed for a certain cause and had to wait decades before they felt that God had definitely answered their prayer personally. Obviously, you believe in God as your creator, so just give him permission to be Lord of your life and ask Him every day. Perseverance is the key that St. Paul spoke so much about. God created your mind, so I know that if you truly want to receive Him and feel His presense for once in your life, He will accept your invitation. Just be patient.
 
pathia,
You are not alone. I do know personally of others who want to have faith and yet do not. Like you, somebody I know has never felt anything in church or the presense of God. I will keep you in my prayers.
 
Let me just say, I am not saying the Bible is wrong. But fix, what the church teaches about something can indeed be wrong because it is made by humans. It is interpretation of the Bible not by God, but by people, who can indeed be wrong and what I am saying is they are this time. I know that the bible says that because I read it in Jesus’ sermon on the mount. And I did not say that the church ever justified slavery - I am saying people used the Bible to do so and they are doing that now for gays and it is wrong. I already wrote a whole huge thing on the passages of the Bible and why they are not invalid or wrong, but rather misinterpreted. My authority is God, but what the Bible says is not his clean word, you have to look into it a bit to find what is really there - which the church does, indeed. But teachings of the church have also indeed changed over the years. I am providing evidence that this one also needs to change. But I am tired of repeating myself because I don’t have the time and it was such a long passage that I wrote about it.
 
Peduzzi,

sorry I missed your long post.

As you should know, God gave authority to the Church. Catholics believe the Church cannot teach false doctrines. Doctrines do not change. When you say teachings have changed, what do you mean exactly? I think this issue is not up for personal interpretation.
 
Hi everybody,

I’m back. I figured by now I’d end up having ten new pages of posts to catch up on and, therefore, as a practical matter, didn’t expect to rejoin the thread. But it looks like there’s only about three new pages instead, so I guess I will rejoin afterall…😉
After all, silent knight, I didn’t say no one else knows anything about homosexuality, I just said that homosexuals are the ones who best know the nature of it and can all attest to the fact that they were always that way.
Ok, peduzzi. The way your post was written, I distinctly got the impression that you were completely disregarding Christian teaching on the matter out-of-hand. If that was not the case, my apologies for the misunderstanding.
The passages about it in the New Testament are taken out of context because in Biblical times there was no concept of homosexuality as there is today - like the people I just described above.
wrinkling my brow and putting my hand up

…That’s an interesting thing to say…Are you suggesting that biological homosexuality did not exist in biblical times and only appeared in the human race later on?

Regarding the Scripture passages which speak against homosexual activity, as others have since pointed out and as I think we all agree, most (not all) of the Mosaic Law was a temporary sign post. Most, not all. Injunctions such as “thou shalt not steal” and “thou shalt not kill” were obviously a part of that Law. You obviously agree with the fact that these injunctions remain in full force, more than three thousand years after they were first introduced to us. They’ve never changed. Nor has the Juedo-Christian doctrine that homosexuality is intrinsically disordered.

You ask how we know this, that this is the correct intepretation. The answer already given is that the Church says so. You’ve countered with suggestions that “the Church” has said in the past that things such as slavery are ok. You didn’t mention this one, but I might add, in keeping with your argument that “the Church” at one time believed the earth to be flat.

The problem with this argument is that these things were common societal beliefs, not doctrines put forth by the pope or bishops. There is an essential difference. Thefore, it is incorrect to say that “the Church” has been wrong before in its interpretation of Scripture. In essentials of the Christian faith, the pope and bishops cannot err. It’s not possible per the safeguard Jesus himself has put in place.

Whatsmore, I am failing to see the ambiguity in statements like Lev. 18:22 anyway. “You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.” I’m sorry, but that’s not terribly cloudy. It’s not as if the injunction is listed in a set to the effect of, “You shall not lie with a male, you shall not mix your herbs when cooking, and you shall not drink goat’s milk the same day you drink the milk of a cow”, leaving room for an interpretation that suggests that homosexual acts were not allowed for a while, but God said, “Hey, later, have at it!” He simply says, "Don’t do it. The act itself is an abomination.

In case we wonder if we’re interpreting the statement correctly…

Lev 20:13, “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them.” No reference to exchanging sex for money here. No reference to a man doing this to a child. Just a plain, simple assertion from the Lord that “lying with” a man the way one (man) lies with a woman is a “detestable act.”

I can only imagine the degree of difficulty this truth presents for those who have to accept it. But when it all comes down to it, all men and women have but two options: Plead that the grace of God would help you to live life as God requires for the brief period of time that we are here (and then reap massive rewards in the afterlife when all is said and done), or do what you can to deny and obfuscate the truth so that life on this earth is “easier” and more comfortable, which ends up leading to spiritual death (a.k.a. an eternity in hell).

Keep in mind that the larger the cross in this life, the larger the reward in the next.
What I don’t understand, is why people seem to inflate the gravity of the sin (if you agree it is such) - it is mentioned 5 or 6 times in the bible (like I said, ambiguously at best) - not that we should ignore it, but Jesus never even said a word about it…
How many times have you ever heard people talk about what sort of hell would come to earth if all the nations of the world that have nuclear weapons were to use them all at once? I myself am having trouble recalling more than maybe one such conversation…Why would that be? Is it because it really wouldn’t be that big a deal, or because, yes, everybody and their mother already “gets” the fact that that would be really, really bad?

Put differently, there is seldom need to point things out when there is no disagreement and the issue is crystal clear to begin with.

If I’m not mistaken, all of the Church’s twenty some ecumenical councils in its 2,000 year history have been called to address a dispute, not to put forth commonly agreed upon or newly created doctrine.
…yet there are so many other things that he mentions countless times that most Christians have simply chosen to ignore - like divorce - talk about redefining marriage. People say gay marriage will redefine it…which it would, but my my my the fact that marriage has ceased to be a binding lifelong commitment (we may say the words but it really isn’t if you can get divorced for any reason) is the biggest redefinition we will ever see…but few ever seem to be hyped up on that - most just simply accept that it is an out-of-date rule that doesn’t apply to today’s world.
There is no such thing as divorce and remarriage for Catholics. For other Christians, you may have a point. Your implied point that many marriages are “not what they should be” today, across the board, I readily concede and lament. Of course, granting marriage licenses to homosexual partners would do nothing for that and, in fact, would tend to make the situation worse.

You may be thinking, “Truly committed homosexual couples would be a positive witness to heterosexual couples who are less than committed themselves”, but you yourself noted that homosexual marital unions are a novelty. They would no doubt simply cause people to requestion the whole nature and purpose of marriage to begin with, not in a way that would lead to an “awakening”, but in a way that would ultimately devalue and trivialize the institution. There are already “jokes” floating the internet, persuant to California’s latest misstep, about polygmists and brothers and sisters wanting to marry, as well as people wanting to marry their pets…And, I ask sincerely, why not? If marriage is only about “commitment” and not anything deeper or more intrinsic than that…???
Yet we try and use Levitical code, the brutal raping of Sodom and Gomorrah, and references to prostitution, pedophilia, and promiscuity to try and condemn an entire demographic of people who are like all of us here - moral, loving, God-fearing, and committed, and want all the same things - a relationship, love, marriage, a house, 3 kids, a dogs, and a 2-car garage.
Divine revelation applies to all and must be lived by all in its fullness. Living by nine out of ten commandments is not sufficient any more than staying inside the plane is necessary for one’s physical safety only nine times out of ten when flying, or firing a gun at someone ten times is no big deal when nine of the ten chambers in the gun are empty.
Me and my 2 closest buddies at school who will be my roommates next year, are all gay, and all catholic. We have all had a struggle in the past but have all come to terms with the fact that we can be ourselves and still live Christian lives.
I am always trying to recruit my gay friends back into at least some sort of Christian church, explaining that being gay and Christians are not mutually exclusive.
No, being homosexually oriented and being Christian are not mutually exclusive and I commend you for trying to keep your friends associated with the Church. But, see above…
I am also always explaining to fellow Catholics everything I just said in an effort to unify, rather than separate us all, and to try and spread a little compassion, understanding, and love.
And, in general, these are noble acts. But be careful. Jesus himself said, “I come not to bring peace, but the sword.” For our purposes, this means that unity, understanding, and “love” must be centered upon the truth and not absent from it, held as independent virtues of their own. As Luke 2:14 actually says, “Peace on earth to men of good will” (not “Peace on earth and good will toward men”) insofar as it is generally pain and discomfort that are the best catalysts for faith in those who do not have it (or have it weakly) and it is “men” that are not “of good will” who also have no faith and need discomfort in their lives in order to come to it.

“Peace” 😉

SK
 
I gave up on the Catholic church years ago. However, I’ve yet to find a church that feels more like ‘home’ so yet I linger because I crave something, anything.

I’ve tried everything, devout prayer, starvation, self-mutilation, near-death, drugs legal and otherwise. Anything, anything at all to sense God, never once in my entire life have I ever felt anything at all. Not even when I was little did I ever feel anything, I don’t know what it means to feel anything, to feel God, or the Holy Spirit. It is utterly alien to me, and I’ve tried everything and nothing for over a decade, and still I am a blank, not even a void, I have no lack, other than a desire to feel something, anything at all.

So, now we come to the bible. Keep in mind what I said above. No, I do not believe the bible to be literal, or to be the word of God. I believe it may have been the word of God a long, long time ago. Now? I think it’s what God said to a tribe of humans thousands of years ago, filtered through those thousands of years by humans, abused by people when they thought it prudent. This continued to the point that God had to send his Son down to make things right, except right after he died the process of manipulation started right up again.

When I sit down and read the bible, it is no more inspiring to me, or moving than reading an old mythological story, or an epic greek or roman poem. It is a struggle because of the grammar and verbiage, but there is nothing ‘meaningful’ in it, nor does it cause any stirrings in my soul, or cause me to feel anything at all. They feel just like stories.

So when people tell me the bible is self-evidently God’s word because they can ‘feel’ it, I do not know what they mean, that is an alien statement. It is like explaining color to the blind, I just don’t understand it, I wish I could, but it just doesn’t work that way in my mind, for whatever reason.
Pathia,

Be careful not to confuse the natural order with the supernatural order. By this I mean that God is not physically visible or “touchable” precisely because He is God and, therefore, beyond human senses. Occasionally people will have humanly sensible supernatural experiences not because the supernatural is naturally sensible but because of the effect that the supernatural sometimes has on the physical. (Are you with me so far? 😉 )

Take black holes for a moment. Originally, scientists did not believe in them because they could prove their existence. They believed in them solely because of the effect they had on their surrounding environment. When stars or other objects would be headed in one direction and then suddenly swirl and then disappear…Scientists posited there was a reason for that, that this didn’t happen “just 'cause”. Sure enough. We now know…

Depending on what you mean exactly, “feeling” God is not a normal experience. The normative Christian life mostly involves simply doing in faith as we are taught to do. The supernatural nods do tend to come then, every now and then, but I am concerned that you are maybe looking for an experience that sort of “misses the boat”. If you are looking for a Transfiguration experience or a Burning Bush experience, you need to stop concentrating on natural manifestations and walk in faith instead.

Some people have many more supernatural experiences in life than others. But don’t make the mistake of assuming this is because God likes them and doesn’t like those who go without. In fact, sometimes it’s actually the exact opposite. Sometimes, God reveals little to certain people precisely because they are of greater faith and maturity and He, therefore, “trusts” them more. They do not need the “signs and wonders” that those who are of lesser faith do in order to believe and live as they should.

Some food for thought.

SK
 
Silent Knight, you are to be commended for your unflappable arguing power that doesn’t really come across as argument, but rather just discussion. Of course, I do disagree with most of the things you said, and I could write equally as much as to why, but hence, I am a busy man and I have given more than my 2 cents to this argument. We are both aware of the other’s position, and I suppose I never expected to change the mind of anyone here anyway. Kudos though to your true knowledge of the church and scripture - I wish more of the people with whom I argued had that. And with that I shall retire from this argument for now with the hopes of getting some work done 🙂
 
🙂

“Unflappable arguing power”, eh?.. I must confess that I don’t know what that means, but it sounds like a compliment. So, I suppose reciprocal gratitude is in order. 👍

I understand being busy. Should you find the time to return to the thread before too long, I would be happy to… unflappably (not) argue (??) with you some more…

😃

God bless you.

SK
 
Some people have many more supernatural experiences in life than others. But don’t make the mistake of assuming this is because God likes them and doesn’t like those who go without. In fact, sometimes it’s actually the exact opposite. Sometimes, God reveals little to certain people precisely because they are of greater faith and maturity and He, therefore, “trusts” them more. They do not need the “signs and wonders” that those who are of lesser faith do in order to believe and live as they should.

Some food for thought.

SK
I’m not talking about a supernatural feeling. I’m simply talking about the sensation or feeling that God even exists. I do not have that, there is nothing there. People say they are inspired by the bible, or talks of God by a priest. I get nothing out of those, the bible reads like an epic poem to me, it is nothing to me, and a priest talking is akin to a politician babbling, it just doesn’t move me.

I’m not asking for something extraordinary. How many here can say they’ve felt God’s presence, or are sure of his existence? I have never had any sort of situation that confirms anything at all to me.

Keep in mind I am a very jaded individual, that probably doesn’t help, but when you’re driven to trying to commit suicide at the age of 9, just continuing to live is always a struggle for me.
 
I’m not talking about a supernatural feeling. I’m simply talking about the sensation or feeling that God even exists. I do not have that, there is nothing there. People say they are inspired by the bible, or talks of God by a priest. I get nothing out of those, the bible reads like an epic poem to me, it is nothing to me, and a priest talking is akin to a politician babbling, it just doesn’t move me.

I’m not asking for something extraordinary. How many here can say they’ve felt God’s presence, or are sure of his existence? I have never had any sort of situation that confirms anything at all to me.

Keep in mind I am a very jaded individual, that probably doesn’t help, but when you’re driven to trying to commit suicide at the age of 9, just continuing to live is always a struggle for me.
Pathia,

One thing that always moves me is thinking about the suffering that Jesus went through. I think of the people spitting on him and cursing him. The complete physical and emotional rejection. It would seem to be so lonely feeling too. I believe he felt all the same feelings as we do because he was human. He understands everything. Yet he still loved. There is no greater love than to lay down ones life for a friend.

Another thing is forgiveness. Considering the unforgiveable acts that I have done, yet God forgives me. One who is forgiven much, loves much. I am reminded of the woman who washed Christ’s feet with her hair. She knew he was the Lord and just wanted to love.

I am not an eloquent writer and rather simple, but I hope some of these images can help.
 
Let me just say, I am not saying the Bible is wrong. But fix, what the church teaches about something can indeed be wrong because it is made by humans. It is interpretation of the Bible not by God, but by people, who can indeed be wrong and what I am saying is they are this time. I know that the bible says that because I read it in Jesus’ sermon on the mount. And I did not say that the church ever justified slavery - I am saying people used the Bible to do so and they are doing that now for gays and it is wrong. I already wrote a whole huge thing on the passages of the Bible and why they are not invalid or wrong, but rather misinterpreted. My authority is God, but what the Bible says is not his clean word, you have to look into it a bit to find what is really there - which the church does, indeed. But teachings of the church have also indeed changed over the years. I am providing evidence that this one also needs to change. But I am tired of repeating myself because I don’t have the time and it was such a long passage that I wrote about it.
Well, it is probably another thread but Church teachings on faith and morals have not reversed, ever. If you want to discuss slavery, or usury, or anything else that is for another thread.

I simply would like to know whose authority you accept to determine which interpetation is correct?

If you say God then I would ask how do you reconcile all the others who also claim God is the authority and come to vastly differing conclusions?
 
Pathia,

One thing that always moves me is thinking about the suffering that Jesus went through. I think of the people spitting on him and cursing him. The complete physical and emotional rejection. It would seem to be so lonely feeling too. I believe he felt all the same feelings as we do because he was human. He understands everything. Yet he still loved. There is no greater love than to lay down ones life for a friend.

Another thing is forgiveness. Considering the unforgiveable acts that I have done, yet God forgives me. One who is forgiven much, loves much. I am reminded of the woman who washed Christ’s feet with her hair. She knew he was the Lord and just wanted to love.

I am not an eloquent writer and rather simple, but I hope some of these images can help.
Like I said, it feels like an epic poem, or story. The main characters in those stories had trials and tribulations as well. None of them would be as popular or influential if they simply had an invincible hero.

I have been assaulted three times in my life for being not-straight, one of them was an attempted rape. The cops laughed and jeered at me rather than actually charging the perpetrators. Neither of the two men (One was responsible for two attacks) was ever charged with harming me. The man who tried to rape me actually said it was the will of God, and that it would make me straight.

He was clearly delusional, but I have never, ever, been insulted by a non-christian. I have been fired for being not-straight, and I have had co-workers shun me. Literally they would not talk to me, because they said ‘demons would spawn from my mouth and infect them’. I was let go from that job as well, because I was one person, while they were half a dozen and the incident was disturbing workflow, despite it not being my fault at all.

Nearly every single taunt, slap, assault, firing, teasing, bullying in my life has been because I come across as not-straight, and every single one of those people that did it, justified their behavior with the Bible.
 
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