I have to say, regaurdless of what anyone thinks of homosexuality, it isn’t a choice. I know from personal experience. I had crushes at 5 and 7 yrs. old. I ended up bisexual.
I must repsectfully disagree with you. I also have personal experience with homosexuality – ten years in the lifestyle with a number of partners. And I had a couple long-term relationships, one that lasted for many years. And like you, I went around telling people, “This is not a choice!” And like you, I had stories of early “crushes” on my female friends. But let’s be realistic, my “crushes” were not sexual in nature. They were emotional attraction. Even by the ripe old age of 7, I had been through enough (alcholic dad, mom’s breast cancer, parents’ marital problems…) that I was really, really emotionally needy.
I left that world in 2001 (long story…) and can tell you from my own experience, that people are not born with homosexual tendencies. This is an issue of nurture, not nature. Through God’s grace, I don’t have a trace of SSA today. In compassion and love, I will keep you in my prayers.
I feel less alone knowing someone else on this forum is bisexual

But yes, I think tolerance should be taught. In the same way that religious tolerance is taught - you may not agree with the person’s views, but that doesn’t mean you should attack them in any way for them.
Yes, children should be taught tolerance of those with different beliefs and lifestyles, even an appreciation for the gifts and beauty of others. The schools definitely have a place in this teaching, in the form of anti-bullying programs and the day-to-day “teachable moments” that arise. But that is a far cry from singling out homosexuality as a special tolerance topic.
In my classroom, we have teachable moments when someone calls someone a “retard” or “gay” or “you’re a girl” (a common insult among boys

). This is always done in an age-appropriate manner (I teach K-5) and with a firm and gentle tone. After all, children at this age are only repeating what they’ve heard elsewhere from family, often with themselves as the target of the insult.
Compassion, prayer, conversion – for all of us – is what’s really needed.
Gertie