Personally I believe for me that chastity is the path that God has called me to. In my work in the church I have chosen a path that does not offend others of the faith.
However, I do not feel God has called all people to be single. Some people are not able to follow that path (as Saint Paul addresses). I believe in monogamous, lifelong relationships whether they be heterosexual or homosexual.
I am a fairly recent convert to the Catholic church and a lot of my Lutheran upbringing shows through. I don’t believe in the teachings of the church just because someone higher up has decreed it; I, as Pope Benedict himself, believe that doctrines must be based on the Bible. I don’t see anywhere in the Bible where lifelong, committed same-sex relationships are prohibited.
That view is not just my own either. If you are interested, look at the writings of Jesuit Father John J. McNeil. You could also look at the gay Catholic orgnization Dignity USA. (Yes, there is a gay Catholic organization.) Also a quick look at what the Bible says about homosexuality can be quickly downloaded from Mel White’s booklet at
soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible Only look at the above works if you are open to seeing things in a new way.
I left the protestant church beacuse I found Catholics to be less judgemental and more willing to put faith into practice. I admire the social activism of the Catholic church and its reverance for the Word of God. I have found the warmth and openess of my Catholic community a blessing from the Lord.
Pablo