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Anthony L:
Hi
wife and I have been married 20 year - 6 chlidren
NFP down time getting harder - wife is Hot!
What to do ?
that is very degrading…my husband would never say something like this outside our bedroom to anyone…would it not have been just as easy to say “my wife is very beautiful” :mad:
 
Anthony L:
So you are saying that since your wife is “HOT” you cannot refrain from having sex at any point in the month. You have to have sex each and every day? Or what? You’ll die? You’ll become a pile of dust and be blown away by the wind?

YES-WIFE IS HOT!!!
yuck-that is just rude :tsktsk:
 
carol marie:
I think it’s so sweet that after being married for 20 years you still think of your wife as HOT. She’s a lucky woman!

I agree… asking the kids to bunk with you is a fine idea. Maybe the dog as well?

Also, Anthony… did you ever notice that it’s typically the people without ANY kids that say… what’s wrong with having 7 or 8 ???

😉 CM
(Soon to be Mother of 5… who will try the mother in law picture taped to my ceiling because my husband is HOT !! )
I have to disagree, my parents have been married 41 years and my dad has never said “my wife is hot” he may say, my wife is beautiful, awesome, wonderful, pretty, intelligent, amazing, just as wonderful as the day I met her etc. and to me that is so awesome.

The op is basically saying his wife is just so “arg, hot” that he can’t keep his hands off her…he has no self control…already has 6 kids and just can’t keep his hands off during the fertile times of the month…if my husband acted like that, personally, I would feel very used and that I’m just viewed as a sex object and not much more.

Maybe thats just me and it is just my opinion but it could have easily been phrased different to ask his question and not offend us who are more discreet about these things.
 
I think the op is just having a little fun. I’m sure that he wouldn’t talk about his wife that way in mixed company. The benefits of anonymous posting, I guess.

I would be shocked to hear someone talk that way in personal conversation, but here in the forums, it is just good fun.

However, I recently overheard a mom of ten who is in her mid-forties say that she feels like she won the lottery. She is pregnant with twins (11 and 12). I thought it was a wonderful witness to openess to life. Such a contrast to secular culture. I have a friend who had a baby at 48!

St. Frances Cabrini’s mom was 53 when she had her.

So maybe Mrs. Cabrini was Hot, too!
 
Well, I guess, what is offensive to one is not to another , we all have our own personal opinions for myself I find it offensive and that is all I’m stating, I personally find it very offensive :o
 
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Anthony L:
Hi
wife and I have been married 20 year - 6 chlidren
NFP down time getting harder - wife is Hot!
What to do ?
What a blessing your wife has in you!
To call her “hot” (desirable) when in her late 40’s - must be music to her ears!! :dancing:
What a sweetheart you are!
Dr. Laura tells women over and over that men do not want wives with perfect figures - they want “YOU.” Your whole being.
That is how I see your sentiments.
And I think it’s lovely! :blessyou:
 
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Malachi4U:
That statement sounds sooo Catholic. I can see you’re not reformed - yet.
I am Catholic. Thanks for noticing.

Reformed? What do you mean by that?

Still. What’s wrong with children?
 
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bogeyjlg:
I am Catholic. Thanks for noticing.

Reformed? What do you mean by that?

Still. What’s wrong with children?
Nothing is wrong with children. They are a wonderful blessing.
I hope God blesses you with 7 or 8. :yup:
 
Anthony L:
So you are saying that since your wife is “HOT” you cannot refrain from having sex at any point in the month. You have to have sex each and every day? Or what? You’ll die? You’ll become a pile of dust and be blown away by the wind?

YES-WIFE IS HOT!!!
You rule. Even if your problem doesn’t 😃 😃 😃 😃
 
Do a bread and water fast on every wednesday during the times when your wife IS eligible. During fertile times, eat heartily and offer up a different kind of fast. Use both kinds of fasting to pray for HER well-being, her spiritual growth, her needs.

See e5men.com. Consider this a twist on their ‘special forces’ approach.
 
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cargopilot:
Get her a pair of BCG’s.🤓 That just might do it.

For those who don’t know what BCG’s, or birth control glasses are, they were issued by the US government to military personnel. They are the UGLIEST glasses on the face of the Earth. They can make even the most ‘beautiful people’ look untouchable. Just the sight of someone in BCG’s makes all members of the opposite sex turn and run.
LOL

BCG glasses, never thought of that! A new help for NFP couples.

Actually, if she is hot enough they might make her look even more appealing, like the girl at school who was hot despite her nerdy glasses and uniform…

Seriously though,

I am starting to think this is just a thread to brag to everyone how hot the wifie is…

. It’s a doggone funny thread, whatever the motive. When was baby # 6 born, has she had plastic surgery, or is she one of the lucky women who don’t get stretch marks?
 
HI
thanks for the replies - actually the one person is right - would never say that about the wife in public, the forum does offer a bit of liberalism…
I would also like to know, what does the postedd mean by “reformed Catholic”
also to clear up “wife is HOT” - she is very attractive!
 
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Malachi4U:
That statement sounds sooo Catholic. I can see you’re not reformed - yet.
How can someone be to Catholic??
Reformed from what?? The religion that God started?
 
When you find yourself in a state of desire for your wife, and you can’t act on it, just smile to yourself and relish the fact that you are a blessed man. You don’t always have to act on it, just let it simmer and allow that desire to invoke an even greater appreciation for what you have. appropriate Desire is as important as the act of sex. Let it be a time to do nonsexual things for her, let her know how much you love her. It is a good practice in self restraint, and can lead to spiritual growth if you let it.
 
Anthony L:
HI
thanks for the replies - actually the one person is right - would never say that about the wife in public, the forum does offer a bit of liberalism…
I would also like to know, what does the postedd mean by “reformed Catholic”
also to clear up “wife is HOT” - she is very attractive!
So what you want to know is what you can do during her fertile times? You can use NFP or you can have marriage relations and if you become pregnant so be it…if your asking…if you can use birth control becuase you just simply can’t not have relations during her fertile times but you don’t want more kids for whatever your reasons the Catholic church is very clear, no birth control, NFP only so that should answer your question.

I know men who also find their wives “hot” but know that for medical reasons she must not become pregnant and they would rather bathe in ice water than use anything but NFP, that is putting God and wife first and your physical desires second, its wonderful that you find your wife “hot” but if you can’t control your actions and feel you need to have relations during her fertile times then no birth control. Really, I think humans are better than animals at controling these impulses.

By the way…my grandpa very clearly had no desire to use NFP and thus my grandparents had 11 kids.
 
Anthony L:
How can someone be to Catholic??
Reformed from what?? The religion that God started?
no clue. makes no sense to me. My guess is that it is a protestant who wants to convert or “reform” Catholics. Perhaps they assume that the Reformation was an improvement, whereas we see it as an act of “throwing out the baby with the bathwater.”
 
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cargopilot:
Get her a pair of BCG’s.🤓 That just might do it.

For those who don’t know what BCG’s, or birth control glasses are, they were issued by the US government to military personnel. They are the UGLIEST glasses on the face of the Earth. They can make even the most ‘beautiful people’ look untouchable. Just the sight of someone in BCG’s makes all members of the opposite sex turn and run.
Husband says I am hot even with my BCG’s…course we have only been married less than 6 months so he better say and think that…hahahahahhaha!!!

Really I am not trying to sound judgemental Anthony, but did you ever consider that maybe you are obsessing a little much on sex or on your wife’s looks. Maybe you are having a problem with fixating on a sexual relationship and not on the marriage, only you can determine that (and your wife of course) I am not saying that to be mean or judgemental but generally, when it gets to the point where you don’t feel that you can abstain even for a few days to devote yourself to prayer, I would think this is a warning sign that one or both of you are objectifying the other and not living a holy marriage. I hope this is not the case, but it is something to consider.
 
Thanks - NO not the case!
6 months??? get back to me when you have 20 years in like us, then you might have a bit more idea of the concept…
And that one person is right - artificial birth control under any form is evil
never have never will!
 
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