Dear Oldcelt, it appears that you do not believe in heaven. You argue as if you believe this life on earth is all there is.
Suffering on earth only makes sense if heaven exists, everlasting happiness that makes suffering on earth by comparison of no account whatsoever. If this earth is all there is, life makes no sense, since once it ends it is for the individual as if he or she never existed at all. Thus, the deist position justifies all manner of injustice and outrage, because there is no higher law or reward and punishment, from a god who doesn’t care!
The deist position needs to completely ignore the compelling evidence of miracles. You should read about Padre Pio, who lived in our own times and was investigated by scientists and doctors. You should read about the miracles at Lourdes, investigated by doctors of all religions and no religion. You should read about the miracle of the sun at Fatima in 1917, witnessed by 70,000 people including agnostic newspaper reporters, judges, lawyers and college professors.
God gives us sufficient evidence of His existence and of His love and care for us as His children. Granted His existence, the only difficulty is in understanding suffering, which God tells us is caused by man, not by Him. But it is not reasonable to deny objective facts because of difficulties in understanding them.
-Bill