How do I tell my future spouse that I am not a virgin

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Someone’s worth is not connected to being a virgin or not. Your future spouse should be someone who inspires you, comforts you, challenges you, engages you, promotes you, helps you. Tell me how a non-virgin isn’t capable of doing these things just as well or better as a virgin?

A true holy person who is humble will recognize that we all sin and we should not condemn someone for their past. Our God is a God of the present
 
Seriously though…I don’t know if anybody has already said this…but we’re all under the assumption that the gentleman in question can’t figure out if you are a virgin within the first 30 minutes of speaking to you.

Men are far smarter than they’re given credit for. Most men who are at least mid 30’s can make a very good guess about this virgin thing after about 20 - 30 minutes of speaking with you no matter what you say. The point is he’ll likely know whether you tell him or not.
 
You’ve never heard of micro expressions…you can read people like a book sometimes if a subject is even bought up on a tangent.
 
Some people may be confident with dating and just not have had sex. I don’t think it’s that black and white
 
If it is important to him and you don’t tell it may lead to marriage invalid due to lack of free will by error about the person.

Your dignity as a person is not defined by your virginity or lack of it or by any other sin. You are not less deserving of a good man.
 
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