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lmelahn
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As someone (I think UtUnumSint) pointed out, the relations of fatherhood and sonship are not immediately accessible to the senses (unlike the relation between my hands). Hence they are not “impressed” in my mind in exactly the way you characterize it here.Exactly. It seems incredible, right? However, actually it is very easy: You might remember that once you were a small boy, and one day you saw a guy. He or someone else told you that he was your “daddy”. Time went on, and listening to all those persons around you, you learnt that he was your “dad” and your “father” and I don’t know what else. There were certain interactions between you and him going on, and you learnt to associate them with “fatherhood”, because those were the words available to you. Was there a “fatherhood” relation inhering in the substance of that guy which acting on your own substance infallibly impressed the “fatherhood” relation on your mind? Of course not! Surely you know there are different conceptions about “fatherhood”; and it is not because the same “accidental form” impresses different conceptions on different minds, but because those different “minds” listened different things over the years and had different interactions with the “daddy” guy. It is not that complex.
(An important point here, that perhaps I did not make clear: only direct experience is “impressed” in our minds. Naturally I mean something different from Locke and Hume, who also used the term “impression,” but tended to reduce all knowledge to sensory knowledge. For me—following Aquinas—the “impression”*is not only sensory but also intellectual; that is, it has a spiritual or immaterial character. So you are right: simply by looking at my dad, I can’t tell that he is my father.)
Don’t you think, however, is accounted for by the fact that we need to learn about the relations?
What is wrong with affirming that “fatherhood” is an accidental form that has been inherent in my father ever since I was conceived? (And vice versa: that sonship has been inherent in me ever since I was conceived?)
I agree that I learned the fact that my dad is my father through various interactions. However, the fact that he is my father is prior to that discovery, don’t you think? Didn’t that fact exist before I came to learn it? And if so, that “fact” is the type of being that I (and Aquinas and Aristotle) call “relation.”
When I was in seminary, we had a number of Spanish-speaking classmates. One of my companions was a real comedian, and he had bright idea of teaching his classmates all the wrong words. His companions would ask him, “what does ‘salt’ mean?” and he would point to the water; and “what does ‘water’ mean?” and he would point to the sugar, and so on. They figured it out pretty quickly, when they started asking for “salt” and someone would pass them the water instead. I think they found a suitable way to repay our comedian, but I don’t remember what it was. All that I know is that he didn’t repeat his trick.I had another classmate who was taught as you say: “your right hand is the one with which you write”; but he was left handed. So, it was until the secondary school, “thanks” to the ridicule of his peers, that he learnt. Such is life; what can we do?