I will never identify myself as a child of Mary. I am a child of God and I hold to that dearly. Jesus is The Way to God and I went to Him directly for my salvation.
That’s like saying I am my Fathers child

You are of course right but your statent is incomplete. What did you think Christ told John while he was hanging on the cross

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I have never been hostile towards Mary, but I do have a huge concern and perhaps it comes out as hostility towards the “veneration” of Mary which smacks of worship. What Luther and Calvin believed in this regard have no bearing on what I believe. What I believe is what God has revealed to us in scripture.
I commend the fact that you believe what the bible holds. There is tons of support for Mary in the Bible. This is why I encourage you to read Hail Holy Queen by Scott Hahn

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Secondly, I mentioned Luther and Calvin since they are the founders of the protestant church. You obviously do believe that they were right in breaking away through the reformation. You are following the church they established. You are following the bible they adopted from the Catholic church with modifications of their own. Why do you pick and choose what you want to believe from their position? What if they were wrong to do the reformation in the first place and Sola scriptura and Sola fide is FALSE? What if the bible they handed down was false? So I think you have to admit that you do have to give some consideration to the fact that your founding fathers of the church had different beliefs from what you do today
I am also curious, how do you hold that ‘‘I only believe in scripture’’ when that is something you have to hold outside of it? You can’t use scripture to justify it since then its circular logic. So what is the logical basis for holding that you only believe what is in scripture?
Being open minded in certain ways has its pitfalls.
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Matthew 11:28
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
When Jesus said that, did He forget to mention to come to Him through Mary? I don’t think so. He beckons us to go to Him and were it so that we need to go through Mary, He would have told us.
Oh he said on the cross, John here is your mother did he not?
Plus Jesus in Matthew 11:28 was talking about coming to him. That no one denies is the final destination. But we arguing about how to come to him. That is a different matter from what your passage discusses.Therefore the passage you cited has no bearing on the matter of Mary.
Also the miracle in Cana, is a good example of the crowd approaching Jesus through Mary which is also in scriptures. From your logic, why didn’t they just go talk to Jesus? Why didn’t Jesus just say ‘‘If they want my help, tell them to come and ask me directly?’’
Plus, the church fathers believed the status of Mary as we do today. Are you saying they were wrong? If you do say they are wrong, what makes you think the Bible which was passed down and written by them is True?
Let me simply ask you, both Jesus and God commanded us to honor our parents. If even us creatures honor our mother and father, what makes you so sure that Mary is not honored by Christ in a special way? Are you saying we are better in that department than Christ himself?
And being open minded does not have pitfalls. It helps you correct mistakes. If the apostles were close minded, they would have rejected Christ just like the pharisees and we wouldn’t have Christianity today.
I once again challenge you to read the book ***Hail Holy Queen *** by Scott Hahn which contains a discussion from scripture. Read it, try to disprove it, challenge your beliefs and see if it really holds up
God Bless
