How easy is it to go to Hell?

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Put simply, all people given proper time, information, and patience, would not reject goodness.

I don’t see the need for the time limit. I don’t have time at the moment to articulate my take. I will have to come back a different time.
 
Not sure about all but most certainly most! would not reject goodness.
 
Actually not really. My Dad’s “will” changed when he had a brain injury…
That does not indicate a shift in the will, it indicates a shift in capacity to express the will.
To play along with your thought experiment, I don’t know how showing that external factors influence will helps your argument. If God allows the external factors to change in a way that makes it impossible to improve or rehabilitate yourself, I don’t see how that could be described as all loving.
So I can assume you agree that external factors are necessary for a shift in will?

And it seems you understand the point I was trying to make, and have now shifted the question into whether or not that is “loving.”

If, after the person has died and willfully chosen to separate themselves from God, God continues to force Himself on them and ignores their desires, is that loving? If He were to force them to come closer to Him when they have chosen to move away from Him, is that loving? If He coerces their will to make them want to be near to Him, is that loving?

I would argue that that answer to all three questions is no. It is not loving to force yourself on someone, it is not loving to disregard their wishes, and it is not loving to coerce them into some behavior you wish they would exhibit.

God spends our lives holding open the door of repentance and calling out to us. He will not force us through the door, but like the father of the prodigal son He will race to great us if we turn to Him even slightly. If we do not turn to Him, then He will respect that decision while still continuing to love us. This is not unlike the Earth father whose son rejects him, who loves the son forever but will not violate the son’s wishes. It is not what the father wants, but he will respect it.
I see it to be impossible that such a person could exist.
There have been multiple reports of interactions with damned souls where they express this sentiment. They prefer to be damned and separated rather than to draw closer to God. One testimony I was discussing earlier put it this way:
Now He shows Himself merciful towards us by not compelling a closer approach than that afforded in this remote inferno. Every step bringing us closer to God would cause us a greater pain than that which a step closer to a burning furnace would cause you.
This is the testimony of a damned soul to a woman who had been her acquaintance in life and was praying for her.

Here is another snippet:
Here we no longer receive graces. Moreover, should we receive them we would cynically refuse them. All the fluctuations of earthly existence have ceased in the other life. For years I was living far away from God. For, in the last call of grace I decided against God.
I don’t expect you to accept this as evidence, but I wanted to share it with you nonetheless. If you’re interested in more testimonies, Tan Books has an excellent compendium call The Dogma of Hell.

I’m out for now, have a good weekend!
 
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I would argue that that answer to all three questions is no. It is not loving to force yourself on someone, it is not loving to disregard their wishes, and it is not loving to coerce them into some behavior you wish they would exhibit.
And is it loving to create a reality where that soul then suffers eternal torment? Or would it be more loving for the soul to be erased from existence? Because an omnipotent being would have the ability to do that, you know.
 
Dying in a state of mortal sin seems easy enough if we think of it as one serious sin and then damnation. But to die in that state means that the person not only committed a serious sin, but they did so with free will and deliberately contrary to their conscience — and then rejected forgiveness until the bitter end of their life. That last part is the decisive act, that makes a turning away from God and deprivation of grace permanent (blasphemy against the Holy Spirit or the eternal sin). Of course they will end up hating God, everyone else, and themselves, forever.
 
With respect, brother, can I get your thoughts on my response to the OP? Because I think there’s good reason to be skeptical of the position you express (it sounds like you think that people are mostly good, and choose good when they understand it, and times when they seem not to choose it, it’s because they didn’t understand it).

To quote my position from my previous comment:
I think the thing about “choosing”, is that it isn’t just standing in front of God and choosing to flick a switch like: “All else being equal, I’d rather experience pleasure in heaven than suffering in hell.” That’s not what true choice is… True ‘choice’ is about what we choose… when that choice comes at a cost. For example, can we really be said to ‘choose’ truth, if – when honesty will cost us something else we value, like popularity – we tell a lie?

No. In such a case, we showed our choice through our action, and when it came right down to it we preferred our own pride or comfort (popularity; whatever the motive for our lie) above truthfulness. The circumstances we experienced didn’t ‘force’ our choice – they just made our choice visible to us. And the reality tends to be that the choice comes down to love of self, or love of God & neighbour.

And the goal of human life is to become the kind of person who truly loves God and neighbour. The kind of person who, when it truly costs everything else , chooses to love God with all our heart, and all our mind, and all our soul, and all our strength. And the kind of person who loves our neighbour as ourself.

Because only when we are TRULY that kind of person – only when we are doing, here on earth, the will of Our Father in heaven – are we actually ‘choosing’ heaven. That is, heaven in the meaningful sense: eternal communion with our God who is love. Who IS choosing, and loving, the other. We have to enter into communion with Him here on earth: now, in this life. Today. This second.

It seems to me a fiction to tell ourselves that we can cultivate a character that is willfully ordered around love of self in this life, however that manifests in our particular circumstances – and then magically find after death that our eternal character is ordered towards love of other (the heavenly state). To think that we can become hellish (prideful, self-centred) in our choices in this life – and then to not experience the hellish state when our character is ‘fixed’ into the form we chose through our, well, choices.

I think it’s a good (if scary) exercise. To pray and figure out what we ACTUALLY choose, every day. Is it our popularity? Our pride and feeling good about our intellect? Our comfort and worldly experience of pleasures? What do we sacrifice? What do we choose?
Do you have any thoughts about this perspective? About how our eternity is based on these choices – that we really do know right from wrong about, and are accountable for. They’re not a matter of ‘mistakes’ or confusion. We choose the wrong things all the time, and we know it. We don’t have to imagine it about a hypothetical ‘other’: we can recognize it in ourselves.
 
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Ability yes, nature no. Why would annihilation be more moral than pain?
 
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I would say the same thing of someone who would steal a lethal poison from their Father to share with their beloved husband. Things are different when a serpent whispers in an ear.
 
That implies they are different things. God is love. God is moral. The two are inextricably linked.
 
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Same question applies.
Why would annihilation be any more loving?
Because it would eliminate eternal suffering, of course. Isn’t that what you would want for your child’s soul?
 
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No. We shouldn’t limit ourselves to thinking about this in a human sense, should we? I like to think outside the box when considering these issues.
 
But substituting in non-existing.
I don’t see how one could be considered any better.
Really? You would rather see someone suffer eternal fires of hell than know that they just peacefully ceased to exist? Your kid, for example? Really? I hope not. Remember, we aren’t talking about a human being. We are discussing a soul.
 
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I think it’s actually logically impossible for God to annihilate a person. I think there was a thread around here on that at some point.
 
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