How often should Catholics go to confession/receive communion?

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I actually posted this on another thread, but this might show you where I’m coming from.

I identify myself as Christian with mainline Protestant beliefs and I feel that ALL sin breaks our relationship with God. With my limited human knowledge, I usually think of sins as more severe if they have more severe visible consequences. So from past experience with visible consequences, I would say that stealing a $1000 item is PROBABLY worse than stealing a $3 item. However, with this line of thinking, a thief may steal a $3 item not knowing that it had sentimental value for the victim. We may have seen the results of our sins in the past, but we can’t be completely sure of the true effects of our sin. For all we know, pride could be worse in God’s eyes than murder (wasn’t pride the sin that got Satan kicked out of heaven?).

Back then, I used to think that it was not that bad to listen to gossip or to steal a $3 item, but it was only after I accepted Christ, that I started to see that these “minor” sins might actually have more serious consequences that I can’t see or understand with my human knowledge. To be completely honest and just so that everyone knows that I’m not trying to be judgmental, I still often fail with regards to these “minor” sins and choose to focus more on my sins that have visible consequences, like fixing my relationship with my family members and friends. However, I don’t expect God to be lenient with me for these “minor” sins and I TRY to be ready to receive whatever consequences they bring. I’m not perfect and I do have to pick my battles, but as I grow in Christ, I would hope that fixing these “minor” sins becomes more of a priority. Aren’t we supposed to be undergoing a process of purification all the time? To me, it seems like distinguishing between mortal and venial sins doesn’t give many people an incentive to fix the sins they perceive as venial, but this is just my opinion.
Your viewpoint is entirely reasonable for you to hold, coming as it does from a Protestant stance. The first letter of John (1 John 5:16) tells us that some sins lead to death, while others do not. This is the primary biblical basis for the division between sins. The Catholic Church makes a division between categories of sins because it is an Apostolic Church and the Apostle John wrote that there are both mortal and venial sins.

What to do about sin? The same Lord that convicts us of sin via His Holy Spirit also provides us with several mechanisms by which we may be cleansed of sin. Confess it, certainly, but how do you know if you are forgiven? In private confession you get no answer. Eternity in hell could be riding on that answer. When Jesus forgave sins, he told the sinner as much (Matthew 9:2, 9:5, Mark 2:5, Luke 5:20, 7:48). The Catholic and Orthodox Churches therefore offer the Christ-established (Matthew 18:18, John 20:23) Sacrament of Confession/Reconciliation. In that Sacrament, you hear the words of absolution, and you are then certain that your sins have been forgiven.

Even the name of the Sacrament tells the faithful that a division, or damage to our relationship with God has indeed occurred, due to our sins. In addition to this, the Sacrament of Anointing, used for the healing of the sick and as a preparation to enter into eternity, also cleanses of sin. Each day, we are afforded the opportunity to receive the Holy Eucharist, which also remits venial sins. Note that there is no “bright line” between the two classes of sin. John did not specify, and with good reason, as he was inspired to avoid the rigid legalism of the Pharisaic enforcement of the Mosaic law. We are to ponder the effects of our sin and so ask to be lead way from them and strengthened against them. There are sins which are obviously mortal by their very nature, and some which are very minor. However, God reads the heart and knows our intent when we sin.

Does your your faith background teach on the cleansing of sin post-death? Jesus made reference to sins that will not be forgiven in this life, or in the next (Matthew 12:32), clearly indicating that some sin will indeed be forgiven in the next life. Saint Paul writes that the day of the Lord (judgment) will reveal a man’s work (1 Corinthians 3:10-15). A man’s work will be tested, and if it burns and is consumed, still he will be saved, but only as through fire. So, where is this cleansing by fire? Not in hell, as there is no return from there. Where, then? Catholics have the teaching on the purgation process, in which souls “in the next” life are cleansed and made pure so as to enter into the Kingdom. Nothing impure may enter into God’s presence (Revelation 21:27), and we all die with some level of sin on our souls. Are we all then doomed? No!, say Jesus, John and Saint Paul.

I would imagine that you may not be familiar with the books of 1 & 2 Maccabees. Well, the Catholic and orthodox bibles have always had these books. In 2 Maccabees 12, the high priest Judas Maccabeus gathered an offering for those who died in battle while wearing forbidden amulets of idols. It was obvious to them that the men died for that very reason. Since he was high Priest, he made the offering that the sins of the dead might be wholly blotted out. The writer also tells us that it was a good and holy practice to pray for the dead, as Judas had their resurrection in mind when he made the offering. Here is a link to 2 Maccabees 12.

So, rather than a blurring or lack of focus on sin, the Catholic Church emphasizes the evil of sin and provides innumerable paths to repentance, cleansing from it, and avoidance of it. This is because sin is the only thing that can separate us from God - both in this life and in the next, which never ends.
 
-The five precepts only require Catholics to go to confession at least once a year.
While 5 is the commonly listed number of precepts, it has also been suggested there are 6 and that there are 7 precepts.
-I learned in CCD that one can’t receive communion if they haven’t confessed their mortal sins.
-I was told that if one received communion without confessing their mortal sins, that they would be in danger of severe punishment.
-In another thread, I think there was a conclusion that only God truly knows if an individual has committed a mortal sin or a venial sin.
For something to be a mortal sin, the sinner must know that he or she is committing a mortal sin. Now, in the case you cited above (where someone is going over 60 mph and hits someone), that is grave matter (it’s serious!), but is not a mortal sin unless the person recognizes that he or she was aware of the grave matter.
Does the Catholic Church expect individuals to only receive communion once a year? I would think that if they wanted Catholics to receive communion weekly that they would recommend going to confession weekly as well.
The Church actually prefers that one attends Mass over receiving Communion. You are required to attend Mass every week, but you are only required to receive the Eucharist once a year.

Many people associate going to Mass with receiving Communion. This is false. If this was not the case, then the Church would require you to go to Mass weekly and to receive weekly.

The Church certainly wants you to Confess your sins regularly, and to receive Communion regularly, but she only requires you to Confess and receive once a year. This is especially true in the Latin American Churches, where many people don’t go up to receive Communion (the reverse is true in the U.S. Churches, where only a few remain in their pews and most people receive every Sunday).

Thes two precepts (Confession and Eucharist once a year) comes froma time when people would go years without receiving Communion because they were both scared that they were not worthy and because they has such a deep respect for the Eucharist. So that Church had to force the laity to receive.

Hope that helps.
 
This is such a basic question I really should know the answer already - and I would have put it to my PP except I won’t see him until tomorrow when he is preparing to say Mass and I don’t want to risk getting the answer I need if I do miss him.

I received an email from Father Michael (Local PP) this Morning asking me to make a short address to the Saturday Vigil Mass and the Sunday morning Mass (which I normally attend with my aged Mother) about the possibility of starting a Branch of the Knights of the Southern Cross in our local Parish.

At the present time I am the only Knight in this Parish and have to drive 140KM each way each month to attend the closest Branch meeting. This is no great hardship, but our Father Michael would like to have a Branch here in CT (my “home town”) and has actively endorsed this and supports the work that my current Branch is doing.

We have 3 potential local members whose paperwork is currently going through my current branch and the belief is that with a little “prodding” and explanation of our role and the projects that the North Queensland Branches are undertaking this number will grow to the point of a CT Branch being viable, hence the request by Father that I address both weekend Masses.

So much for background - my basic Question is this - I seem to remember from my Catholic Instruction many years ago that there is an impediment to receiving Communion twice in a 24 hour period. In which case I will just reframe from taking it on Saturday Night and follow my normal course of taking Communion with my Mother on Sunday.

Is my aging memory correct or can I receive the Blessed Host at both Masses? As I said I would normally address this question to Father Michael but I have been visiting this site a lot recently and thought I would put the question to you and also ask, if my memory is correct, why this rule exists - not that I have a logical/moral difficulty with it but just because I’d like to know more about the Religion I love.

Thank you in advance.

May God continue to Bless this Site, the Work it does, and the People that make it Possible under His Direction
 
Is my aging memory correct or can I receive the Blessed Host at both Masses? As I said I would normally address this question to Father Michael but I have been visiting this site a lot recently and thought I would put the question to you and also ask, if my memory is correct, why this rule exists - not that I have a logical/moral difficulty with it but just because I’d like to know more about the Religion I love.

Thank you in advance.

May God continue to Bless this Site, the Work it does, and the People that make it Possible under His Direction
Yes you can.
jimmyakin.org/2005/02/how_many_times_.html

When we have Friday night all night vigils at our parish, the faithful commune both at 6-6:30 pm or so Friday, and between 5-6 am on saturday morning, both during a mass.
 
I seem to be falling into a regular schedule of going to confession once a week as there is a church 2 blocks from my job that has confession right before their evening mass. So I stop there on Fridays and then go to the mass at my parish.

It keeps me acutely aware of my venial sins, and knowing I’m going to confession at the end of the week keeps me on my toes. 👍
 
I seem to be falling into a regular schedule of going to confession once a week as there is a church 2 blocks from my job that has confession right before their evening mass. So I stop there on Fridays and then go to the mass at my parish.

It keeps me acutely aware of my venial sins, and knowing I’m going to confession at the end of the week keeps me on my toes. 👍
Greetings True Light,

I cannot imagine going one week without Confession. Weekly Confession and Daily Mass are the two greatest blessings in my life at this moment.

God Bless.
Anathama Sit
 
Greetings True Light,

I cannot imagine going one week without Confession. Weekly Confession and Daily Mass are the two greatest blessings in my life at this moment.

God Bless.
Anathama Sit
I wish I could go to mass every day. I go twice during the week in the evening and I don’t feel comfortable getting home around 8:30 - 9 every night even though my kids are relatively big.

But my youngest will be 18 in 4 years, then mommy will be all over the place at Benedictine retreats, daily mass, Dominican conferences and more! 😃
 
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