**Well, no. It’s a nice ‘conceit’, very modern, very rational, and very ‘black/white’, either/or, and polarizing. And, of course, wrong.
- My relationship with God is not, never was, and never will be done ‘only’ out of duty or obligation. Attempting to make that the ‘one’ side, and comparing it with ‘freely chosen’–such a nice use of a buzz word that implies those who do not do so are ‘slaves’ or coerced’ is rather disingenuous. **
I am glad to hear that your relationship with your God is multidimensional. Mine is as well. As to the charge that my opinons are modern, well, I am a modern woman, not a Bronze Age Greek, so it is hardly surprising that I might have ideas that are also modern. I expect that most posters here have ideas and approaches to their religion and their lives that might seem somewhat different than those of a first century Palestinian or Jew. I sincerely hope that my arguments are rational.
Up to this point, I have been repeatedly told why I have a supposed duty and obligation to worship a particular deity. Bear in mind that I did not start this thread, nor did I come into it with an intention or desire to convert anyone to the worship of my Gods. They are quite capable of taking care of that if They so choose. I am answering the questions put to me. If the question is black and white, the answer may also tend that way. I can only answer the questions given.
As to the slaves or coerced, well, framing it in terms of “you should worship my God because He can destroy you” as is being presented seems fairly coercive to me. I don’t believe that I have mentioned slavery at all. I realize that is not the way in which most Christians view their deity (or at least I hope not), but it is certainly the way in which certain posters are presenting it and thus the topic at hand.
**2. Even if it were true that my relationship was done only out of duty (which it is not), that still would not make the relationship less fulfilling than one ‘freely chosen’. **
Note that I said “usually.” A freely chosen relationship between an independent adult and his or her parents can be much more fulfilling than many types of relationships between dependent children and their parents. To stay in a relationship not because of fear of punishment or grudgingly out of obligation but because the relationship is mutually beneficial and desired are totally different experiences. Both are relationships, but I know the one I want to be in. I sincerely hope that many Christians (and those of other religions) are in a religious relationship for reasons that lead to a fulfilling choice.
** A free choice is not necessarily a correct choice… Whereas though I might think myself ‘less free’ in having to discipline myself to eat more healthfully, and ‘sacrifice’ the free choice of all the ‘junk’ or even the free choice of eating more ‘good’ stuff than I need, in the long run I wind up living more freely (better bodily health, better emotional health, etc.)**
You are absolutely correct. Anything taken to excess can be damaging. Freedom always comes with responsibility or it is merely another form of slavery. Neither is a relationship based primarily on threat of punishment or grudging obligation necessarily the best possible one.
Polytheism is not about lack of discipline and “letting it all hang out” regardless of the consequences to oneself or anyone else. Ethics and morality are the sphere of human to human relationships and fall more appropriately to the philosopher than the priest in Hellenic theology. The Gods are not a model or pattern card for us to follow—to think that we could be like the Gods in any way is hubris and definitely
not a good idea (realize that many of the myths are cautionary tales about people who try to do just that). There is no concept of imitatio dei in Hellenic worship.