So why would God create an angel who would have rebelled?
Why do you rebel against a God who died for you? Yet God created you anyways.
You know that the Incarnation happened-- a God who was so great went ahead and assumed humanity. That’s something he never did for the angels— and yet, we’re all ho-hum, yeah, so what? And yet, so many of the angels chose to Fall because they couldn’t mentally come to grips with it.
We live in a time when the Passion, Death, and Redemption already happened— and yet we continue to choose other things over God. Whether it’s skipping Mass, because gosh, I’m sleepy; or whether it’s porn; or whether it’s stealing the good pens from the office supply cupboard at work; or whether it’s trying to cheat the parking garage out of a day’s parking by sneaking out when the attendant takes a bathroom break; or whether it’s prioritizing our wants over the needs of those God has entrusted to us… we’re like, “Yeah, it’s not really a big deal, right?”
But God not only chose to create us, but he chose to allow us to muddle our way through life and realize, “You know, this is wrong.” And so you are diligent about your Mass attendance; you throw the porn in the trash; you buy your own pens if you want them so badly; you support someone else’s biz by paying the rate, even if you think it’s robbery anyways; you get off the Internet and go play Candy Land for the fifty-bazillionth time because it makes your kid happy.
So, he allows us to grow in our love by allowing us to choose it— rather than being static puppets from the get-go. But not being static puppets also gives us the ability to be willful at times. Sometimes we sin. Sometimes we lead others into sin. Sometimes we make terrible errors in judgment that we need to carry for the rest of our lives. And those errors can either destroy us… or they can force us to wake up and grow into the people God wanted us to be from the beginning.
Rather than worrying about the Fall of others, our focus needs to be partially on ourselves— because that’s the one person God will hold us responsible for. And our focus needs to be partially on those we’re responsible for— bringing up our children in the right paths; counseling our friends to choose right; not enabling those around us to choose wrong. But most of all, our focus needs to be on Jesus— because that’s the measuring-stick we’ll all be measured against, and every single one of us will fall short. We know we’ll have our Judgment Day— we’ll get two of them— and so the Four Last Things need to be in the back of our minds, and color our choices and our actions, rather than being sloppy and drifting through life.