i am here looking for a good catholic husband

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kristacecilia said:
Really? 'Cause I bet there are dozens of people on here who could prove that wrong. Myself included.
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Really? Yes. I’m sure there are dozens of people that could prove that wrong. And I’m sure there are thousands of people in the real world (not just us internet people) that can prove me right, thank you. Look at the stats on getting married early and divorce rates.

You are clearly the exception to the rule.
 
I don’t think there is anything wrong with actively seeking out your spouse. Look how many people have met their husband or wife on dating sites.
 
Well good luck. I’m looking for a good Catholic wife with no luck. I’m 24 and school is almost done & I have my career going. I’m devout in my faith. I don’t look up porn or do drugs or any of that stuff. I don’t even have a speeding ticket (not that Ive never sped before lol) My car is paid off and I have no debt. Yet Catholic girls have no interest in me because they want “bad boys”

I try not to think about it and just keep busy and leave it in Gods hands (easier said then done lol). Ive tried Catholic dating sites with no real luck. The only girls Ive met live far away and don’t want long distance. So I’m just gonna keep building my career and finish the little bit of school that’s left. And get an old truck and fix it and my current car up. My current car runs fine I just want to rebuild the engine since its old. (I’m a car nut lol). And hopefully one day God will bring the right girl and me together hopefully.
 
stockbrick240 said:
Well good luck. I’m looking for a good Catholic wife with no luck. I’m 24 and school is almost done & I have my career going. I’m devout in my faith. I don’t look up porn or do drugs or any of that stuff. I don’t even have a speeding ticket (not that Ive never sped before lol) My car is paid off and I have no debt. Yet Catholic girls have no interest in me because they want “bad boys”

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Take heart my friend. It has been my experience that “Girls” want bad boys, women want gentlemen.
 
stockbrick240 said:
I try not to think about it and just keep busy and leave it in Gods hands (easier said then done lol). Ive tried Catholic dating sites with no real luck. The only girls Ive met live far away and don’t want long distance…
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I know how you feel about the dating sites. I paid for a month of Catholic match and I feel like it’s just been a flop. There’s nobody in my area and it seems like most guys aren’t looking for something serious.
 
jennifer1auren said:
I know how you feel about the dating sites. I paid for a month of Catholic match and I feel like it’s just been a flop. There’s nobody in my area and it seems like most guys aren’t looking for something serious.
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I know what you mean about none being here. I’m in south GA so theres not many. But I am a Georgia boy and love this state so I wont move lol.
 
mjs1987 said:
The OP is the same person as another CAF member with the CAF name of Morgan Kozuch. She posted a few days ago looking for Catholic facebook friends. She already claims to have a boyfriend per her facebook. I am not sure why she would post in this thread about wanting a good Catholic husband when she already has a boyfriend.

18 is very young to be considering marriage. Many on here claim to be considering marriage in the 18-25 year range. That age range is very young these days to be considering marriage and does not represent the reality in real life. In reality, most people 18-25 are not considering marriage. Most are trying to establish themselves and build a career. Marriage is the least of the worries of many young adults. Many who marry that young either get divorced, regret it, or make personal sacrifices to their own career and life to get married.

Many people go to graduate school now so many arent even finished with school until age 25-28.

Alot of young adults dont want a family or marriage. They see their parents drama and do not wish to have the same life for themselves.
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I’m thinking she has around 3 accounts going here at CAF:forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=515386

If that’s the case, I don’t think she realizes that you can start new threads without starting a new account.
 
stockbrick240 said:
I know what you mean about none being here. I’m in south GA so theres not many. But I am a Georgia boy and love this state so I wont move lol.
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I’m open to move anywhere so the distance isn’t a problem for me on cm it’s the lack of quality men lol!
 
PetersKeys said:
no it isn’t. plenty of young people get married. I think it is great
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I disagree with you completely, as do the statistics. Just because you know a few people who succeeded in their marriage at 18 (!) doesn’t mean it’s a good idea. It’s generally a terrible idea.
 
A knight :knight1: in shining armor is NOT going to appear and carry you off into the sunset to live happy ever after…It does not turn out that way!!! My parents are divorced :bighanky: 😦 and they were 27 when they married. I have seen enough (fighting, yelling and 911 calls) to safely say that when a marriage goes bad its the wife and kids that suffer the most because most of the abuse comes from the Dad!!! You are setting yourself up for disaster…

-Rebecca
 
BlueShadow123 said:
Do you have any idea how immature ‘men’ are at that age? Any idea at all? :rolleyes:

The majority is not read for marriage.
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For almost all of the real world, correct. But who knows what his view of the purpose of marriage is. Cranking out babies every two years like clockwork for the next 20 years?
 
Reservoir_Dog said:
For almost all of the real world, correct. But who knows what his view of the purpose of marriage is. Cranking out babies every two years like clockwork for the next 20 years?
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Hahaha, yeah I just think shes a bit too young to get married. The way she came on here acting like she wants to find somebody with those traits she listed, its rare, and I hope she realizes that. Wether they are religious or not means nothing. Any type of person can do the things she listed even if they are ‘catholic’.
 
BlueShadow123 said:
Hahaha, yeah I just think shes a bit too young to get married. The way she came on here acting like she wants to find somebody with those traits she listed, its rare, and I hope she realizes that. Wether they are religious or not means nothing. Any type of person can do the things she listed even if they are ‘catholic’.
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An internet forum just seems like a creepy place to go looking for anyone to date, much less marry.
 
I am looking for a good Catholic wife. Women come with many strings and many demands these days. You almost HAVE to treat a woman badly. Most of the marriages I know have had a guy that was well known for doing mean things to the wife. Women I think like being treated badly. If they didnt, they would go for the many good single guys out there.

Women fall for the same tricks every time. At some point, you have to stop blaming the guys and blame the women. Women allow it to happen to them. They should really stop complaining about guys because they are the reason why guys treat them badly.

I want a wife that doesnt want to be treated badly. But that seems to be few and far between.

Ive tried being mean to women but I just cant bring myself to do it regularly. It feels bad to treat them badly so it isnt something I do.

To the OP, why would you want to rush into a relationship when the chances are the guy will treat you badly? I would rather be single than to be treated badly but women I guess make the tradeoff between poor treatment and emotional attachment.
 
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