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Respectfully, the discussion on proper branding is belated and tangential. Student’s reasons are his own, and perhaps he is still grappling with them. Whatever conclusions he comes to, I should hope he would have the respect of being recognized as whatever he, himself, ascribes to. Be it wandering Catholic, unbeliever, atheist, agnostic, Buddhist, pagan, Jedi, or whatever.
However, I assure other posters here that insisting that someone has no agency to determine their own religious identity is frankly a turn off to non-Catholic observers like myself. It also smacks of a kind cloying desperation whereby the Church might only hold on to many of its members through a technical appeal to entrapment by baptism.
Others will doubtlessly be indignant by this post. But even though StudentInMI and I have previously clashed, it seems rather anticlimactic that his present difficulty is doomed to be buried in these endless technicalities.
Student, if you are still following this thread, I would like to point out that I deconverted from Christianity over a year ago. I did take an extended absence from this board. However, there is no reason that you should stay away beyond your own preference, of course. You have as much right as anyone else to post here.
Best wishes on your internal journeys.