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hadassahjones
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My ex-fiance once said something when I said I had no doubts at all about marrying him and was angry that he did:
“If you don’t have any doubts at all, then you don’t understand the seriousness of the committment you are making.”
Doubts sometimes can be categorized as simple misgivings, and they are not bad. Doubts make you reevaluate any committment or decision you are making, and they need not make you abandon it. They only force you to see what you still feel unsure about and find reasons to justify it…or not.
I did doubt, and those doubts led me to eventually not marry him. I reevaluated my insecurities, and found he was not the right man. It could have also worked the other way. I could have reevaluated, and found that the faults were my own and come to a better and stronger relationship.
Doubts are from God to either strengthen you or to turn you away from an incorrect path. They should be carefully considered.
“If you don’t have any doubts at all, then you don’t understand the seriousness of the committment you are making.”
Doubts sometimes can be categorized as simple misgivings, and they are not bad. Doubts make you reevaluate any committment or decision you are making, and they need not make you abandon it. They only force you to see what you still feel unsure about and find reasons to justify it…or not.
I did doubt, and those doubts led me to eventually not marry him. I reevaluated my insecurities, and found he was not the right man. It could have also worked the other way. I could have reevaluated, and found that the faults were my own and come to a better and stronger relationship.
Doubts are from God to either strengthen you or to turn you away from an incorrect path. They should be carefully considered.
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