Are you Catholic? … I think your image of God is your image of God - not God as He IS. Why? Because of how you picture things here.
Do you agree that God is OMNISCIENT? And infinitely Holy and also infinitely Wise? Also, Mercy and Love? Because you keep writing things that undermine all those attributes…
For instance - you CHOOSE the wide path. It’s close to impossible to turn back in the end, because of your choices - God gave us all free will, He never acts against it, you want to be forced to love? God wants love that comes from will, He doesn’t need slaves… or robots.
And - you write as if you didn’t know, wasn’t aware how much He has already done! He came to this very world as mere man, suffered poverty, hunger, cold, indifference, blasphemies etc and at the end horrbile tortures and crucifiction for your sins. And for all of humanity sins. The burden is unimaginable. He sweated blood. He had moments of weakness so He asked God the Father to spare Him the chalice but He nonetheless accepted Father’s Will.
That’s too little for you?.. He cares less for people than you for stray dogs and cats?
He also gave us the Bible, the prophets, the Eucharists, countless saints, the conscience…
And so much more!
And you keep asking - but does anyone deserve Hell, if it is horrible? Well I had that problem once, though not so intensely as you. Once you realise how much God has done, is doing and will keep doing for ever, you won’t understand how He does EVERYTHING in His power to stop people from going to Hell. Include in all this our Lady, not only of Fatima, but in general. She’s been doing a lot too. And the Church prays for sinner. This Church militant, pilgrims as we are, and the Triumphant one in Heaven.
So how does one deserve Hell - by willingly rejecting God. Hell is most of all the absence of God. And it’s its worst aspect. If you keep rejecting Him all the time, until death, at the moment of death you just continue on you path. After all, nothing unclean can enter Heaven, and purgatory is for those that CHOSE God, but are to be purified still.
Last but not least. God is infinite, and infinitely Holy. We are mere nothings in comparisons and yet He loves us infinitely! Now, you have to understand the enormity and evil of sin, particularly mortal sin commited against such Majesty and Greatness. If you offend/hurt your brother, it’s bad but still worse if you offend/hurt say, a girl/ widow, or a child. If you offend/hurt more of them it is still worse (say one tortures a hundred of babies or young girls) and so on. Make your own scale. Now please imagine you offend Infinite Goodness, Wisdom and Holiness and you do it consciously and continually… What punishment is appropriate - ten minutes of Hell? A hundred years etc? Basically - who are WE, humans to decide what punishment is appropriate? Shouldn’t it be the Creator of all humanity, the One that was Nailed to the Cross for our tresspasses? Somebody who doesn’t just love you infinitely perfectly but Whose love never ceases?
And even though we call it punishement it still remains self-inflicted… With all the consequences.