I don’t think he is a lapsed Catholic; there are plenty of Catholics who go to weekly—even daily!- Mass and observe selected Catholic traditions new and old who disagree with some, many, or most teachings of the Church. These are the Catholics who support women priests, who advocate “Catholics for choice”, who are ‘personally against abortion but would, in ‘charity’, drive a woman to the clinic and sit with her because it’s ‘her personal decision’; who think the Real Presence was a medieval superstition, who are fine with gay marriage, and whose idea of Catholic faith is that Jesus was a great guy, although limited by ‘the times’, who probably was not really GOD but was somehow ‘’godified’ while he was on earth, never performed real miracles but encouraged people to ‘share’, was all about social justice and the poor, never cared about a Church or a book (both of which were ‘obviously’ taken over by radical men and are suspect), and whose ‘identity’ will use “Catholic” if needed and ignore it when not.
Catholics who are not practicing their faith but either not recognising that they have strayed, or who are trying to ‘drag the church where THEY think it should be’. . . A little different from lapsed Catholics who either don’t bother to practice their faith at all or who are upfront over “I don’t identify or practice as a Catholic any more.”