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Just to avoid confusion… it would be helpful if you could avoid editing your posts after I’ve written back to you because it is making me look even more simple minded than I’d care to admitYou raise fear of hell. To large a subject for this thread, I want to raise an idea in response to your post. Since I was a young Catholic School student a long time ago, I was always troubled by the conflict of two ideas you raise. Loving God and fear of hell. The conflict is found in our very nature. When we fear somebody, it is hard to be intimate. We are guarded and cut off by fear. How much more this fearful state of guarded, with a being we are told can and will consign us to ETERNAL torment. And yet our purpose is Divine Union. Infinite love, and inhumane unthinkable punishment. ( People concieve vulnerability because they masturbate) Something is missing here! As a Catholic obedience is key, and so you contemplate in quiet desperation. It is the very attempt to harmonize these ideas that terrorizes.
While the expression of that terror invariably is my own flaw. In fact the very idea of a Catholic forum to express such ideas is fairly new.
I’m inclined to say it’s both… living that way and thinking that way. I’m guessing thinking must come first because we need motivation to change our ways. Thought always comes before a change of ways. When we’re sinning, sin leads to other sins… as well as habitual sins. I recognise that it isn’t easy to turn away from sin… and so does the Church. We have limitations on culpability due to habit and ignorance. Growing in our faith and learning about God guides us away from those practices. And knowing becomes loving, and as we grow in that love, it drives out the initial fear.There is a saying.
You do not think your way into good living.
You live your way into good thinking.
I guess I am exploring that idea within the context of following God’s will.
What do you think?
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