If no TLM, is it sinning to not attend NO mass?

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That’s the common technique of many here. We begin a conversation and one usually goes off on a tangent at some point about clown Masses, cheesehead hats, etc.

That’s a bunch of malarky too. First the OP had no idea what sort of OF Masses he would have access to. He chose not to go before he left home. Second as someone pointed out, one must have a well-formed conscience in order for them to reach a valid conclusion. The OP did not exhibit that quality in the original post.

What do you mean by “liberalism?” Along with “liturgical abuse” and “modernist” it’s one of the most over-used and misused words on these forums.
There’s really no point to even trying to have a discussion. For so many Catholics it’s like watching the collapse of a house built on sand and insisting that its a firm foundation. It doesn’t matter how negative the effects of certain novelties, they must be good simply because they are allowed.
 
For the English impaired,

**no 2 **(nhttp://img.tfd.com/hm/GIF/omacr.gif)
adj. **1. **Not any; not one; not a: No cookies are left.
**2. **Not at all; not close to being: He is no child.
**3. **Hardly any: got there in no time flat.

thefreedictionary.com/No
In all honesty, I never considered the connotation of “NO Mass” until it was brought up in CAF. I always understood it as an abbreviation for “Novus Ordo Missae”.
 
I wasn’t taking shots at the Ordinary Form. I was taking a shot at the distortion of the Mass that so many parishes try to pass off as the Ordinary Form.
Fear not, Ryan. We have one member here who, sadly, is apparently arrogant and decides what people’s motivations are when they speak. Even after you declare what you mean when you say something, he/she accuses you of lying and tells you what you REALLY mean. I think it best that we ignore such pitiable behavior.:sad_yes:
 
What is it with people talking about guitars and drums? I’ve never heard those in Church.
You’re lucky. I was once priviledged to here an instrumental version of the Red Hot Chili Pepper’s “Under the Bridge” after communion. :(:mad:
 
You’re lucky. I was once priviledged to here an instrumental version of the Red Hot Chili Pepper’s “Under the Bridge” after communion. :(:mad:
Drums and guitars aren’t so bad…I had to watch a bishop go on and on speaking in “tongues” after a rock version of the Gloria 😦
 
Pickguard1, thanks for your thoughtful response. I guess I was expecting more dialog of this nature than some that has ensued.

stevusmagnus, thanks for being an ally and giving me food for thought as well.

Given all these responses, I have much to consider. Hopefully, I’ll be able to ask difficult questions like this in the future and the replies will be thoughtful and considerate. Nonetheless, I thank you all for your insight.

Peace in Christ, Greg
Unfortunately, sometimes emotions get in the way when these topics are brought up. I used to get emotional, too - but I have found that it ultimately ends up leading no where. I’d rather focus on addressing issues calmly and without personal attacks - somthing along the lines of “hate the sin, love the sinner.” I’ve changed my position on several issues since visiting these forums. I am still a staunch traditionalist, but I am softer on judging people than I used to be - I don’t like to be judged in the internet vacuum, so I shouldn’t submit others to that treatment either. Rather, it’s more beneficial to use my time looking up the resources that support (or contradict) my opinions/beliefs rather than writing a witty sarcastic personal attack disguised as humility and riteousness. It’s this research that has deepened my faith as well as understanding The Faith.
 
Drums and guitars aren’t so bad…I had to watch a bishop go on and on speaking in “tongues” after a rock version of the Gloria 😦
:eek:

I love drums and guitars (I play both). But Metallica and Eric Clapton should be reserved to the secular arena. (Although I must admit there is probably an abundant amount of ecclisiastical music that has been adapted for classical guitar - using that would at least show good fatih in trying to promote holy music, which admittedly, Metallica, Eric Clapton and the Red Hot Chili Peppers are not;))
 
Since gong to the TLM, I have on several occasions been to NO masses for various reasons. I have seen priests give communion to people who stuffed it in their pockets and purses and walked out the door. I have seen people attend in bikini tops (I’m not saying you have to dress to the hilt but this is a little extreme). I have heard sermons where they have taught that the eucharist is just bread (I am not making this up!). I have heard them say we no longer need to pray the rosary. I’m sure this does not go on everywhere but, being that i have only attended occasionally, it is amazing what I have seen and heard. It truly makes me wonder what goes on at other times.
Look, I like to hear a TLM mass whenever I can, but I go to a parish with my family where it is not offered (it’s a good parish nonetheless). Having sat through many, many NO masses over the years, I have seen abuses of modesty with regard to dress but never a bikini and never any of the other things you describe.

If it is really true that you yourself have seen all these things, including “people who stuffed [the Communion wafer] in pockets and purses,” then you have attended a parish so corrupt that it shocks the conscience.

On the other hand, if you are exaggerating, or conflating your testimony with that of others and presenting it as yours alone, then you are bearing false witness against the accepted rite of the Church, and the Church itself.
 
Look, I like to hear a TLM mass whenever I can, but I go to a parish with my family where it is not offered (it’s a good parish nonetheless). Having sat through many, many NO masses over the years, I have seen abuses of modesty with regard to dress but never a bikini and never any of the other things you describe.

If it is really true that you yourself have seen all these things, including “people who stuffed [the Communion wafer] in pockets and purses,” then you have attended a parish so corrupt that it shocks the conscience.

On the other hand, if you are exaggerating, or conflating your testimony with that of others and presenting it as yours alone, then you are bearing false witness against the accepted rite of the Church, and the Church itself.
While such things are truly hard to believe, they do happen. Just the other week a member of our Latin Mass community found a host stuffed in a pew, where the offering envelopes are kept. The attention and reverence displayed by our priest in cleaning the area was amazing and took a good 30 minutes. Afterwards he told us he’d seen worse in one parish where there was a continuous problem of hosts being found in the missalettes. 😦
 
While such things are truly hard to believe, they do happen.(
For sure, they happen. What I am questioning is whether one witness who attends NO masses rarely could have seen all of these things.

And, it’s not as though at a vernacular Mass, the desecration of the host is ignored. At one NO Mass I attended, it dramatically halted the liturgy. Not for 30 minutes but for a good 10-15.
 
For sure, they happen. What I am questioning is whether one witness who attends NO masses rarely could have seen all of these things.
Logically speaking, if grave abuses occur at a particular parish by a particular priest, it is likely that one could assist at mass there very infrequently and see an abuse every time. In my experience, priests who are prone to fiddle with the Mass, or allow irreverent/sacriledgious (spelling?) behavior do so on a regular basis, rather than once in a while.

Of course, you are absolutely correct in stating that if anyone exaggerates or makes up such a thing, this is a grave sin against the commandment to not bear false witness, as well as being a source of scandal for others, especially those who suffer from scrupulosity.
 
Listen folks. I would not make any of this up. Like you said, it would be a grave sin and I have no need to go down that road. I can be more precise about the Eucharist incident.

My boss and I were in SC looking at possibly moving our business there. This was around 1997. We attended Sunday mass (even though I am a traditionalist I did feel that I should honor the Lord’s day so I went with my boss, You see, I actually used to feel this way!!!) Anyway, after communion (I did not receive), I saw 2 people standing on opposite ends of the communion rail. I was wondering why when I saw the priest go over to an elderly man on one side and hand him a Host. I watched at this man proceeded to put the Host in his jacket pocket. Next, the priest walks over to the other side and hands an elderly woman a Host which she, in turn, drops in her purse and walks off. I presumed they were doing this so that they could bring it home to someone who is no longer able to attend mass. However, for whatever the reason, I found this appalling. I looked over at my boss and even he was stunned. So, that’s what happened. I’m sorry if you can’t believe this but that doesn’t change the fact that it happened. If you still want to accuse me, please, by all means, go ahead. I know in my heart what happened and that won’t change.

As always, Peace! Greg
 
First off, you must never attend a non-Catholic mass, this includes Orthodox, Presbyterian, anything.

If TLM is not available by indult, you could look for a FSSP or SSPX mass to help you out. The SSPV and CMRI are Sedevacanists and their masses should not be attended.

Alternatively you could attend an Eastern Catholic mass.

However if you’ve exhausted all these options, you have to attend the OF of mass.

Laus Deo
 
falco,

You don’t have to explain yourself. You presented your case and you have no reason to be untruthful.

Instead of judging your intentions we should be judging the actions you witnessed.
 
Listen folks. I would not make any of this up. Like you said, it would be a grave sin and I have no need to go down that road. I can be more precise about the Eucharist incident.

My boss and I were in SC looking at possibly moving our business there. This was around 1997. We attended Sunday mass (even though I am a traditionalist I did feel that I should honor the Lord’s day so I went with my boss, You see, I actually used to feel this way!!!) Anyway, after communion (I did not receive), I saw 2 people standing on opposite ends of the communion rail. I was wondering why when I saw the priest go over to an elderly man on one side and hand him a Host. I watched at this man proceeded to put the Host in his jacket pocket. Next, the priest walks over to the other side and hands an elderly woman a Host which she, in turn, drops in her purse and walks off. I presumed they were doing this so that they could bring it home to someone who is no longer able to attend mass. However, for whatever the reason, I found this appalling. I looked over at my boss and even he was stunned. So, that’s what happened. I’m sorry if you can’t believe this but that doesn’t change the fact that it happened. If you still want to accuse me, please, by all means, go ahead. I know in my heart what happened and that won’t change.

As always, Peace! Greg
No doubt what you saw were EMHC taking the Sacrament to distribute to those who could not attend Mass. I have seen very similar incidents in our local parishes and was equally appalled. I don’t doubt their good intentions but the way some of them handle the most Blessed Sacrament is disturbing. I remember watching one EMHC go to the tabernacle before Mass, place the host(s) in a pyx, place the pyx in his shirt pocket and proceed to attend Mass and visit with fellow parishoners. In contrast, when I lived in a priory of traditional priests I had to assist one of the priests in taking communion to a woman in the hospital. As he was carrying the Sacrament out of the chapel, everyone was on their knees and silence was observed. The whole time we were driving to the hospital we prayed the rosary and up until the host was consumed we kept as much silence and reverence as was possible.

As a side note, burses, made to wear around the neck, are made for the purpose of carrying the Blessed Sacrament in a pyx in a dignified manner. EMHC should be using those instead of stuffing the pyx in their pockets or purses.
 
Listen folks. I would not make any of this up. Like you said, it would be a grave sin and I have no need to go down that road. I can be more precise about the Eucharist incident.

My boss and I were in SC looking at possibly moving our business there. This was around 1997. We attended Sunday mass (even though I am a traditionalist I did feel that I should honor the Lord’s day so I went with my boss, You see, I actually used to feel this way!!!) Anyway, after communion (I did not receive), I saw 2 people standing on opposite ends of the communion rail. I was wondering why when I saw the priest go over to an elderly man on one side and hand him a Host. I watched at this man proceeded to put the Host in his jacket pocket. Next, the priest walks over to the other side and hands an elderly woman a Host which she, in turn, drops in her purse and walks off. I presumed they were doing this so that they could bring it home to someone who is no longer able to attend mass. However, for whatever the reason, I found this appalling. I looked over at my boss and even he was stunned. So, that’s what happened. I’m sorry if you can’t believe this but that doesn’t change the fact that it happened. If you still want to accuse me, please, by all means, go ahead. I know in my heart what happened and that won’t change.

As always, Peace! Greg
I am sorry you had to see a priest who would allow someone to take the Eucharist to the sick without a pyx. That is awful. EMsHC in our parish are very strictly and repeatedly warned during their annual training that they must verify that each communicant consumes the Eucharist in their presence, and follow them back to their pew if they don’t, if need be. I’ve only seen them actually have to follow somebody once.

Of course, you know I still believe you have an obligation to try, unless you know for an actual fact that there isn’t a valid Mass available. It is like honoring your parents: even if they are terrible, you do your best to show respect when you have to be near them or have to mention them.

Maybe you can try this: You take the trouble to do research as to where the most likely place will be when you plan your trip. You go with your family to that place, even if it takes some extra effort to get there, you take a discrete seat near a door or in the back, you give the actual Mass a chance, and if it is more than you can endure, you leave. If the problems are lesser, your children will know what you’re talking about when you pray for greater reverence and fervor in the Church. In any event, you at least try. Your family sees how important it is to you to find a Mass when it is at all possible.

Who knows? You might have met with a priest as reverent as your own pastor. So while I think you were not unreasonable in having liturgical fears, you were not right in falling into liturgical despair. You were bound to at least try. When your children grow up, they will know they should always try, too, and what lengths that can call us to, when necessary.
 
How in the world can we assume that these were EM’s taking Communion to the sick? I know someone who takes Communion to the sick and it is all planned out. It certainly doesn’t involve going up to receive and slipping the Host into your pocket or purse! That is sacrilegious to say the least.
 
How in the world can we assume that these were EM’s taking Communion to the sick? I know someone who takes Communion to the sick and it is all planned out. It certainly doesn’t involve going up to receive and slipping the Host into your pocket or purse! That is sacrilegious to say the least.
Do you really think the priest would just give the host to someone who came up at the end of mass/ This is the way that EMHCs who bring communion to the sick are supposed to get the Eucharist to bring to them. They receive it from the priest after communion and then leave mass before the final blessing. And they probably did have a pyx because I have NEVER seen someone take communion to the sick without one and I doubt a priest would give a host to someone to bring to the sick without one.
 
How in the world can we assume that these were EM’s taking Communion to the sick? I know someone who takes Communion to the sick and it is all planned out. It certainly doesn’t involve going up to receive and slipping the Host into your pocket or purse! That is sacrilegious to say the least.
I agree sounds fishy to me - I certainly don’t think there is anything in the rubrics regarding bringing communion to the sick that allows for stuffing Our Lord in one’s pocket without the protection of a sacred vessel. Sacrilegious and a cause for scandal as well, since it’s done in front of everyone!
 
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