I'm confused. Matthew 1:24-25

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Allow me to clarify: Why do you believe scripture at all - any of it for any reason? Why does the bible have any value, even as a book?
Well, I believe the Gospels because they contain the life and teachings of Jesus?
It would have been an insult if there were brothers to give her care to someone else. However, a dutiful son who would not wish to leave His mother uncared for would provide as Jesus did.
Since there was not word in Aramaic of cousin, the term brother is used to signify kinsman. Most notable is Genisis calling Lot Abraham’s brother when he was his nephew. Such being the case there is not “fact” that the brothers of Jesus were in fact children of Mary. You may not have enough evidence but that is ignoring 2000 years of history.
Yeah, I accept it would be quite strange that Jesus left Mary to the care of John if he had siblings (though, Jesus’ request is only mentioned in John)

As I said before it’s hard to reach a conclusion based on the evidence to settle this other so you’re free in believing what you want to believe.
 
Well, I believe the Gospels because they contain the life and teachings of Jesus?
Says who? Popular vote? Who or what makes that which we call the bible a genuine document? Who guarantees it?
Yeah, I accept it would be quite strange that Jesus left Mary to the care of John if he had siblings (though, Jesus’ request is only mentioned in John)
John’s Gospel has a different purpose than the synoptic Gospels. Remember that Jesus said that the truth was established by two or three witnesses under Jewish law? The three parallel synoptic Gospels established the truth of the Gospel message. John’s Gospel was written some 30-50 years later, at the request of others in the Church. It reflects doctrinal development - ideas that were not expressed in the three synoptic Gospels. Is it any less genuine because of the passage of time and doctrinal development?
As I said before it’s hard to reach a conclusion based on the evidence to settle this other so you’re free in believing what you want to believe.
What you might be missing is that the same Church - the exact same continuous authority whose members wrote the new testament under inspiration; which three hundred years later tested all available writings that claimed to be scripture; which excluded many writings while including others in the canon; which then assembled and declared them to be the “bible” - is the exact same authority that has declared Mary to be ever virgin. The same living authority. So, why, I wonder, do you give greater credit to the bible than to later Church teachings? You admit that they are not contrary to scripture. If you doubt Church teaching on Mary, you must also doubt Church teaching that the bible is true and accurate. Both come from the same source. Remember that the bible is not based on even one original document. Not one. All of Matthew’s, Mark’s and Luke’s handwritten copies are long gone. We have only the word of those who handed the “copies of copies” down that they are genuine.

Not even the ten commandments are on the stone tablets. We have to trust that they have been handed down to us as they were.

Since you seem to think that a lot of Church teaching is sketchy, I must ask: are you a convert to the faith?
 
Well, I believe the Gospels because they contain the life and teachings of Jesus?

Yeah, I accept it would be quite strange that Jesus left Mary to the care of John if he had siblings (though, Jesus’ request is only mentioned in John)

As I said before it’s hard to reach a conclusion based on the evidence to settle this other so you’re free in believing what you want to believe.
There are things that a Catholic is free to believe or not to believe and still be in union with the Church but this isn’t one of them.
 
Not necessarily, like other things, these beliefs develop over time and would not have been present or widely held in the early Church.

While the fact that Jesus entrusted Mary to John on the cross could imply that he had no other siblings, he could also have just preferred that John take care of her and not his siblings.

Then there’s the fact that the brothers accompanied Jesus & Mary to Capernaum after the wedding at Cana (John 2:12 ) which implies them all being children of Mary (or possibly step-children from an earlier marriage of Joseph’s).

But it definitely is not a clear cut issue 🤷 We don’t have enough evidence to know either way.
I’d argue, but I rather give you all the links I have regarding the issue and let you do the research. I tried attacking it, not because I didn’t believe in the ever virginity of Blessed Mary but to test it to see if it held water, the evidence and arguments are too strong and I couldn’t find a way to rebuke it.

cantuar.blogspot.com/2009/12/virgin-marys-womb-as-ezekiels-closed.html

catholicsource.net/articles/perpetualvirginity.htm

bringyou.to/apologetics/a27.htm

bringyou.to/apologetics/a82.htm

catholic.com/tracts/mary-ever-virgin

catholic.com/tracts/brethren-of-the-lord

newadvent.org/fathers/0847.htm

newadvent.org/summa/4028.htm#article3

Enjoy the reading 👍
 
If James “the brother of the Lord” was not worthy to care for his “mother” (John 19:26-27), why was he allowed to continue as an Apostle? The attack on Mary is an attack on Christ and Christianity.
James the Just wasn’t an Apostle. Jesus words from the Cross aren’t in indication of one person being less worthy than another. He has His reasons, one of which is very likely for us to understand Mary was given to us all as our own Mother, and also, given into our care.
 
Ok, this issue isn’t really big enough for me to argue either way (and the evidence is not conclusive to allow me to do so either) so I’m fine with saying that Mary’s perpetual virginity is plausible.
So, why, I wonder, do you give greater credit to the bible than to later Church teachings?
Because the NT is based on eyewitness accounts wheras the later Church teachings seem to be extrapolated from the Bible and developed over centuries of theological speculation - rather than any new revelation or primary sources.
Since you seem to think that a lot of Church teaching is sketchy, I must ask: are you a convert to the faith?
Actually, I was raised in a staunchly Catholic family (one with strong devotion to Mary too) -but yes it don’t think that everything the Church has ever taught is always true, nor to me is it necessary that it should.
 
Yes there certaintly isn’t much about the Virgin Mary in the Bible is there after the birth of Jesus , the wine at cana, her at the foott of the cross, nothing about her death, not much at all, so I do agree its hard to know.
 
Ok, this issue isn’t really big enough for me to argue either way (and the evidence is not conclusive to allow me to do so either) so I’m fine with saying that Mary’s perpetual virginity is plausible.

Because the NT is based on eyewitness accounts wheras the later Church teachings seem to be extrapolated from the Bible and developed over centuries of theological speculation - rather than any new revelation or primary sources.

Actually, I was raised in a staunchly Catholic family (one with strong devotion to Mary too) -but yes it don’t think that everything the Church has ever taught is always true, nor to me is it necessary that it should.
Well if you believe the Bible is based on eyewitness accounts and that is good enough for you, then you have to believe the promises Jesus made to His Church as recorded in the Bible. He told His apostles He would be with them until the end of time, send the Holy Spirit to them into all truth, and He would never abandon them (us).

The things the Church teaches are true or Jesus made false promises.

The apsotles are all dead. Time is not ended. He must still be leading someone into all truth. Who might that be?

He also told His apostles that there was much He wanted to tell them, but they could not bear it (understand) yet. That was just before He made the promise about the Holy Spirit leading them into ALL truth, and the end of time statement.

But if you believe the Bible and reject the Church that seems to make you a Protestant. That is a Protestant view, certainly not Catholic.
 
Ok, this issue isn’t really big enough for me to argue either way (and the evidence is not conclusive to allow me to do so either) so I’m fine with saying that Mary’s perpetual virginity is plausible.
Plausible? I can drive you to the house of a man and wife, married for 30 years, and both still virgin. Odd, I know, but if sinful humans can achieve this - without vowing before God - why do you suffer from self-imposed incredulity?
Because the NT is based on eyewitness accounts wheras the later Church teachings seem to be extrapolated from the Bible and developed over centuries of theological speculation - rather than any new revelation or primary sources.
The bible is meaningless without the Catholic Church telling you that it has meaning! There is not a single original document left. Not one signature. Antiques Road Show® would devalue the bible due to its lack of provenance! Yet, you remain credulous.

The Church says one thing - you believe it.
The Church says another - you doubt. :confused:
Actually, I was raised in a staunchly Catholic family (one with strong devotion to Mary too) -but yes it don’t think that everything the Church has ever taught is always true, nor to me is it necessary that it should.
If truth does not matter, you are in the wrong faith.
 
James the Just wasn’t an Apostle. Jesus words from the Cross aren’t in indication of one person being less worthy than another. He has His reasons, one of which is very likely for us to understand Mary was given to us all as our own Mother, and also, given into our care.
My bad on the wrong James.
 
For Catholics from the catechism (bolding mine):

2089 **Incredulity is the neglect of revealed truth or the willful refusal to assent to it. **“Heresy is the obstinate post-baptismal denial of some truth which must be believed with divine and catholic faith, or it is likewise an obstinate doubt concerning the same; apostasy is the total repudiation of the Christian faith; schism is the refusal of submission to the Roman Pontiff or of communion with the members of the Church subject to him.”
 
Just to add a link:
scripturecatholic.com/blessed_virgin_mary.html#the_bvm-VIII

Try this, it’s a great explanation of the “not until”

-k
Thanks for posting the link, lots of interesting stuff, esp. this.

"Hail, Mary, you are the most precious creature in the whole world; hail, Mary, uncorrupt dove; hail, Mary, inextinguishable lamp; for from you was born the Sun of justice…through you, every faithful soul achieves salvation.” Cyril of Alexandria, Homily 11 at Ephesus (A.D. 431).

I am taking the SUN is an error and meant to mean Son, and the SUN of Justice is to mean Jesus the son of God.

also does it mean because the VM gave birth to Jesus, through her is our salvation?

and the assumption, why is there no where in the bible a word about the VM death, and she stayed with John, why did he not talk about Mary, we don’t even know when she died.

Dont get me wrong I surely think the Blessed Virgin Mary is full of grace, and remained a virigin, and is very special in heaven,

but we have to remember Jesus said who are my brothers and mother, whoever does the will of God are my brothers and mother.

While unsure of whom all thes quotes are from but now it sure seems everyone has a different interpretation of the Scriptures, and well to add to them and assuming stuff thats not in them, is worst than interpreting what is there wrong.
 
Plausible? I can drive you to the house of a man and wife, married for 30 years, and both still virgin. Odd, I know, but if sinful humans can achieve this - without vowing before God - why do you suffer from self-imposed incredulity?
Hey, I said it’s plausible - I don’t have to believe it’s true unless the evidence is more conclusive (if the evidence was conclusive, the Protestants would believe it too).

Anyway, in the grand scheme of things I fail to see how Mary’s perpetual virginity makes much of a difference.
The bible is meaningless without the Catholic Church telling you that it has meaning! There is not a single original document left. Not one signature. Antiques Road Show® would devalue the bible due to its lack of provenance! Yet, you remain credulous.
Hardly, do your homework - the books of the Bible have been copied and passed down quite faithfully through the centuries, the Bible is by far the best attested of any writings of antiquity.

And we don’t have any originals of lots of other historical documents as well and yet we don’t assume that say the Illiad wasn’t written by Homer
The Church says one thing - you believe it.
The Church says another - you doubt. :confused:
Or rather, the Church says one thing, supported by reason and evidence - I believe it
The Church says another thing, not supported by reason or evidence - I doubt.
If truth does not matter, you are in the wrong faith
I can assure you that to me the truth matters, indeed it matters enough for me to investigate claims for myself rather than rely on other people telling me what to believe.
 
The first English Bible was the Geneva Bible in 1560, then the RCC printed the Douay-Rheims NT in 1582 and the OT in 1609 in English.
 
"Hail, Mary, you are the most precious creature in the whole world; hail, Mary, uncorrupt dove; hail, Mary, inextinguishable lamp; for from you was born the Sun of justice…through you, every faithful soul achieves salvation.” Cyril of Alexandria, Homily 11 at Ephesus (A.D. 431).

I am taking the SUN is an error and meant to mean Son, and the SUN of Justice is to mean Jesus the son of God.
It’s not: there are many (devotional) symbolic references to Jesus as the “sun”.
also does it mean because the VM gave birth to Jesus, through her is our salvation?
Yes, but be careful how you take this: does this mean that Mary is the cause of Jesus Christ, or simply the vehicle through which He is born? The latter, for sure! But, that doesn’t mean that she’s like a literal vehicle: we toss cars into the dump once they get rusty and unable to perform; Mary, though, is a person, and the person who God chose for the birth of his son, at that! So, we praise her, since she’s the person through whom our salvation, Jesus, came into the world!
and the assumption, why is there no where in the bible a word about the VM death, and she stayed with John, why did he not talk about Mary, we don’t even know when she died.
You have to ask yourself what the purpose of the Bible is. Is it to give a history of “the Jesus family”? Is it to tell a story or write down history in the way we do, these days? No – it’s to tell the story of Salvation History, and the birth, ministry, death, and resurrection of Jesus is part of that tale! (But what happened at the end of Mary’s life is not part of that tale.) Does that mean that this info isn’t important? No – just that it’s not part of the main story…
to add to them and assuming stuff thats not in them, is worst than interpreting what is there wrong.
That’s just it – Catholics aren’t adding to Scripture here: there’s no attempt to add these beliefs to Scripture! But, that doesn’t mean that the totality of our belief is words in a book! Jesus didn’t say, “you are Peter, and on this rock I’m gonna write a book”! He said, “an on this rock I will build my church”… and this Church is a living, breathing entity (since it’s made up of living, breathing people!). The Church has its own memory, and it holds onto its memories as preciously as a mother holds onto her memories of her children. Part of that memory is the remembrance that Mary was a virgin all her life, and that, at the time of the end of her life, she was taken up to heaven.

Does that help?
 
Hey, I said it’s plausible - I don’t have to believe it’s true unless the evidence is more conclusive (if the evidence was conclusive, the Protestants would believe it too). Anyway, in the grand scheme of things I fail to see how Mary’s perpetual virginity makes much of a difference. Hardly, do your homework - the books of the Bible have been copied and passed down quite faithfully through the centuries, the Bible is by far the best attested of any writings of antiquity. And we don’t have any originals of lots of other historical documents as well and yet we don’t assume that say the Illiad wasn’t written by Homer Or rather, the Church says one thing, supported by reason and evidence - I believe it The Church says another thing, not supported by reason or evidence - I doubt. I can assure you that to me the truth matters, indeed it matters enough for me to investigate claims for myself rather than rely on other people telling me what to believe.
You claim Catholic, but speak Protestant. Quite a dichotomy…
 
You claim Catholic, but speak Protestant. Quite a dichotomy…
Catholicism is broader than you think. I don’t see how I closer to Protestantism than Catholicism, I don’t believe sola fide or sola scriptura and accept the Catholic Church as the one, true, apostolic church founded by Christ.
 
Catholicism is broader than you think. I don’t see how I closer to Protestantism than Catholicism, I don’t believe sola fide or sola scriptura and accept the Catholic Church as the one, true, apostolic church founded by Christ.
Instead of doubting, why not begin studying? Read into the doctrine. Pray over it. Go before our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament and ask Him to grant you peace regarding Church teaching on His mother. If we do not constantly seek the truth, we do not serve the truth.
 
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