To the OP–I’m sure your friend meant no more then the concern for you that Fr. Vincent Sherpa gave in his reply in the apologetics thread. Something to think about anyway.
"Dear friend,
The Church has given permission for certain lay people to administer the Eucharist. These are people that have not consecrated the bread and wine. Only the priest can do that. They are simply people who have been incorporated into the Body of Christ by their baptism and are helping the priest distribute the sacrament. **We are all called to obey the Church in such matters.**Faith is not a matter of feeling. It a matter of the will. You have allowed the matter of who gives you the Eucharist to be more important to you than Who it is you are receiving. Think about it and will to accept this in spite of your feelings. The feelings will eventually diminish. . . .