Scitor: It was Peter in the first sermon on the Day of Pentecost in Acts 2 says, “Repent and be baptized.” Infants cannot repent. In every example of baptism in the bible, baptism is preceded by belief in Christ and repentance.
You are laboring under the misapprehension that the Catholic Church believes faith is not required for baptism, which is false.
As Damascene says (De Fide Orth. ii), “God does not compel man to be righteous.” Consequently in order that a man be justified by Baptism, his will must needs embrace both Baptism and the baptismal effect. Now, a man is said to be insincere by reason of his will being in contradiction with either Baptism or its effect. For, according to Augustine (De Bapt. cont. Donat. vii), a man is said to be insincere, in four ways: first, because he does not believe, whereas Baptism is the sacrament of Faith; secondly, through scorning the sacrament itself; thirdly, through observing a rite which differs from that prescribed by the Church in conferring the sacrament; fourthly, through approaching the sacrament without devotion. Wherefore it is manifest that insincerity hinders the effect of Baptism.
(ST III, 69, 9)
Infants cannot believe themselves, but the Church supplies the intention for them.
The spiritual regeneration effected by Baptism is somewhat like carnal birth, in this respect, that as the child while in the mother’s womb receives nourishment not independently, but through the nourishment of its mother, so also children before the use of reason, being as it were in the womb of their mother the Church, receive salvation not by their own act, but by the act of the Church. Hence Augustine says (De Pecc. Merit. et Remiss. i): “The Church, our mother, offers her maternal mouth for her children, that they may imbibe the sacred mysteries: for they cannot as yet with their own hearts believe unto justice, nor with their own mouths confess unto salvation . . . And if they are rightly said to believe, because in a certain fashion they make profession of faith by the words of their sponsors, why should they not also be said to repent, since by the words of those same sponsors they evidence their renunciation of the devil and this world?” For the same reason they can be said to intend, not by their own act of intention, since at times they struggle and cry; but by the act of those who bring them to be baptized.
(ST III, 68, 9)
Your claim that infants cannot be baptized because they cannot believe cuts both ways. If they cannot believe, they cannot be saved, because Christ said, He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned. If infants do not believe in any sense, they are damned. Additionally, Scripture speaks to the necessity of baptism, as our Lord said to Nicodemus, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.
Scitor: I am by no means saying Catholics are wrong. I am just saying when I get on my hands and knees to pray that God fills me with the wisdom of His Word, the beliefs he confirms in me most closely aligns to the Southern Baptist doctrine. There are many things I like about the Catholic Church, but at the same time, many things I disagree with.
You bring up an interesting point. How do we know the truth? I think we have to admit from an empirical standpoint that there are many people who are devout and pray regularly to believe correctly concerning religion, but who differ substantially on what they believe concerning religion. I’m sure you do not think that there are no Presbyterians, Methodists or Anglicans who pray devoutly but all disagree with each other and with you. Muslims probably pray to God more that most Christians, but they still are set in a belief contrary to Christ. Even among two devout Catholics, you will find many who disagree in matters of religion (though hopefully not in contradiction to any dogmas of the Church). I think from this evidence, unless we take a very dim view of everyone else’s soul besides our own, we will have to say that we cannot decide true doctrine solely on the basis of whoever prays the most or whoever “has the Holy Spirit” the most. How can we be certain that our convictions are from God? The disunity and disagreement we see cannot be the work of God.